Got hit by two chicks in the same day!

Maxtro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
3,206
Reaction score
31
Location
Kalifornicatia
Wow, yesterday was crazy.

So I'm at Japan club with some lady friends. We're going to do a stupid skit and are deciding roles. The skit calls for a guy and a girl. Two of the girls decide to do it, one being the girl and the other being the guy. One of the girls is wearing a hat. I point out that the girl playing the girl should wear the others girls hat. They ask why and I say something like "girls don't wear hats."

My goal was just to mess with the girl wearing the hat and both girls end up getting riled up, hat girl more so as she's kind of a feminist. Then out of no where the other girl playfully slaps me. I jokingly said something like, "she's the one who got mad so why did you hit me?" I didn't really catch her reason, some kind of energy transfer or some-such. What's interesting is that I've been flirting and trying to make plans with the one that hit me for the past couple weeks. It seems like she's starting to like me and we're going to hang out on Monday. Either way I found it very odd that she slapped me, even if it was done in a very playful way. We joked about as I walked with her from the club to her dorm at the meetings end.

Later on that day still during the meeting, a different girl was wearing a rabbit hat something like this but in a more anime style with a red gem in it. I asked if it was a moogle cap. This girl is good friends with the girl who was wearing the hat. She played hurt and said something like, "Summer (hat girl), Maxtro's being mean to me beat him up.

So about an hour later rabbit hat girl and Summer were leaving together, rabbit said bye to me and I said by Moogle-chan, just to tease her. She wined to her friend again. Summer comes up to me and basically punches me in the shoulder as hard as she can. I immediately glare at her, "What the hell! That was way too hard to be playing." She looked at me with an expression of dread/regret/sorrow and apologized and said that she didn't mean to hit me that hard. She said sorry and bye and I basically said, yeah whatever. We were in room with about 40 people and I didn't want to make a scene, especially in-front of somebody I'm interested in.

Both girls who struck me are in Japanese class with me. I sit next to and talk to Summer everyday and we occasionally have a fun and sometimes slightly heated banter. So needless to say, I was shocked when she punched me. If it was a guy that hit me as hard as she did, I would have floored him without a second thought. But it was a girl who obviously screwed up, and the situation caused for restraint, without being a pushover. I've always been somewhat interested in Summer but probably not anymore. I wonder if she'll bring it up when I see her on Monday.

I welcome any relevant discussion.
 

Tesl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2010
Messages
285
Reaction score
16
Damn I'm disappointed, I read this as "got hit on by two chicks.."

Never mind.

Getting physically hit hard by a girl is probably not a good sign. At first I was wondering how I'd react if that happened to me, but I can't imagine many situations where it could be at all "normal" for that to happen.

My thinking therefore is what you should be focusing on is why you were somehow giving a vibe that it would be okay if they hit you, or that there would be no consequences if they did that. It also just shows massive disrespect, so you have to be asking yourself why that is? How did you manage to put yourself across as someone who is not to be respected, who also wouldn't punish her for physical violence?

I use the word "punish" loosely - that could be nothing more than just saying "Sorry, I don't stand for that" then not speaking to her anymore in the future.

I don't really know what the answers are for you because I don't know enough details, but how you react to these situations is less important than how you got yourself there in the first place.
 

Huffman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2007
Messages
1,509
Reaction score
170
Getting hit is the perfect oppurtunity to start a tickling fight. If you react fast, it's not awkward at all.

Getting punched really hard... well don't think too much about it because that shouldn't be part of your game plan hehe. I guess it's okay to be like WTF IS THIS!? I mean, you can't prepare smooth lines for getting totally surprised.
 

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
Sigh* this goes to show you the title of master don juan really doesn't mean ****
 

Maxtro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
3,206
Reaction score
31
Location
Kalifornicatia
Tesl said:
Damn I'm disappointed, I read this as "got hit on by two chicks.."

Never mind.

Getting physically hit hard by a girl is probably not a good sign. At first I was wondering how I'd react if that happened to me, but I can't imagine many situations where it could be at all "normal" for that to happen.

My thinking therefore is what you should be focusing on is why you were somehow giving a vibe that it would be okay if they hit you, or that there would be no consequences if they did that. It also just shows massive disrespect, so you have to be asking yourself why that is? How did you manage to put yourself across as someone who is not to be respected, who also wouldn't punish her for physical violence?

I use the word "punish" loosely - that could be nothing more than just saying "Sorry, I don't stand for that" then not speaking to her anymore in the future.

I don't really know what the answers are for you because I don't know enough details, but how you react to these situations is less important than how you got yourself there in the first place.
It is confusing for me. I'm not really sure what I did to give a vibe that it's OK to hit me. I don't let girls push me around.

I got the impression that the girl who punched me was like a mother bear who is fiercely protective of her friend. She may also be a bit socially awkward. I've also known her since January, so she may have thought that she knows me well enough to do that and she did realize that she hit me too hard to be playing.

Huffman said:
Getting hit is the perfect oppurtunity to start a tickling fight. If you react fast, it's not awkward at all.

