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If it makes you feel better, those kind of people never live long. Sooner than later, they'll try the same crap with someone well armed and they'll get a fistful of lead right between the eyes.

I ****ing hate thieves, I've had enough of them here in Colombia. I've been robbed 9 times now and stabbed twice and it's never any easier.
 

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Some food for thought if you get a gun. To safely defend yourself against attack you will need twenty one feet away from assailants to draw and aim. Anything closer and you risk getting gun taken from you or a struggle ensues. In addition if you shoot someone point blank in the head they can still attack you for approximately six seconds before they die.
 

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And you know what, it's not even about me. I can take an ass whipping. A few ice packs, some TLC from the GF I will be fine. But I hae a family now man. I just keep thinking what if.. you know, we were leaving the bowling alley and it wasn't me at a night club. I don't like the thought of being that helpless. I'd rather die than to see someone harm my fiancee or my son.
 

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Kerpal said:
Then kill everyone immediately. That's my plan.

Then you're going to jail for murder. fwiw, I think you should be able to blow away muggers, but the law does not care what you or I think. If you shoot someone, unless maybe a trespasser in Texas or Florida, you're going to get into trouble with the law.

Although I highly respect the skill and training involved in handling a firearm well, I still believe that developing open-hand skills are the best route for most able-bodied men. And fwiw, it is possible to fight multiple attackers. Most of it involves running; you run unless you're only fighting one guy at each moment. Two or three on 1 is a popular sparring drill for conditioning.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Then you're going to jail for murder. fwiw, I think you should be able to blow away muggers, but the law does not care what you or I think. If you shoot someone, unless maybe a trespasser in Texas or Florida, you're going to get into trouble with the law.
I live in Florida. We have very liberal self defense laws here. Not only would I not be charged, I would be immune from civil liability. But even if I wasn't, if my life was in danger (and I would consider it to be if I was being beaten by 3 men), I'd shoot first and deal with the legal system later. I'd rather be alive and facing a civil suit than beaten to death.

Although I highly respect the skill and training involved in handling a firearm well, I still believe that developing open-hand skills are the best route for most able-bodied men. And fwiw, it is possible to fight multiple attackers. Most of it involves running; you run unless you're only fighting one guy at each moment. Two or three on 1 is a popular sparring drill for conditioning.
Unarmed training is OK, but when it comes to actual self defense it's no substitute for a gun. I know you do MMA, and MMA is the closest sport to a real fight, but it's still a sport with rules and referees. True self defense is not a sport and a lot of stuff that works great for MMA doesn't apply.
 
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True self defense is not a sport


Absolutely. I agree very much. mma is kind of a joke compared to the very old Japanese jiu-jitsu and judo. A lot of techniques have been lost over the past hundred years, because they do not transition well to becoming a tournament sport. Eyes-throat-crotch are the best targets for striking, but that isn't allowed in competitions for the sake of safety. A lot of judo throws originally included mid-air arm bars, but that too would be impossible to practice safely.

Like I said, Texas and Florida are the best states in which to shoot an attacker. New York and California are the worst.
 
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Heres a very informative site for self defense situations http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/

I haven't read it in a while but the overall theme at that site is that at the end of the day do your best not to get into a self defense situation in the first place etc. Not trying to say backbreaker had any fault in getting into that unfortunate situation though. Wishing you well dude.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
They always talk about how the country used to be a friendlier place, but they never say why. A hundred years ago, everybody carried a gun.

Check out the Sig Sauer P226 X-Five with the brown grips.

Sorry to hear about this mang
Yeah, there's a gray area surrounding open/concealed carry in a location where alcohol is served. Don't know about the policy for the bar he was at but usually it's a No Weapons (guns/knives/menacing looking stuff) policy across the board in bars/clubs and other alcohol-serving venues.

Even if he did carry one, since he's a law abiding citizen it would have been in his vehicle. Criminals know this and they specifically target people who are in a vulnerable position (leaving a bar, intoxicated, and 99% chance not carrying a defensive tool).

Unlucky bb, but it could have been worse.

Onlyliveonce said:
Some food for thought if you get a gun. To safely defend yourself against attack you will need twenty one feet away from assailants to draw and aim. Anything closer and you risk getting gun taken from you or a struggle ensues. In addition if you shoot someone point blank in the head they can still attack you for approximately six seconds before they die.
Perhaps you mean heart? If you shoot somebody in the brain or the central nervous system, they're dead or incapacitated before the round exits the body.

Bible_Belt said:
Although I highly respect the skill and training involved in handling a firearm well, I still believe that developing open-hand skills are the best route for most able-bodied men. And fwiw, it is possible to fight multiple attackers. Most of it involves running; you run unless you're only fighting one guy at each moment. Two or three on 1 is a popular sparring drill for conditioning.
This is okay in a controlled and respectful environment. Not so for fighting off muggers and criminals. If I get jumped on the street my first assumption is that he/they has a weapon. Step one is run. If I cannot run then step two is to end their attack, which means 3 hollow points to the chest.

