Got basically cucked feels bad.

[Dazzlenuts]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

So anyway when I met her she had a boyfriend who wasn’t there on the night and I never found out till after. That night I took her home and banged her and got a ******* the next day as well, I wasn’t actually that interested in her at this point and never really texted her that much. But after about three weeks of not seeing her, her boyfriend goes to prison and that exact day she was calling me to meet up. This is when we start sleeping together and seeing each other more. Her boyfriend who’s a complete beta is calling her from prison literally everyday and while she’s lying in my bed as well.

So I then start to get complacent with her and turn into a beta myself always complimenting her, sleeping with her every night and seeing her all the time, taking her out when I got my welfare check(I’m a college student so that’s why I’m on welfare I am looking for a part time job though).

I sometimes run out of money mid week and don’t have a lot of food at my house so we were hungry for about half the week. I know it bad but I just wanted to be with her.

Well after about 3 months she decides to get lip filler and teeth whitened (glows up) and after her going cold on me which I could feel because she just stopped messaging me bare in mind she used to text me ALL the time morning, afternoon and evening, she says we need to go on a break(we basically broke up) but agrees to come back to my place where she gives me a *******(****ed up) and after about a day I start messaging her myself telling her how much I want to see her again but after about 3 unanswered texts and phone calls I cut my losses and stop contacting her. Fast forward to now I find out she’s pregnant with a guy who a complete loser(one of her boyfriend’s friends who’s still in prison). He don’t work or nothing just sells small amounts of weed on the side. She’s moved out of the care home and living on her own in a flat now. So she is absolutely crazy but not anything too crazy like a retard. Also I put up with way too much she was speaking to a few of her exes and I done nothing about it because i was ina scarcity mindset. She also ended up one time showing up on my doorstep with this guy after we stopped seeing each other and the guy is ****y as **** clearly after sex or something because I know what she’s like.

Looking back now I felt her emotionally detaching from me about halfway through because I didn’t have any food at mine and I ate some of hers which she left at mine.
I’m just shocked because even though I knew she was seeing someone else in the back of my head I still wanted to **** her again and still thought about her from time to time and even made a few posts on here about this situation. So while I’m still thinking about her and making posts on here as to what to do she’s out there getting pregnant with some dude who’s literally half my size and it’s her boyfriends(who’s in prison and even more of a loser than this guy) friend I’m 6’3 90kg and he’s about 5’7 60kg. Also this girl’s boyfriend who’s in prison is actually her ex boyfriend but a friend was telling me they were still together I guess it was possible.

Any feedback or comments will be much appreciated. I’m just shocked at this situation to be honest because I had oneitis for this girl and when I found out that she was pregnant it hurt a bit inside.

 

[Konada]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

This horse has been beaten many times to death.

STEER CLEAR OF WOMEN WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.

Whatever happened to you is not surprising, there is no "special one" BPD female that you can save.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

This horse has been beaten many times to death.

STEER CLEAR OF WOMEN WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.

Whatever happened to you is not surprising, there is no "special one" BPD female that you can save.

thanks haha, it just completely sucks and I feel I could’ve done more to be a better man and maybe would’ve kept this chick because I was supposed to be the one moving in with her well not moving in but stay at hers.

 

[Bingo-Player]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

*Slams head against wall

 

[Konada]

thanks haha, it just completely sucks and I feel I could’ve done more to be a better man and maybe would’ve kept this chick because I was supposed to be the one moving in with her well not moving in but stay at hers.

That's besides the point... I'm emphasizing that you don't deal with such chicks at all, much less trying to keep them around.

But hey, you're 25. Hormones are raging, you just want to get your d!ck wet no matter the cost to your sanity.

I understand.

 

[jimwho]

OP come on man. You want to get all up into that fine. But everything else is just a sorry mess. Check your Scruples.

 

[Striker_93]

So basically you thought the boyfriend was a beta just to find out you were in fact the beta.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

OP come on man. You want to get all up into that fine. But everything else is just a sorry mess. Check your Scruples.

would you mind eleborating on what you mean by sorry mess? I take it you mean me not having much money and seeing her everyday? I really want to turn things around. Also what are scruples?

