Got HB's number

[becker]

Ok, those of you who have followed my recent posts know that I've been trying to get this one HB10 who works in my office. This girl is easily one of the hottest girls ever. She is absolutely gorgeous, and by my strict standards, I have only known one other girl I could say this about. We're talking the pinnacle here, not just some lowly HB7 or cr*p like that.

Anyways, I asked this girl out this weekend and she offered me her cell phone number so that I can get a hold of her. I've been chatting her up and I know this one other guy in the office has also been on her like glue, but he seems to be quite supplicating. She was having a bad day the other day, and he was sitting outside with her as her shoulder to cry on. I walked by, sort of glanced and waved, and kept walking. So far, the only thing this girl could anchor me with are good thoughts, since I've made sure to be C+F around her every time and not get too into depressing issues.

The only thing now is that I need to figure out what I should do about the first date with this girl. I was going to take her to an amusement park. What do you all think?

 

[CLOONEY]

Yep, sounds good, good luck!!

 

[2N Turbo]

Yeah keep us posted becker. Save the surprise for your love for reality tv to the third date. Hehe.

She must be fine, we all know how picky you are.

 

[becker]

Cr*p, this other guy is on this girl like a fly on a piece of sh!t. Saw them together outside today, and they're always together on breaks. It's hard to get this girl alone on her breaks because this guy is totally on her all the time. I don't want to go and break it up either, because that just seems lame. I usually stop for a few words with them, then I leave them alone.

I need to find a way to beat this guy to the punch. The main problem is that they work together in the same building and I'm working in another building (same company, but they rented out a place temporarily for this particular project that I'm working on). I know most guys would say that making yourself unavailable is usually a good thing, but this is one of those instances where making yourself unavailable is detrimental, because then you have this other guy talking it up with her without you being around to get a piece of the action.

This guy seems pretty jealous too, and I'm not a jealous person, so on the outside, it seems like he's more interested in her than I am, which may work against me, even though it's probably not supposed to.

 

[becker]

It's amazing how few HB10s there are in this world. I find that for every 100 girls I look at, there may be only 1 who is of that caliber, and sh!t, it's such a freakin' pain in the ACE to have to pursue them when there are a million other guys also doing it. Thank God most of them never get past the point of admiration from afar.

Another thing is, the amusement park deal won't work because it's supposed to be raining hard here tomorrow. What are some alternatives that you guys can think of?

 

[LikRetsam]

Show that you know what you want.
Tell her "Hey, I was planning to go to an amusement park with you but it's gonna rain so let's just do this some other time" .

This chick is an hb10 so we all know that she's had 1000s of guys after her. Keep your game together, act uninterrested etc and don't return her calls for awhile. You are making her wait, desire you. No guy has ever done this to her before... could you be... the one?

 

[becker]

See, here's the problem with that theory, LikRetsam, it doesn't really work out that way in real life all the time.

I can be uninterested with the best of them, but it can be overdone and like many things, people get sick of stuff like that. I never get all clingy on a girl, so that's never a problem. I think the problem is that it's so difficult to catch this HB10 alone so I can talk with her without this guy sitting right next to her. It's always the primary problem with HB10s, and I guess it goes with the territory when you're pursuing them. It's sort of lame trying to ask a girl out when there is another guy sitting with her, because it makes it seem like you're picking up a girl who has a BF, even though she doesn't.

I always talk with her when she's alone, but it's usually not on her breaktime, or mine, so it's not real quality time. This other guy then comes in and takes her away during lunch and basically every other time she's free. I'm going to have to ask her to do something on Saturday just to be alone with her.

 

[becker]

Ok, so here's the follow up to this thread. Last weekend the plans got rained out, so I suggested this weekend. However, this girl told me that she may be busy this weekend.

She told me yesterday that her ex-BF who she had not seen in 2 or 3 months was at her place creating all this commotion for the entire night, and she only got 2 hours of sleep because he was crying and begging her to take him back. By her descriptions of his actions, he was quite supplicating (he didn't want her to work because he was too afraid she would meet someone so he just told her he'd pay for everything for her, he washed her car all the time, and more cr*p like that). Anyways, they were together for 3 years until he couldn't take it anymore and dumped her because she took a job and he was so insecure. She told me there was no way she'd go back to him. This girl has more drama going on in her life than I've ever had, yet she's so damn hot that I actually find myself overlooking all of her faults.

She was not at work today, which tells me that she was likely with him, or he was probably grovelling at her place or some sh!t like that. Anyways, don't know what I should do as far as this weekend. Seems like the plans won't be going through. I have this feeling that she may even find herself back with this guy (that would suck).

Should I call her, or just sort of stay out of the picture until all this stuff subsides?