Got kicked out of supermarket

[escaleraroyal]

I was in the supermarket and i did an indirect approach, she was not receptive and i moved on....then security comes and says she complained about me on talking to her and he kicked me out. What a *****!

I told security that i didn't do anything and he can look at the videos in the cameras if he doesn't believe me. He told me to leave or I can get in trouble and I left. How could I get kick out of the supermarket for talking to a girl...

 

[dude99]

I was in the supermarket and i did an indirect approach, she was not receptive and i moved on....then security comes and says she complained about me on talking to her and he kicked me out. What a *****!

I told security that i didn't do anything and he can look at the videos in the cameras if he doesn't believe me. He told me to leave or I can get in trouble and I left. How could I get kick out of the supermarket for talking to a girl...

Welcome to the world of femanazis. The femanazis of the world now want to make it legal for women to have you charged with rape even if you weren't even there.

Well now that the supermarket has lost your business for being unreasonable, what you do now is go back and keep filling shopping carts with stuff and randomly leaving them all over the supermarket until they catch on and attempt to kick you out again. You probably will get to about 20. Then when they come to give you crap reply with " im so sorry but my dementia is really bad today."

 

[Atom Smasher]

There is more to this story than meets the eye.

OP, what precisely was said and what were the circumstances? Before I say "Charge it to the game", I need to know the facts.

This thread could go nowhere or it could end up being instructive.

 

[RangerMIke]

I was escorted out of a mall because a woman supposedly didn't like the way I was looking at her. Yep... that really happened. The best thing you can do is be polite and go along with it, then sue them. I sued the mall and I sued the store I was in the woman was the manager. I didn't win anything but I made them waste time and money on lawyers.

 

[dude99]

That's the spirit. That reminds me of the sort of sh*t I used to do as a kid.

Seriously, a woman grassing you up to security just for doing an indirect approach is a proper nutcase. It's a funny story though.

I typically find that it's masculine behaving women who get really shirty about being approached. Just say "have a really good day" and move on. You don't want to go out with someone that would constantly challenge you to an arm-wrestle anyway.

Bottom line is the woman didn't find the OP attractive. If she did she would have had zero problems with him approaching her.

 

[dude99]

if you are shooting out of your league in looks in particular there's a huge likelihood she will get extremely offended and do something crazy like this, you have to calculate risk/reward in every situation. At least here you pretty much got the worst case scenario...imagine someone going this crazy in your social circle, you would lose all your friends. I admit though that this sort of overthinking will hurt more than help when it comes to raw numbers.

If you are the prize then it doesn't matter if she is a 10 or a 1. You treat them the same. If they are crazy arrogant biatch then you next them.

 

[zekko]

I sued the mall and I sued the store I was in the woman was the manager. I didn't win anything but I made them waste time and money on lawyers.

Yeah, but did you also waste your time and money on lawyers, or did you just represent yourself?

I could see the guy getting kicked out if he's in there making multiple approaches, bugging the customers. But talking to one person and getting complained about? And especiallly for an indirect approach? The girl could be a b!tch, but I agree with Smasher, maybe there's more here than meets the eye.

 

[dude99]

Remember it's not always feminism, their are women out there that they honor their husbands and boyfriend with an iron claw. About twenty something years I was working in a store a bagger and the cashier asked me if I could answer the phone for her, I did and it was her sister, I greeted her and past the phone the cashier, the sister told the cashier tell 911 not to be saying to me because husband doesn't like that lol. 15 years later I ran into the cashier and her sister at the mall and she like do you remember my sister, I said no and made no eye contact with her, I bet she said I was rude lol.

What kid of greeting did you give her? It is way too funny when they over play their arrogance.