 

[Dazzlenuts]

So basically you thought the boyfriend was a beta just to find out you were in fact the beta.

Well I’m at college trying to get my **** together and get a skill that pays while her ex has been sentenced to 3 years in prison for attempted armed robbery from a jewelry shop. Plus the fact that he was ringing her everyday when he went into prison(probably still is) and she was talking to him on the phone while lying in bed naked with me.

 

[derby1]

I could’ve done more to be a better man and maybe would’ve kept this chick because I was supposed to be the one moving in with her well not moving in but stay at hers.

A woman maintaining you would have been a quick to raise someone elses seed.

Women DESPISE men they have to maintain!

OP Im gonna serve you some medicine cold....Read back your whole thread yourself, you are so low on the dominance food chain it is unreal, you also believe this yourself, would you let this chic work for your corporation where you have meetings with the mayor of New York and his wife? imagine what society thinks of you with her on your arm, all contracts would be pulled and suspended.

you ARE your corporation.

Step up soldier.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

A woman maintaining you would have been a quick to raise someone elses seed.

Women DESPISE men they have to maintain!

OP Im gonna serve you some medicine cold....Read back your whole thread yourself, you are so low on the dominance food chain it is unreal, you also believe this yourself, would you let this chic work for your corporation where you have meetings with the mayor of New York and his wife? imagine what society thinks of you with her on your arm, all contracts would be pulled and suspended.

you ARE your corporation.

Step up soldier.

thanks man, i took a screenshot to remind myself for the future.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

You can't call other guys beta if you didn't screen this out

Well at first I did I promise you it was a massive turn off for me when I met her, but she’s crazy and I ended up getting my feeling involved for this hoe.

 

[Mike32ct]

Good news: It’s not your kid.

Bad news: She’s involved with drug dealers and/or people in and out of prison. You are playing with fire here.

The whole alpha/beta thing is neither here nor there. You need to get out for your own good.

 

[Dr.Suave]

U banged this girl at least once, u won. Looks like u have learned a bit which is a plus. Next.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

this sh1t happens to all of us buddy. Like Derby said, re-read what you put, and you'll figure out very quickly how much you messed up.

But that's okay. That's the pain you need to carry with you to ensure you don't find yourself in a similar situation in the future.

It seems like it's somewhat universal for us guys to make foolish decisions regarding romance at your age. But, unfortunately, it looks like that's the lesson the universe wants to impart on men, particularly those looking to transcend the bullsh1t society throws our way.

I'm thankful for experiences similar to this. They suck as they're happening but in hindsight you'll realize it's just an opportunity to grow and improve.

My ex looks like a big fat ball of dog sh1t now. She left me, got married to another guy and I guess complacency hit her while I'm still here...hungry - and not for food like her fatass

Based on everything you've described about her, she's a lost cause but so are you for thinking you can rekindle something here. Be a man and leave that b1tch in the past where she belongs. My suggestion? Ghost her sorry ass and focus on your life.

Hi Glee, I remember you because you replied to my last post on so suave about this exact same girl and you suggested I block her and I did from everywhere and deleted all traces of her.

What I find hard is the fact that I’m going to know her longer than I was with her which is really upsetting for me because she and the guy that she’s pregnant with know pretty much all my friends so it’s humiliating like you described the last situation. The way I found out she was pregnant was because an acquaintance who knows I was banging her and came up to me in the street and told me she was 13 weeks pregnant otherwise I would’ve never known about it and I wish I never found out. It’s hard when it’s other people that keep reminding

I’ve just got back from the doctors to get more sleeping pills as I’m having problems sleeping at night due to this situation and other things going on in my life, because I know what she’s like and what she’s doing with this guy.

since the last time you wrote to me on the forums I’ve been working my ass off trying to get a business started and I’ve met a couple new girls aswell. I haven’t scored yet though.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Good news: It’s not your kid.

Bad news: She’s involved with drug dealers and/or people in and out of prison. You are playing with fire here.

The whole alpha/beta thing is neither here nor there. You need to get out for your own good.

I definitely don’t want her back ever(I wouldn’t even date a girl if she had kids) she’s having a baby with another guy. It’s just that Im constantly being reminded of her and all the feelings and thoughts come back aswell.

