got # at rock festival, my phone game sucks

[itishe]

Hey all,

Met some good looking girls this weekend out of town at a rock festival. I didn't get many numbers as I really had no ambition to, a lot of the girls there were not classy to say the least and I'm not looking to bag hundreds of women.

I did get a number from a cute brunette who was with her blonde friend. A couple times I noticed they were standing by my bud and I through various concerts, after the 2nd or 3rd time seeing them I started with some conversation about the concert, school, where we live, etc. Got her to stand infront of me during some of the shows where I did some light touching, etc.

She happens to live about 7-9 hours away. With this I'd usually just get a number for a confidence boost and let it pass but seeing as I may ride motorcycle out that way soon with some friends I think I may try to set a meeting with her.

Now to my question. Since my first phone calls to a girl usually are to set up a date and not chat for long (and my phone game sucks with people I don't know well), how would you guy handle this? Ie. how would your conversation go?

 

[itishe]

bump

 

[LinkinParkROX]

LPR: "Hey baby. "
HB: "Hey. *blush*"
LPR: "What's up?"
HB: "Oh nothing much. You? "
LPR: *Makes up something to look busy*
HB: "Oh wow. *talks about it*"
LPR: "Yeah, anyway, I should really get back to this thing I'm doing. You free tomorrow? Let's meet up."
HB: "Yeah sure! "
LPR: "See you then. "
HB: "Byeee "

 

[itishe]

I can set up dates linkin, what I'm trying to find fluff to converse with since I cannot set up a meeting with her until a few weeks.

 

[WhtRbt]

Don't think about what to say in advance. Just phone her up and start chatting. Trust that the words will be there. For example, if you wanted to call up a buddy and chat, you could call him up and talk all day without thinking ahead of what to chat about.

 

[CaptainJ]

what the fvck is phone game. Why would anyone want to spend more that 1-5 minutes talking to the girl on the phone when you could see them in person and have much more fun. Save the "phone game" for the girlfriends, the only game you need for dating is standard game.

Bit of a harsh view, but just forget about phone game, it does not matter very much.

 

[WhtRbt]

Also why would you waste time with a girl that lives 7-9 hours away? Find some girls from your town lol. You should have just laid her at the festival.

 

[itishe]

Called her once, didn't answer. She called back but I was busy. Called her back one more time after that since she did call me back no answer.

Waited two days and called today, no answer. Left a message, said who I was, and that she should call me back.

I think that's sufficient, if not reply I"ll move on.

Man this number game wears me down.