Drawing a sub-compact pistol or snubbie revolver within arms reach of your assailant is a dangerous gambit, but proper training can make it manageable in a majority of real-life scenarios.

Ever try sparring against someone who might pull a knife/pipe/knuckleduster/screwdriver on you?

Until you train MMA in life and death scenarios, it shouldn't be relied upon as a means of self-defense. Sure it will work for improvising, but when you're getting jumped by 3 criminals in the dark, that's the time when you want a real method of self-defense.

Mine currently are 1. running shoes 2. 3" lockback knife in waistband 3. firearm where legalities allow (outside urban areas).

This country sucks for self-defense. ;) Women can't even carry OC-spray. It's a free for all here if you're a criminal.

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if you think it about it, 99.9% of the people out there, don't really carry ****, dont' really have any way to defend themselves in that instance. basically you are just depending on good will. fuuuuck that.
The 99.9% of people are victims waiting to happen. Don't want to turn this into another firearms debate, but I would strongly recommend you get the open/concealed carry license. If you're carrying a sub-compact pistol, it doesn't mean you HAVE to use it. In many cases I'd rather take a punch to the gut and have my car stolen than have to shoot somebody. However sometimes you have obligations...

Imagine if your fiancee or your kid was there?

At least if you're carrying, you have something to fall back on if it becomes life or death or you have to protect your family.
 
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Quiksilver said:
If you're carrying a sub-compact pistol, it doesn't mean you HAVE to use it.
I'm for concealed and carry firearms. It does however change the legal dynamic against you unfortunately.

If you are carrying a gun and 1 guy on the street starts a fight and punches you for no good reason even if he's not mugging you, because you are carrying a deadly weapon you are obligated to walk away because you are carrying that deadly weapon.

If you fight back (rightfully) in a regular fist fight and the cops show up it's YOU on the hot seat because you have a deadly weapon on you and you were engaging in a fist fight that could escalate. The thought of that just p*sses me off because legally carrying a gun can save your life but there are downsides unfortunately.
 

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backbreaker said:
outside a bar/night club, went to go meet up with some friends. got beat up pretty bad, broken ribs, took my car which is why i'm sure i got targeted. just got released from hospital. i'm sore but i'm fine. just happy some broken ribs and a busted face is all I got. I can replace the car.
That sucks.....hope you recover soon.

Can you give us some more details? Where were you? Did they say anything? Act like they had a gun? Pull you out and just beat you? Details?????
 

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1. leaving a jazz club

2. no

3. no but i wasn't taking the chance. was dark out

4. waited utnil i unlocked the door and snuck up on me and got me. it is what it is


I appricate the responses. I'm fine as I said just sore. Just to show you how... I don't know what the word I am looking for is, out there some people can be, there is another forum I visit from time to time that I mentioned it to, and basically was told that I got what I deserved. This in response to me casually mentioning to a dude in a conversation that a woman telling me that she has a boyfriend would not be a deterrent to me talking to her (gasp) for ovbious reasons, was branded as some type of woman hater dude that goes up breaking happy homes or something, queue the white knight that says I dont' act like that and the fat hounds congratulating him for being "a real man" lol. Haterism runs deep in some people. You know when something like that happens it's time to put aside your like and dislike for someone and just be thankful they are okay. Anyway thanks.
 

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Here in New Jersey the other day, a man working at a gas station got robbed at gunpoint. Two of the guys had guns... one had a handgun, the other had a shotgun.

The gas station guy panicked and struggled it seems.

He got shot in the chest.

Backbreaker, be glad that wasn't you and that anything that happened to you, can be healed over time.

Unfortunately here in New Jersey, you really need to be an ex-cop or ex-gov in order to CCW, which means that you are left to fend for yourself is someone wants to break the law.

But all in all, I'm glad you are okay.

And I've learned the hard way that no matter what you know... 3 on 1 rarely works for the hero in real life.
 

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Actually Quiksilver it is the head. During a training session an officer described shooting a deranged man in the head and he still came after him attempting to take the gun away. The deranged man was on PCP.
 

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Franky Four Fingers said:
I'm for concealed and carry firearms. It does however change the legal dynamic against you unfortunately.

If you are carrying a gun and 1 guy on the street starts a fight and punches you for no good reason even if he's not mugging you, because you are carrying a deadly weapon you are obligated to walk away because you are carrying that deadly weapon.

If you fight back (rightfully) in a regular fist fight and the cops show up it's YOU on the hot seat because you have a deadly weapon on you and you were engaging in a fist fight that could escalate. The thought of that just p*sses me off because legally carrying a gun can save your life but there are downsides unfortunately.
I guess that's the responsibility part of liberty. You have the personal liberty to carry a firearm in public, but the responsibility to de-escalate a hairy situation.

