Got drunk and let my ego get in the way

[BeDJ]

My go too line used to be "what makes you think I WANT to sleep with you? YOu haven't shown me anything that makes me want to yet" or something along those lines but if i were single today and a chick pulled that line with me i'd look her dead in the eye and say "don't' take this the wrong way, you seem cool and all but I mean, i'm having fun, but I don't think you are sexy enough for me to warrant sleeping with you, so we are kinda in the same line of thinking" , go stragiht for the freaking juggler at that point lol. She's either going to slap you and walk away or is going to give you great marathon sex all night long at that point to prove a opint. but even if she slaps you it won't be the last of her she has a point to proove now. either way you got under her skin.


at that point there is no way that you wn't plow the broad like a corn field in Nebraska

Why the fvck would you ever slightly appear confrontational? Just agree and go about your business. The most you should EVER say is - We can do everything aside from that. Confrontation = you have broken her trance, you have broken her willingness to fvck you. Why the fvck would you EVER cause this drama? This is not a situation for reverse psychology, this is a situation where she laid out on the the line that sex is surely coming. That's what I mean by being a fvcking retard, she would not talk about sex if she wsn't thinking it. BB, just chill the 'alfalfa' bro, we know you are........

 

[backbreaker]

it has nothing to do with me being alpha lol good gawd there is a flock of guys on this site that probably jack off at the site of my posts

it sends her hamsters spinning. it's the last thing that she would possibly expect any guy to say to her. it takes her from calling all the shots to wondering what's wrong with me where i'm not sexy in the blink of an instant. if she's a slut.. which by the fact that she instantly assumes you want to screw her just because you had a decent first date tells me that she is, this is bait she can't resist. its the type of statement where she can't wait to get home and have a pow wow with her girlfriends and dicect and talk about and go over and analyze like some NFL primetime type **** lol. "who does this mother****er think he is telling me I'm not sexy".. what you think she is going to do at that point just not call you again? she's going to call you or send you some pictures or do somehting you're in her head. she can't NOT respond. that's not how women are wired women can't walk away like that like men can. the more i think about it the more i want to do this lol. i would try this with my wife but she knows me enough to know i would be bull ****ting


being unconfrontational is overrated. you don't' want to be EMOTIONAL. if you are afraid to push a girls buttons like this than you are still very much at the core a chump. **** the girl and her feelings. you got to push the envelope to every get anywhere. she might slap you she might get under the table and blow you. there's only one way to find out.

you can't be so afraid to not get laid that you are not willing to try new ****. solomon alluded to the fact that i don't "**** up" earlier in this post kinda tounge in cheek and it's funny because i've done some pretty stupid **** on dates and at times, some pretty genius things on dates that were out of the ordinary. but i did both because i wanted to and wanted to see what would happen and i learned from them. \

it reminds me of the time i took a date to a resturant wher i know another plate i was with worked at and kissed her in front of her knowing she was looking at me. of course i would not do that to a girl i was serious about.. but this girl was a slut and she responded like sluts respond.. she came over my house and we had an all nighter.

if i were single and this happened i would try this no questions asked. it might not it might not but i'd try it and i'd bet it would work if i got the same vibe as this chick is giving off. if you did this and then went back to your normal date **** and didn't expand on it you would have this chick eating out your hand tring to get your approval

 

[Zunder]

No $hit. What rock you been living underneath?

Never had that line thrown at me by a woman.
Must be an American thing mate.

Do you actually date women?

On your question - yeah sure, not so much lately. Last one gave me the herp. Anything else you would like to know?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Never had that line thrown at me by a woman.
Must be an American thing mate.




On your question - yeah sure, not so much lately.

Alright then.

A soldier back at the base is going to have a different view than one in the trenches.

Either way, appreciate the honesty. But yeah, that sucks, $hit happens....

 

[BeDJ]

it has nothing to do with me being alpha lol good gawd there is a flock of guys on this site that probably jack off at the site of my posts

it sends her hamsters spinning. it's the last thing that she would possibly expect any guy to say to her. it takes her from calling all the shots to wondering what's wrong with me where i'm not sexy in the blink of an instant. if she's a slut.. which by the fact that she instantly assumes you want to screw her just because you had a decent first date tells me that she is, this is bait she can't resist. its the type of statement where she can't wait to get home and have a pow wow with her girlfriends and dicect and talk about and go over and analyze like some NFL primetime type **** lol. "who does this mother****er think he is telling me I'm not sexy".. what you think she is going to do at that point just not call you again? she's going to call you or send you some pictures or do somehting you're in her head. she can't NOT respond. that's not how women are wired women can't walk away like that like men can. the more i think about it the more i want to do this lol. i would try this with my wife but she knows me enough to know i would be bull ****ting


being unconfrontational is overrated. you don't' want to be EMOTIONAL. if you are afraid to push a girls buttons like this than you are still very much at the core a chump. **** the girl and her feelings. you got to push the envelope to every get anywhere. she might slap you she might get under the table and blow you. there's only one way to find out.

you can't be so afraid to not get laid that you are not willing to try new ****. solomon alluded to the fact that i don't "**** up" earlier in this post kinda tounge in cheek and it's funny because i've done some pretty stupid **** on dates and at times, some pretty genius things on dates that were out of the ordinary. but i did both because i wanted to and wanted to see what would happen and i learned from them. \

it reminds me of the time i took a date to a resturant wher i know another plate i was with worked at and kissed her in front of her knowing she was looking at me. of course i would not do that to a girl i was serious about.. but this girl was a slut and she responded like sluts respond.. she came over my house and we had an all nighter.

if i were single and this happened i would try this no questions asked. it might not it might not but i'd try it and i'd bet it would work if i got the same vibe as this chick is giving off. if you did this and then went back to your normal date **** and didn't expand on it you would have this chick eating out your hand tring to get your approval

I had to copy and paste this sh!t onto MS Word, just for you BB.

backbreaker, I might be the only one to say that you are not an Alpha male. You MARRIED a single mom for fvcks sake, DURING your prime years. You can go ahead and tell me that she is the hottest chick in the world, guess what? You are beta as fvck. I seriously HATE how you advise guys to spin plates when you have only done it for a couple of years (before you met your wife) and let it be known, you ALWAYS had ONEITIS for your wife. You were and still are an AFC, stop giving advice. What you know is already what I knew. Stop regurgitating bullsh!t that you call the DJ lifestyle. You are not a Don Juan, and you will never be.