I had a similar episode, driving down the road this woman had left her trunk open and all the contents of her trunk were flying all over the road behind her. I pulled up beside her and was pointing at her trunk. She flashed me a glare like "eff off budfy" and kept going. I kept beside her and pointed again. She looked at me then looked away like i wasn't even there then hit the gas to speed away from me. More crap flew out of her trunk and she kept going. I followed behind her for the next few minutes and she pulled into a shoping mall i pulled in behind her. Before i can tell her she lost her groceries and papers all over the road she opens her door and yells at me " look buddy i have a husband. "
I replied, "good for you lady. I hope he won't be too pissed with you when you tell him you lost all your shiiit all over the road. Maybe if your arrogant head wasn't shoved up your @$$ then you would have noticed you left your trunk open. " then i pointed to her open trunk. Laughed my head off when her face went 50 shades of red, then said bye bye.

 

[Atom Smasher]

The fact is that so far we have absolutely no idea what actually transpired.

After all, his "indirect approach" could range from a smile to a cloth soaked in chloroform.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

The security guard probably was her white knight coming to "rescue" her thinking it would help him get laid. This certainly plays a factor in these types of situations from time to time.

There are plenty of these types of guys out there who are just as much part of the problem as bitchy, stuck-up girls. For every girl who acts like this, there are no shortage of men who will cater to them in hopes of looking like the good guy because they think they'll score.

 

[RangerMIke]

Yeah, but did you also waste your time and money on lawyers, or did you just represent yourself?

I could see the guy getting kicked out if he's in there making multiple approaches, bugging the customers. But talking to one person and getting complained about? And especiallly for an indirect approach? The girl could be a b!tch, but I agree with Smasher, maybe there's more here than meets the eye.

I am a lawyer, but I do not practice, I filed the suit myself... cost me 45 minutes... then periodically a phone call here and there talking to their lawyers, where I stayed on the phone as long as possible so they would be billing hours... then just before the court date, I just dropped the case. The mall was glad to be done with it, but the store chain threatened a counter suit... to which I said 'okay', bring it on. A couple of months later they dropped it as well. My guess is the mall spent MAYBE $800 on lawyers, they just wanted to settle, they weren't going to fight. The store chain, my best guess is it cost them close to $15k, their lawyers were milking them.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Once when I was young and dumb (as opposed to being old and dumb) I left a note on a girl's car in a huge place I worked. I said something like, "I think you're cute, call me," with my number.

Later that night the security guard at the place called me and suggested I not do that.

It could be the OP is way more creepy than he realizes, or it could be the lady in question is way more bitchy than can ever be realized.

Occupational Hazard. If you're on private property, I don't think you have much right to complain if they ask you to leave.

 

[dude99]

My greeting was probably a hi, how are you, I was like 16-17 years old. I bet that lady felt like dumb afterwards.

Yeah her face said it all. It was pretty funny.

 

[escaleraroyal]

There is more to this story than meets the eye.

OP, what precisely was said and what were the circumstances? Before I say "Charge it to the game", I need to know the facts.

This thread could go nowhere or it could end up being instructive.

I said precisely:
My friend and I went to have chicken wings at Costco. They came with salad and vegetables...She looked at me funny and ran away. Next thing is the Security came after me.

 

[escaleraroyal]

i also have tried the same opener more than 30 times. Never had issues before.

 

[RedZone]

It's a funny story to tell. At least you had to talk to a girl you found attractive.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I said precisely:
My friend and I went to have chicken wings at Costco. They came with salad and vegetables...She looked at me funny and ran away. Next thing is the Security came after me.

How is that an opener? It just sounds like a strange statement to me.

 

[9Volt]

I said precisely:
My friend and I went to have chicken wings at Costco. They came with salad and vegetables...She looked at me funny and ran away. Next thing is the Security came after me.

You should have instead "demonstrated high value" and went to the mall dressed in a Hugo Boss suit alligator shoes and pretended like you owned the entire complex. Then "gamed" security, and drove past her in your Lambo.

 

[Bokanovsky]

My friend and I went to have chicken wings at Costco. They came with salad and vegetables...She looked at me funny and ran away. Next thing is the Security came after me.

No offence, but that's a pretty weird thing to say as an opener. Were you trying to follow advice you read on some PUA blog?

 

[escaleraroyal]

No offence, but that's a pretty weird thing to say as an opener. Were you trying to follow advice you read on some PUA blog?

Why is weirde?