I see what you mean but I don't really have a problem with that legal distinction. I see it as the adult-child paradigm, where a child can throw a tantrum (guy attacks you on the street), and it's the adults job to not get caught up in the immaturity (talk the situation down or walk away).

Been in a couple fights myself a long time ago and I think back on it shamefully. I wished I'd just walked away, but I suppose it was a pride/ego thing. Sure there are times to stand your ground and defend yourself, but street fights and bar fights are just petty and shameful to get involved in.

If you've been outside the western bubble and seen some of the world, you'd know there's a time to fight and to get angry, and a time to take it easy and see petty violence for what it is -- childish.

Seeing civilians lined up against a wall and shot makes me angry and stirs my fighting emotions, a 7 year old girl being kidnapped and sexually assaulted makes me angry, and anybody threatening my family would cause the same reaction. Those are times to fight.

Some guy trying to pick a fight with you on the street? Please... I thought we all got over that **** in junior high. If I have no obligations to protect anybody, I run away knowing that if he was stupid enough to back me into a corner, he would end up in a casket and I would end up explaining my actions to a jury. Then suing his family for legal fees and emotional trauma, and sending them a bill for replacement of the bullets I used.

What's that fitting quote? Great power and great responsibility? Something like that.

edit: If it's just for fun, sport, or training then I enjoy fighting.

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Actually Quiksilver it is the head. During a training session an officer described shooting a deranged man in the head and he still came after him attempting to take the gun away. The deranged man was on PCP.
If you see the cop again, ask him if he was using 9mm or .40 :) That's pretty scary, must have missed the brain but still. Talk about zombies!
 

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Quiksilver said:
Some guy trying to pick a fight with you on the street? Please... I thought we all got over that **** in junior high. If I have no obligations to protect anybody, I run away knowing that if he was stupid enough to back me into a corner, he would end up in a casket and I would end up explaining my actions to a jury. Then suing his family for legal fees and emotional trauma, and sending them a bill for replacement of the bullets I used.

What's that fitting quote? Great power and great responsibility? Something like that.
I hear what your saying about the picking a fight thing but I'm talking about for example, a sucker punch from some party guy drinking and because your carrying a gun you have to walk away. That's no fun but like you said the whole greater responsibility thing.

I mean if your a kid in the school yard and the local bully starts pushing you around physically and beating you down then you better get ready for that to happen for years to come unless you do something about it to stand up to them. Yes, the concealed carry thing doesn't apply there but I think you understand my point.
 

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got into a fight a year and a half ago.

I tried talking to the guy for 10 minutes that i didn't want to fight him. i just wanted to go home. I was chilling wit my boi outside his place. after he attacked my smaller friend twice. first time i pulled him off and split them up and insisted that "WE" did not want to fight and that he was drunk and should go home.

After the second choking of my friend. I beat the guy up. my friend took out soemthing from my car and although i diffused the situation he just complicated it further.

Went to court, was being charged for aggravated assualt, PIC, some other stuff. Spent 7k on lawyer fee's that i justed paid off last month as a 23 yearold and 1k on bail for myself and my brother who was mis-identified as my friend.

I also left the scene.

I got off scott free but was it worth it. hell no but i really wasn't left with much of a choice. Sometimes even if you do the right thing, you get the sh1t end of the stick.

I always watch my back at all times(was paranoid as a kid).
 

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At least the lawyers made money, AAA. That's what's important. :rolleyes:

I was thinking of the kubotan as one weapon that won't get a person in trouble: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kubotan

but wait...I now see that is not the case: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/edinburgh_and_east/8606969.stm

If 5" stick in untrained hands is a "dangerous weapon," I could see similar thinking used to invent a special charge like "fighting when you know what you're doing" and punishing an unarmed man as though he was already armed with a weapon...himself. From what I hear, it's pretty much that way already in court if they find out the defendant is a fighter of any kind. They instantly assume you're a violent monster and max out all punishments, bail, fines, and just give up on any presumption of innocence.

Regarding open hand skills as okay in a controlled and respectful environment. Not so for fighting off muggers and criminals, keep in mind that people fought without guns for thousands of years. The Japanese of the Samurai era were probably the best. Despite being small in physical stature, they defeated invading Pacific islanders who were often much bigger people (lots of Samoans in the NFL today, not so many Japanese). Having said all of that, the Samurais were also some of the first people to use firearms. This place - http://www.thelanesarmoury.co.uk/ - sells antique pistols that date from the 1500's.
 

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Get a tazer 10 day background check and it's sent to you on the mail. The things work. One drawback is there is only one cartridge. reloading with another cartridge takes two seconds.
 

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make sure there aren't any witness's if you're going to do something and don't leave any traceable evidence.

At least that's what my lawyer told me haha. I always tried to be a law abiding citizen but now that i see how bad the law can screw you for doing the right thing might as well learn my way around the law.

so if there aren't any witness's or any item/photo/video linking you to the incident its your word against theirs if they get beat and that goes no where until there's evidence. Just deny everything and they have nothing against you.
 

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