 

[Zunder]

Alright then.

A soldier back at the base is going to have a different view than one in the trenches.

That's a fair point, P&V.
Sh!t happens and I am dealing with it well as I can, when not in the trenches as you say.

Back to OP there is probably a substantial list of things women say on dates that give you an idea that you are going to get the bang or not.
Believe it or not, I used to get the cliche of all date cliches "so you want to come back for a coffee" quite a bit, followed up in her apartment by "I don't normally do this".....when in reality if she had had as many sticking out of her as she has probably had in her she'd look like a porcupine.

 

[LiveFreeX]

"I hope you know I'm not sleeping with you tonight"

The date would've ended right there. Would have stopped the car, said "Gosh, I don't usually do things like this", threw her some bus fare and said goodnight.

 

[cordoncordon]

No way, he did?

In fairness to BB he actually married her after he impregnated her as I recall. He did the right thing. So it isn't like the child wasn't his. She was a single mom, but a mom to his child.

But BB...haha I cannot get over this quote you made a little earlier.

You said....

Originally Posted by backbreaker
"it has nothing to do with me being alpha lol good gawd there is a flock of guys on this site that probably jack off at the site of my posts"


Do you really believe that? I think you give some excellent advice on here much of the time, but in no way do I think what you said is true. And that goes not just for you, but any of us who post on here. I cannot imagine you wrote that being serious. At least I hope not.

 

[zekko]

Do you really believe that? I think you give some excellent advice on here much of the time, but in no way do I think what you said is true. And that goes not just for you, but any of us who post on here. I cannot imagine you wrote that being serious. At least I hope not.

I think what he meant was there were guys on here who got excited to see him post, so that they could flame him.

For my part, it seems like a lot of the newer fellows we're getting on here are awfully mouthy, which is unfortunate. They lack respect and good judgement. I suppose this is all part of the continued moral deterioration that has affected many of today's younger women.

 

[backbreaker]

What I don't understand is how does me giving what I think is sound practical advice turn into a backbreaker inquisition thread. If you don't like my advice don't follow it. But to attract my wife and my son and throw personal insults and **** and the same guys walk around *****ing about immature women and ****. Let me rephrase. I know WHY this happened. I know EXACDTLY why this happened. BDJ tries to AMOG me every time i post because of some **** that happened on the DJ chat about half a fvcking year ago and ever since dude can't get enough of me. I told him then he tries too damn hard. Then when the robo trolls smell blood int he water they are like great AFC white sharks coming to attack. It's the epitome of being a chump / AFC / BETa game yet the same guys sit here and talk about what is alpha/ beta/whatever. lol is there any doubt that if we were in real life and you were up against me for the same girl that you might as well go to wal mart and buy some lotion lol? Because she's mine bro. If I have this effect on MEN just imagine how WOMEN look at me.


In a DJ since, this thread in itself proved my point. How being a tad bit unconventional can work in your favor. I will get much further with a smoke shot hb9 by telling her I don't' think she's sexy than you will get by having "awesome text game". I'll tell the broad I think of her like a little sister than proceed to watch boardwalk empire and play madden while she is talking to her friends about ME calling her ugly and what's wrong with HER. You can have the most perfect witty text based reply to whatever she says and she's still going to be thinking about ME at the end of the night. She's done. It's men's unwillingness to push the envelope that will keep them in HB5-6 Purgatory


Anyway back to the point. Someone convince me why my advice is wrong and is not lock step with the montra of this forum, even PUA advice if you will. It's unconventional but technically sound advice. I've even stated this before

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195303

 

[cordoncordon]

I think what he meant was there were guys on here who got excited to see him post, so that they could flame him.

Ahhh I didn't think of it that way. That would make more sense. Thanks.

 

[Solomon]

I think what he meant was there were guys on here who got excited to see him post, so that they could flame him.

For my part, it seems like a lot of the newer fellows we're getting on here are awfully mouthy, which is unfortunate. They lack respect and good judgement. I suppose this is all part of the continued moral deterioration that has affected many of today's younger women.

The guys who earned their stripes (or dots) in the trenches are long gone or not among us (RIP JOPHILL) however this fuccery is nothing but mostly KJ's who wanna discuss mundane topics. The days of game here are long gone and I suspect most guys even highly repped members are KJ's in disguse

 

[Die Hard]

There is a time to directly confront a woman and there is a time to treat her with 'amused mastery'. I'd suggest the latter when she says you're not gonna fvck her.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

BB,

Last time a chick said something like that I told her this

" pu$sy is nothing special. It's entertainment. You have more to gain from it then me anyway. I'd be just as good playing NBA 2k13. It's just entertainment."

I say it in a joking manner but they know I'm serious.

You gotta put these girls in their place. They have way more to gain then we do.

 

[BeDJ]

BDJ tries to AMOG me every time i post because ... I told him then he tries too damn hard.

:-D

 

[London NATURAL]

You know you should've just rolled your eyes at her and smiled, and you only spent 30. So smile and don't give it a further thought.