cooldragon23
Don Juan
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My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and i pretty much begged her to get back with me. She did hesitantly and for the next few weeks things were just bad. She just didnt see me that way.
That made me more mad and i acted like a total *****. I got mad if she didnt call or didnt want to hang out. After reading these forums i feel pathetic because of my actions.
Finally, we talked yesterday about everything and she said she wants to be friends but really good friends. Also, If we wanted to be together then i wouldnt be a priority. I told her that it wouldnt work either way but never offically ended the whole thing.
She ended up calling me to hang out for a little bit but then quickly changed her mind saying her mom called...bull****. then she calls to talk to me about whatever.
Now this is all stupid to me. I want this to be more than just a friendship or a relationship where its convinent for her. So I am thinking of letting her know that we should just not contact eachother at all.
I really miss her and i dont have any other girls that i am talking. my confidence is really low and hoping to stay contact with her is killing me too. So what do u guys think. Should i just let her know that we cant be friends and that we shouldnt stay in contact? How do you all deal with breakups cause i am having a really tough time.
That made me more mad and i acted like a total *****. I got mad if she didnt call or didnt want to hang out. After reading these forums i feel pathetic because of my actions.
Finally, we talked yesterday about everything and she said she wants to be friends but really good friends. Also, If we wanted to be together then i wouldnt be a priority. I told her that it wouldnt work either way but never offically ended the whole thing.
She ended up calling me to hang out for a little bit but then quickly changed her mind saying her mom called...bull****. then she calls to talk to me about whatever.
Now this is all stupid to me. I want this to be more than just a friendship or a relationship where its convinent for her. So I am thinking of letting her know that we should just not contact eachother at all.
I really miss her and i dont have any other girls that i am talking. my confidence is really low and hoping to stay contact with her is killing me too. So what do u guys think. Should i just let her know that we cant be friends and that we shouldnt stay in contact? How do you all deal with breakups cause i am having a really tough time.