Getting punched really hard... well don't think too much about it because that shouldn't be part of your game plan hehe. I guess it's okay to be like WTF IS THIS!? I mean, you can't prepare smooth lines for getting totally surprised.
Now it does. Unfortunately I was shocked a bit because that was the first time I've ever been slapped by a girl. I've also never had a tickle fight with a girl, so it didn't seem like a possible reaction.

When the meeting was over we had a 10 minute walk back to her dorm and we were joking about the slap. That would have been a perfect time to say something like, "My cheek still hurts, kiss it to make it go away." No matter if she did it or not, it would put the idea of getting intimate in her head.

I am wondering what made her decide that it's OK to slap me even if it was just in a playful way. Does it say something about how close we are?
kingsam said:
escale you pu$$y.......
:)
Escalate?

I couldn't then. But I will. We're hanging out tomorrow.
joe henny said:
Sigh* this goes to show you the title of master don juan really doesn't mean ****
LOL!

Titles on this board are meaningless. They are based on post-count which obviously doesn't mean anything other than the person posts a lot. Anybody with 500 posts is a Master. If the title for 1,000 posts was God, would you be upset that God doesn't mean crap?

The best thing to go by is a persons reputation. And yours is red...
 

Maxtro

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
3,206
Reaction score
31
Location
Kalifornicatia
Okay, so you've known this girl since January and you have not yet put the idea of being intimate in her head? Wow, just wow.

Why have you not kissed this girl? You have known her 9 or 10 months and still haven't "been intimate" with her. It sounds like you are deep in the friend zone.
Our relationship is...complicated. We also had zero contact from May till September. Either way, it's not the point of this thread.

Note the part the I put in bold, someone's been watching too many high school drama shows. It's so corny.
I know it's corny and it would at least have gotten a laugh out of her. I would be shocked if she actually did it. Anyways, the moment passed.
^ hahaha. The only thing it says something about is how much she thinks she can get away with you, you must been giving off a weak/nice guy vibe.
I wonder about that. She obviously knows that if I wanted to, I could hurt her, but she trusts me enough to know that I wouldn't. Also if it was somebody that she didn't know, she certainly wouldn't have hit him. It's a curious dynamic.

How would most guys react to a playful slap?
 

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
DJ_Hero said:
Okay, so you've known this girl since January and you have not yet put the idea of being intimate in her head? Wow, just wow.

Note the part the I put in bold, someone's been watching too many high school drama shows. It's so corny. You know what I do when I want a girl to kiss me? I kiss her, and you know what? It works.

Why have you not kissed this girl? You have known her 9 or 10 months and still haven't "been intimate" with her. It sounds like you are deep in the friend zone.



^ hahaha. The only thing it says something about is how much she thinks she can get away with you, you must been giving off a weak/nice guy vibe.



You claim to be a player and you complain about other people's womanizing skills, yet you don't offer any advice yourself. Why bother posting?

I offer advice, just some times people are just too far down and wouldn't understand my advice its like crawling down to the basement to offer advice
 

joe henny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Messages
325
Reaction score
10
Maxtro said:
It is confusing for me. I'm not really sure what I did to give a vibe that it's OK to hit me. I don't let girls push me around.

I got the impression that the girl who punched me was like a mother bear who is fiercely protective of her friend. She may also be a bit socially awkward. I've also known her since January, so she may have thought that she knows me well enough to do that and she did realize that she hit me too hard to be playing.


Now it does. Unfortunately I was shocked a bit because that was the first time I've ever been slapped by a girl. I've also never had a tickle fight with a girl, so it didn't seem like a possible reaction.

When the meeting was over we had a 10 minute walk back to her dorm and we were joking about the slap. That would have been a perfect time to say something like, "My cheek still hurts, kiss it to make it go away." No matter if she did it or not, it would put the idea of getting intimate in her head.

I am wondering what made her decide that it's OK to slap me even if it was just in a playful way. Does it say something about how close we are?

Escalate?

I couldn't then. But I will. We're hanging out tomorrow.

LOL!

Titles on this board are meaningless. They are based on post-count which obviously doesn't mean anything other than the person posts a lot. Anybody with 500 posts is a Master. If the title for 1,000 posts was God, would you be upset that God doesn't mean crap?

The best thing to go by is a persons reputation. And yours is red...
Yeah if you offer harsh advice, or if you refuse to take crappy advice in defiance of the "gods" here they down rate you. Whatever I could give a rats asz lol...yours is grey
 

Huffman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2007
Messages
1,509
Reaction score
170
Maxtro said:
Now it does. Unfortunately I was shocked a bit because that was the first time I've ever been slapped by a girl. I've also never had a tickle fight with a girl, so it didn't seem like a possible reaction.
You see, and you've never gotten laid. So whenever you're with a girl, that doesn't seem like a possible reaction either.
I'm not dissing you, but you're caught in a vicious cycle.

Want to break out? You have now 3 options:
- Take advice, make it better next time
- Do not take advice, try something different, make it better next time
- Do not take advice, feel sorry for yourself

Which one will it be?
 
Top