Got basically cucked feels bad.

[dude99]

STEER CLEAR OF WOMEN WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.

i really wish guys would sear this into their brain..

 

[Grounded eagle]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

So anyway when I met her she had a boyfriend who wasn’t there on the night and I never found out till after. That night I took her home and banged her and got a ******* the next day as well, I wasn’t actually that interested in her at this point and never really texted her that much. But after about three weeks of not seeing her, her boyfriend goes to prison and that exact day she was calling me to meet up. This is when we start sleeping together and seeing each other more. Her boyfriend who’s a complete beta is calling her from prison literally everyday and while she’s lying in my bed as well.

So I then start to get complacent with her and turn into a beta myself always complimenting her, sleeping with her every night and seeing her all the time, taking her out when I got my welfare check(I’m a college student so that’s why I’m on welfare I am looking for a part time job though).

I sometimes run out of money mid week and don’t have a lot of food at my house so we were hungry for about half the week. I know it bad but I just wanted to be with her.

Well after about 3 months she decides to get lip filler and teeth whitened (glows up) and after her going cold on me which I could feel because she just stopped messaging me bare in mind she used to text me ALL the time morning, afternoon and evening, she says we need to go on a break(we basically broke up) but agrees to come back to my place where she gives me a *******(****ed up) and after about a day I start messaging her myself telling her how much I want to see her again but after about 3 unanswered texts and phone calls I cut my losses and stop contacting her. Fast forward to now I find out she’s pregnant with a guy who a complete loser(one of her boyfriend’s friends who’s still in prison). He don’t work or nothing just sells small amounts of weed on the side. She’s moved out of the care home and living on her own in a flat now. So she is absolutely crazy but not anything too crazy like a retard. Also I put up with way too much she was speaking to a few of her exes and I done nothing about it because i was ina scarcity mindset. She also ended up one time showing up on my doorstep with this guy after we stopped seeing each other and the guy is ****y as **** clearly after sex or something because I know what she’s like.

Looking back now I felt her emotionally detaching from me about halfway through because I didn’t have any food at mine and I ate some of hers which she left at mine.
I’m just shocked because even though I knew she was seeing someone else in the back of my head I still wanted to **** her again and still thought about her from time to time and even made a few posts on here about this situation. So while I’m still thinking about her and making posts on here as to what to do she’s out there getting pregnant with some dude who’s literally half my size and it’s her boyfriends(who’s in prison and even more of a loser than this guy) friend I’m 6’3 90kg and he’s about 5’7 60kg. Also this girl’s boyfriend who’s in prison is actually her ex boyfriend but a friend was telling me they were still together I guess it was possible.

Any feedback or comments will be much appreciated. I’m just shocked at this situation to be honest because I had oneitis for this girl and when I found out that she was pregnant it hurt a bit inside.

You got oneitis for a girl who has mental issues,not to mention a boyfriend,who she cheated on with you and had just been incarcerated.
Then she went and got knocked up by some other guy, and you’re still talking about how you could have done better?
I won’t even talk about the financial issues,because you’re in college,as am I,and sometimes life happens, but I will tell you that you need to get your head out of your ass,man.
This girl has all the loyalty and moral integrity of a hooker,and is not worth the trouble you’re going through.You have broken every rule in the book otherwise.There are way too many hot girls in the world for you to be this bothered over one.
At least maybe the incels will see it’s not all about height lol.

 

[MatureDJ]

So I then start to get complacent with her and turn into a beta myself always complimenting her, sleeping with her every night and seeing her all the time, taking her out when I got my welfare check(I’m a college student so that’s why I’m on welfare I am looking for a part time job though).

What kind of "welfare" are you talking about? Able-Bodied Adults Without Children have the least chance of getting any "welfare", and college students especially. That said, places like CA give out more welfare than they should (NOTE: I am in favor of a Guaranteed Income stipend in return for ending SNAP).

This sounds like a troll.

 

[zinc4]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

So anyway when I met her she had a boyfriend who wasn’t there on the night and I never found out till after. That night I took her home and banged her and got a ******* the next day as well, I wasn’t actually that interested in her at this point and never really texted her that much. But after about three weeks of not seeing her, her boyfriend goes to prison and that exact day she was calling me to meet up. This is when we start sleeping together and seeing each other more. Her boyfriend who’s a complete beta is calling her from prison literally everyday and while she’s lying in my bed as well.

