Got girls number online - she replies to first text, not the second??

[Korrupt]

SCREW YOU FVCKERS SHE REPLIED!

ACTUALLY, thanks, I needed the kick up the ass. I'm definitely going to try and keep things ****y and funny from now on...that shnit can get stale if its not kept in check.


So I text her: 'Lame!! Too much sleep and no play makes Jennifer a dull girl! And who said I could'nt fly a plane? Lets go for a drink and i'll show you what other talents I have...'

she replies, fairly quickly: 'U telling me u can fly a plane? Thats something ive got to C x'

I reply: 'Ha! I don't just take anyone back to my air base, you gotta be worth the ride, and the only way i'm going to know that is to meet you. Whats better for you, monday or tuesday?'

She replies: 'Neither, sorry but I work evenings x'

I reply: 'Boo! Well, how about tomorrow afternoon? Could grab a coffee or something, or I have a day off on wednesday.'

She replies: 'Im working from eleven tomoro. I mite be around wendsday afternoon ill have to check my rota tomorro x'


and thats how i've left it. Comments?

"Okay, lemme know"

*Proceed to delete number*

 

[mikeyb]

OP, you're trying too hard because you only have this one girl on your radar. The same tired old line applies: "you gotta spin more plates".

 

[scrouds]

Okcupid, like all online dating is a pit of low interest women stroking their egos. The name of the game is to qualify her for a meetup and weed out the ego strokers.

 

[Veridin]

Advice has already been given here, I agree with the ****y/witty path, but I will add one perspective on that: women want to be entertained. They have already heard all the compliments and questions you can think of, and they have heard the neg hits too. Entertain them with your ****y wit.

And then cut it off before she has time to get bored. "Hey, that was fun, how unusual. I want more of him," she should think.

SCREW YOU FVCKERS SHE REPLIED!

ACTUALLY, thanks, I needed the kick up the ass. I'm definitely going to try and keep things ****y and funny from now on...that shnit can get stale if its not kept in check.


So I text her: 'Lame!! Too much sleep and no play makes Jennifer a dull girl! And who said I could'nt fly a plane? Lets go for a drink and i'll show you what other talents I have...'

she replies, fairly quickly: 'U telling me u can fly a plane? Thats something ive got to C x'

I reply: 'Ha! I don't just take anyone back to my air base, you gotta be worth the ride, and the only way i'm going to know that is to meet you. Whats better for you, monday or tuesday?'

She replies: 'Neither, sorry but I work evenings x'

I reply: 'Boo! Well, how about tomorrow afternoon? Could grab a coffee or something, or I have a day off on wednesday.'

She replies: 'Im working from eleven tomoro. I mite be around wendsday afternoon ill have to check my rota tomorro x'


and thats how i've left it. Comments?

Sounds better. But if possible, try to keep the texts as short as possible. And wait a while between replies. Show her that you are way too busy with your interesting life to have much time for texts.

 

[BBbardot]

Well at least you're being upfront about meeting her. Instead of 45 minute conversations talking about puppy dogs and ice cream.

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that you don't get a lot of numbers from girls do you? You seem way too interested in this one random internet girl who you've never even met. You'd think you had a hot makeout session in a nightclub or something. And your conversation is still seriously lame. "Let's go for a drink and I'll show you what other talents I have." Yeah...that's not creepy at all.

I'm sorry. I'm busting your chops because you need to toughen up a bit. This girl isn't worth all these questions. All this texting, and worrying...you could still meet her and find out that you two don't like each other.
well all in moderation of course. I don't think the last thing what OP wrote sounded desperate. It's just being silly and sexual. Nothing rong with that. Especially that he moved on for tht to ask her out for a coffe on a more serious tone.
If the girl is not interested after all that, It's just that she is a POF AW and is really too scared to meet.

Back to your question: You gave this girl like 3 different days you could meet her and she rejected them all. Anything can happen, but I'd leave it up to her to set things up. If she were serious, she'd make a hardcore counteroffer "I can't do Mon or Tues, but can we do Thursday at 4pm?" That kind of thing.

But hey anything can happen.

but who've put in your head the strange idea that girls are not turned on by a guy they like creeping on them.

We DIG IT. It totally works.

and op, she sounds like she is just chickening out to meet. IF she doesn't give you any news, just drop it.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Ok, listen up what I'm going to tell you might hurt your feelings but from my experience I think she is gonna flake.

 

[spinaroonie]

OP, she rejected you 3x... and you're gloating?

Textbook example of an overzealous guy who asks out a girl prematurely.

She doesn't want to see you (yet) as you haven't established enough attraction or comfort.

If you've got her number, right? Drop the fruity text games. Pick up the phone and call her. Build some rapport. If you come across as a cool, normal guy she wil want to see you.

At this point your text on a screen and nothing more. She hasn't even heard your voice yet, why would she see you?

Having said that, I believe the power of building rapport over the PHONE is vastly underestimated. It’s funny to read guys here still crowing about getting numbers like it's the 90s. Fellas, numbers mean nothing. Girls today give out their number like candy on Halloween. How many of those numbers are translating to dates and lays?

Most guys will pull a number and play a bunch of little text games, then act surprised when she invariably loses interest and flakes. Fellas, she's playing the same text games with 20 other guys she's met at the clubs and reveling in the attention.

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