Got first number last night

Kerpal

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Got my first phone number from a girl last night.

Last night I went out with my roommates to a party, and then we came back home. My roommate invited a bunch of people over and somehow I started talking to a group of 3 girls. For some reason I ended up standing off to the side talking only to one of them, and we had a lot in common.

After a few minutes she said something like "Well I just moved here and I don't know very many people yet, I should get your number" but she didn't have her phone, so I told her to hold on a second and went to get a piece of paper for her to write my number down. I was standing at my desk getting a piece of paper and I turned around and she was standing by the door waiting for me, I said "You can come in if you want" and she came in and sat on my bed.

I sat next to her and gave her the paper with my number on it and put her number in my phone, and we were just sitting there talking when some guy I didn't know walked into my room and asked if he could use my bathroom. All of a sudden the girl said she had to go and that she would come back later, but of course she never did. I think she felt awkward sitting on my bed in my room while her friends were out in the living room, and her ASD kicked in when this idiot walked into my room.

I don't know how to go about contacting this girl, should I wait a couple days and call her? What should I say? I was pretty drunk so I don't really remember everything we talked about. She also asked me if I had Myspace and mentioned that I should add her, should I do that?
 

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Well I was already in my room, but she walked in after me. I think if she had wanted to **** she would have closed the door behind her. I wouldn't want to freak her out or make her uncomfortable by standing up and closing the door after she walked in.
 

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I remember one time long ago my door was locked but my window was open and my girl was moaning...

Lets just say I didn't return home for a week

PS - thinking about her...suddenly I miss that girl. Oh nooooooooo
 

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Not to burst your bubble, but I think you're overanalyzing a simple situation.

And the simplicity of this situation is that she only wanted your number because she was new and didn't know very many people.

Did you miss that? How could you have? She told you that!

Anyway, the reason I'm bursting your bubble is so you don't slip and start getting lost over trivial stuff like when to call her, what to say, add her to myspace, etc.

Call her when you have some time and hang out with her ALONE.

Do something fun, and go in for the kiss. I'm telling you right now, if you don't move in for the kiss the first time you're hanging out with her alone, you're going to ruin this. She will see you as a good friend whom she can trust and hang out with alone without her having to "put out" or whatever.

Embrace the Nike slogan: Just do it!
 

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Did you bang her yet, bro?
 

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To be honest with you, I've kind of forgotten about her. I added her on Myspace and we said hi, that's about it. Would love to bang her, but I'm not sure how to initiate contact, it's been a while and she probably doesn't remember me.
 

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Kerpal said:
her ASD kicked in
American School Directory? Anorchage School District? Atrial Septal Defect? Autistic Spectrum Disorders? Action for Singapore Dogs? Alternative Splicing Database? American Society of Dermatology?

Pardon me for not being "in" about these mysterious abbreviations.
 

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2.0 said:
American School Directory? Anorchage School District? Atrial Septal Defect? Autistic Spectrum Disorders? Action for Singapore Dogs? Alternative Splicing Database? American Society of Dermatology?

Pardon me for not being "in" about these mysterious abbreviations.
anti sl ut defence
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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She comes into your room and sits on your bed, and you only talk to her? What does she have to do, sit on your face?
 

Kerpal

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SharinganUser said:
She comes into your room and sits on your bed, and you only talk to her? What does she have to do, sit on your face?
Well I was working on escalating, but that idiot walked into my room and interrupted us... I was like: :cuss:
 

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Everybody starts somewhere, and you're doing fine.

Don't worry about not escalating, you aren't going to become a master DJ in one night.

But don't get complacent, call her and see what you can get out of it.
 
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