 

[Mike32ct]

I definitely don’t want her back ever(I wouldn’t even date a girl if she had kids) she’s having a baby with another guy. It’s just that Im constantly being reminded of her and all the feelings and thoughts come back aswell.

Having feelings is normal. You might feel it off and on for a few weeks or months. If you need to cry (in private), there’s no shame in that. It will definitely pass though.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Having feelings is normal. You might feel it off and on for a few weeks or months. If you need to cry (in private), there’s no shame in that. It will definitely pass though.

haha nah I ain’t gonna cry over a ***** lmfao.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

What your feeling OP is a withdrawl from a biochemical reaction tied to your emotional mechanisms. Allow your logic to tell you, and believe it.
Shes a hoe, crazy and now pregnant.
You can and will feel this again with another hoe. The chatter is just in your head. The voice of the beta. Kill it before it can kill you

Thanks man appreciate it

 

[dude99]

So I met this girl at a party hb9 20 years old I’m 25 back in July at the time she was living in a care home as she has mental health issues (BPD) the sex was amazing though and I think this is why I got so attached to her.

So anyway when I met her she had a boyfriend who wasn’t there on the night and I never found out till after. That night I took her home and banged her and got a ******* the next day as well, I wasn’t actually that interested in her at this point and never really texted her that much. But after about three weeks of not seeing her, her boyfriend goes to prison and that exact day she was calling me to meet up. This is when we start sleeping together and seeing each other more. Her boyfriend who’s a complete beta is calling her from prison literally everyday and while she’s lying in my bed as well.

So I then start to get complacent with her and turn into a beta myself always complimenting her, sleeping with her every night and seeing her all the time, taking her out when I got my welfare check(I’m a college student so that’s why I’m on welfare I am looking for a part time job though).

I sometimes run out of money mid week and don’t have a lot of food at my house so we were hungry for about half the week. I know it bad but I just wanted to be with her.

Well after about 3 months she decides to get lip filler and teeth whitened (glows up) and after her going cold on me which I could feel because she just stopped messaging me bare in mind she used to text me ALL the time morning, afternoon and evening, she says we need to go on a break(we basically broke up) but agrees to come back to my place where she gives me a *******(****ed up) and after about a day I start messaging her myself telling her how much I want to see her again but after about 3 unanswered texts and phone calls I cut my losses and stop contacting her. Fast forward to now I find out she’s pregnant with a guy who a complete loser(one of her boyfriend’s friends who’s still in prison). He don’t work or nothing just sells small amounts of weed on the side. She’s moved out of the care home and living on her own in a flat now. So she is absolutely crazy but not anything too crazy like a retard. Also I put up with way too much she was speaking to a few of her exes and I done nothing about it because i was ina scarcity mindset. She also ended up one time showing up on my doorstep with this guy after we stopped seeing each other and the guy is ****y as **** clearly after sex or something because I know what she’s like.

Looking back now I felt her emotionally detaching from me about halfway through because I didn’t have any food at mine and I ate some of hers which she left at mine.
I’m just shocked because even though I knew she was seeing someone else in the back of my head I still wanted to **** her again and still thought about her from time to time and even made a few posts on here about this situation. So while I’m still thinking about her and making posts on here as to what to do she’s out there getting pregnant with some dude who’s literally half my size and it’s her boyfriends(who’s in prison and even more of a loser than this guy) friend I’m 6’3 90kg and he’s about 5’7 60kg. Also this girl’s boyfriend who’s in prison is actually her ex boyfriend but a friend was telling me they were still together I guess it was possible.

Any feedback or comments will be much appreciated. I’m just shocked at this situation to be honest because I had oneitis for this girl and when I found out that she was pregnant it hurt a bit inside.

BPD. Next
Boyfriend in prison? Hangs with drug dealers. Dude just no.
She wants to trap you. Get pregnant by you. You didn't get her pregnant, so what did she ask you for? A BREAK. So she could get pregnant by the next guy. she has now trapped the next guy by getting pregnant. You were lucky enough to avoid being that guy.
This is what cluster b's do to funnel your resources and money out of you. You just don't happen to have any money and resourced yet, so she found the next chump.


Work on improving your life and situations. leave this cluster b disaster in your rear view mirrow.