So I then start to get complacent with her and turn into a beta myself always complimenting her, sleeping with her every night and seeing her all the time, taking her out when I got my welfare check(I’m a college student so that’s why I’m on welfare I am looking for a part time job though).

I sometimes run out of money mid week and don’t have a lot of food at my house so we were hungry for about half the week. I know it bad but I just wanted to be with her.

Well after about 3 months she decides to get lip filler and teeth whitened (glows up) and after her going cold on me which I could feel because she just stopped messaging me bare in mind she used to text me ALL the time morning, afternoon and evening, she says we need to go on a break(we basically broke up) but agrees to come back to my place where she gives me a *******(****ed up) and after about a day I start messaging her myself telling her how much I want to see her again but after about 3 unanswered texts and phone calls I cut my losses and stop contacting her. Fast forward to now I find out she’s pregnant with a guy who a complete loser(one of her boyfriend’s friends who’s still in prison). He don’t work or nothing just sells small amounts of weed on the side. She’s moved out of the care home and living on her own in a flat now. So she is absolutely crazy but not anything too crazy like a retard. Also I put up with way too much she was speaking to a few of her exes and I done nothing about it because i was ina scarcity mindset. She also ended up one time showing up on my doorstep with this guy after we stopped seeing each other and the guy is ****y as **** clearly after sex or something because I know what she’s like.

Looking back now I felt her emotionally detaching from me about halfway through because I didn’t have any food at mine and I ate some of hers which she left at mine.
I’m just shocked because even though I knew she was seeing someone else in the back of my head I still wanted to **** her again and still thought about her from time to time and even made a few posts on here about this situation. So while I’m still thinking about her and making posts on here as to what to do she’s out there getting pregnant with some dude who’s literally half my size and it’s her boyfriends(who’s in prison and even more of a loser than this guy) friend I’m 6’3 90kg and he’s about 5’7 60kg. Also this girl’s boyfriend who’s in prison is actually her ex boyfriend but a friend was telling me they were still together I guess it was possible.

Any feedback or comments will be much appreciated. I’m just shocked at this situation to be honest because I had oneitis for this girl and when I found out that she was pregnant it hurt a bit inside.

This is why men should always refrain from calling others beta.

This girl is as trashy as it gets OP.

 

[Konada]

This is like.....textbook hypergamy and men losing value when they commit to women. They should post this in the Rational Male or something.

Can't take what you say seriously if you are really using a nutcase as a valid example of hypergamy.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

What kind of "welfare" are you talking about? Able-Bodied Adults Without Children have the least chance of getting any "welfare", and college students especially. That said, places like CA give out more welfare than they should (NOTE: I am in favor of a Guaranteed Income stipend in return for ending SNAP).

This sounds like a troll.

I’m in the UK so it’s a bit different but yeah. I’m hopefully getting if it all goes well getting a job working in a restaurant. I can hear the jet engines starting ready for take off out of welfare.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

You got oneitis for a girl who has mental issues,not to mention a boyfriend,who she cheated on with you and had just been incarcerated.
Then she went and got knocked up by some other guy, and you’re still talking about how you could have done better?
I won’t even talk about the financial issues,because you’re in college,as am I,and sometimes life happens, but I will tell you that you need to get your head out of your ass,man.
This girl has all the loyalty and moral integrity of a hooker,and is not worth the trouble you’re going through.You have broken every rule in the book otherwise.There are way too many hot girls in the world for you to be this bothered over one.
At least maybe the incels will see it’s not all about height lol.

Yeah thanks man. I come on so suave forums because it seems like people on here know what’s actually going on more than me without actually knowing who I am or any people involved.

 

[MatureDJ]

I’m in the UK so it’s a bit different but yeah. I’m hopefully getting if it all goes well getting a job working in a restaurant. I can hear the jet engines starting ready for take off out of welfare.

OK, Europe is better with welfare.

 

[MatureDJ]

It happens. Innergame is the answer to Hypergamys decisions , not non committing.

This is a just a form of CopeMaxxing.

 

[MatureDJ]

Is it? How do you know? Tell us

Talking about "inner game".

 

[Hal9000]

As long as guys place more of an emphasis on how a girl looks than literally anything else they will be getting treated like this. You don't want a crazy person in your life, hot or not.