Got called nice AGAIN!!

[stevey_2000]

Hey Dj's,

Hope your all getting pvssy!!

recently i've been DJ'ing a girl and, once again, i have been told that i am 'nice'. To us DJ's that is like someone calling us a 'knobhead' but i am finding it unavoidable to be 'nice', purely because of my looks as i am not acting nice at all but i am 90% DJ at the moment BUT girls call me 'very cute, good looking and look very innocent ' (i am 24 but still have problems getting into nightclubs, you only have to be 18 to get in the clubs in the UK)

I find it very easy to chat up and get a girls number BUT i HATE being called nice, arrrggghhh!!

any other of my fellow DJ's constantly get this problem solely because of their looks?, as i find it damn well irritating!

Steveyyyyyy!

 

[dontmindme]

yea man.. i feel ya i have the same problem

 

[MrNiceGuy]

I get the 'nice' crap too, its annoying. Essentially its a sign you've just been filed into the friends category.

On a slightly different (but semi related) topic, in my degree course all the guys are boring geeks, so I mainly hang around with a couple of the girls (who are cool but have b//f s) at uni. anyway, during the other night during a heavy wind each other up session this friend of mine started saying I was a girl (I'd just been moaning about something insignificant), her reasoning being that I hung around with girls too much, of course she was only messing and it wasn't serious, but I find with all wind ups theres always a small element of truth in there, I guess I need to work harder on alpha maleness..

time to read pooks 'be a man' post again...

 

[stevey_2000]

>I get the 'nice' crap too, its annoying. Essentially its a sign you've just been filed into the friends category.


not necessarily mate!, we're still flirting like there is no tommorow and we're goin on a date this weekend and ending back at hers

 

[MrNiceGuy]

well good luck to ya then, I guess all chicks are different.. depends on how they say it I guess.

 

[stevey_2000]

>well good luck to ya then

Cheers mate!

this one particular girl has told me that she fancied a bloke at work and ended up getting him with her mate so she doesn't want to do the same with me , major AFC chick i reckon but all the better for me to take advantage of her!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

some tips

Change your style slightly - go buy yourself a sports jacket & wear with shirts/t's and slacks - much older looking. Dress can really make you appear younger. You could also avoid shaving (every 2nd/3rd day instead) - this can be great if pulled off correctly.

As for the nice bit, start making more C&F double meaning jokes with the girls, and hold their eye contact more, evil grin, not cheeky grin is what's needed.

And don't worry too much about the "Nice" tag, sometimes it can be good

GL!
Osc.

 

[stevey_2000]

>As for the nice bit, start making more C&F double meaning jokes with the girls, and hold their eye contact more, evil grin, not cheeky grin is what's needed.

Mate,

this is precisely how i act, you must have read my mind ;-)

i think the thread was just about hated being called 'nice' but it's unavoidable when i look v.young!!, oh well...

roll on when i'm 40

 

[Deep Dish]

You guys must get over this 'nice' stigma. It's not black-and-white.

 

[vdk]

i agree with oscar. If you have a baby face, like me, then a little facial hair is a good idea. I always avoid hair on the upper lip and keep my goatee very short but noticable up close. Start dressing 'adult casual' rather than wear the typical colorful tank top with worn out jeans. Come on, thats been done to death.

 

[stevey_2000]

The majority of the time i'm told this is at work (shirt and tie) so i'm dressed the way the majority of DJ's are dressed right?

i have never been one of those 'skater boys' or one of those 'tank top' style wearing lads as i always am dressed smartly wherever i go, i think the facial hair is the tip of the day tho for us young looking don juans!

 

[am4591]

Maybe you should grow a Satanic-looking goatee.

If you have a young face, you might be too sharply dressed, and this could be why you getting the nice-guy tag. How about more of a street look now and then? I don't mean cheap or grunge necessarily, just a more go-to-hell look.

 

[BruticusMaximus]

So is this whole thread just about how much the ladies love you?

 

[BMW]

Being called NICE is not a bad thing. The people on this site have conditioned you into thinking that it is a bad word. It's all about what you do with it at the end and how you handle it

 

[diplomatic_lies]

When I told my girlfriend I had to have sex with dead goats, she said "Nice".

 

[jamesx47]

I get called weird and dorky. Is that anything similar to nice? Yeah nice is bad.