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"Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution."
I might be more positive if I had a match rate of at least 1/100. I can't do much with zero.

Or maybe I should work out every day for 6 months so I can start getting matches that look like pigs, instead of just ones that look like whales.
 

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What's broken about my inside, as you see it?
1. Insecurity and lack of confidence. Some b*tch tells you you're "4/10" and you believe her and get upset about it. If you're internally confident you'd just be like "Well, you're not my type either, have a nice day."

2. A sense of entitlement, seeing women as a collective that should automatically admire you for X and Y reasons (usually "I have money" or "I have a good car") rather than for your personality, physicality or human traits.

Would you f*ck a woman just because she has a really nice coffee table? Or because she had a Lambo? I know I wouldn't, I wouldn't give a s*** about those things.

3. You expect women to be impressed by material possession and at the same time look down on them as shallow money-grabbing wh*res the minute they don't like you. Both hypocritical and a ridiculous generalisation.

4. An over-reliance on buying your way to success (plastic surgery, which you don't need) rather than doing it through work and commitment (the gym, which would make you look great and vastly improve your interactions with women).

There you go, a summary. All things you can fix with time, but you got shirty last time I told you the truth, so feel free to get mad at me again and I'll leave you to it bud.
 

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I thought I got a hot one for a second. She even messaged me first.

Turns out, it was a bot.

Kill me now, please.

There is no point in trying to build a successful business or anything if girls will never find me attractive. If they don't now, they won't ever. I will just get older, age, and die. All alone. No kids, no grandkids. Possibly a huge sum of money to pass along through intestate succession.

Or maybe I'll put in my will that I want to be buried with it or have it burned.
Richard:

How many hours do you work a week? I bet it's more than the average 40-hour work week, and I bet it's with more than average effort. Why? Because you know if you work averagely, you will have an average net-worth. You already know that to be in the top echelon of wealth in this country, you will have to work your ass off (at least in the beginning) and provide superior service.

Yet you provide below-average attention to your looks and below-average attention to showcasing your product. If you want to bang top echelon women for free, you are going to have to put in the work like everyone else.

That is:

1) Skin care (Exfoliation, retin-a, micro-needling)
2) Hair care (tend to the thinning, Toppik, Fut) or buzz completely;
3) Physique (Exercise and diet);
4) Style (fitted shirt, designer pants, Italian shoes, watch)

Sound gay? Then leave the hottest women to those men who do tend to their appearance.

THEN you showcase your perfected product, whether that be in person approach or OLD using professional shots as I delineated to you in the past.

You have the ability to bang hot women for free, but you're lazy. If you're lazy, then accept your fate. Else, do something about it.
 

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@LessThanSmooth he's been told all of this before.

I don't think he really cares. I think he's just attention seeking here and finds the interaction validating

I'm not going to tell you what to do but I suggest not wasting your time
 
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1. Insecurity and lack of confidence. Some b*tch tells you you're "4/10" and you believe her and get upset about it. If you're internally confident you'd just be like "Well, you're not my type either, have a nice day."

2. A sense of entitlement, seeing women as a collective that should automatically admire you for X any Y reasons (usually "I have money" or "I have a good car") rather than for your personality, physicality or human traits.

Would you f*ck a woman just because she has a really nice coffee table? Or because she had a Lambo? I know I wouldn't, I wouldn't give a s*** about those things.

3. You expect women to be impressed by material possession and at the same time look down on them as shallow money-grabbing wh*res the minute they don't like you. Both hypocritical and a ridiculous generalisation.

4. An over-reliance on buying your way to success (plastic surgery, which you don't need) rather than doing it through work and commitment (the gym, which would make you look great and vastly improve your interactions with women).

There you go, a summary. All things you can fix with time, but you got shirty last time I told you the truth, so feel free to get mad at me again and I'll leave you to it bud.
This wasn't an isolated incident.

I've done way more things than just money. That's the only thing that's worked for me in the past 8 years.
 

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If my outside wasn't broken, then I would probably have a match rate of better than 0/100 on dating apps
I mean... Tinder is one of the hardest places to get girls, I've swiped through more than a hundred girls and basically never got a match that went anywhere either.
 

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What's an easier app? If one even exists.
OLD is for really physically attractive men, the only advantage for men is that the average guy online is a weirdo with no game so you look better by comparison than the third worlder begging for boobs or the guys who immediately send **** pics

They say tinder and all other platforms (plenty of fish, ok cupid, etc.) Is best used as a suppliment rather than a main thing to rely on.

I'd say you have a few options:

1. Get professional shots done by a photographer, still have 1 or 2 candid photos so that you look like a real person, but professional shots will probably make you look like a model

2. Meet women on places where you can chat that aren't specifically OLD platforms, i had more success sliding into the DMs of randoms and adding friends of friends on facebook than with tinder. (but this can blow up in your face and screw you over so practice and refine your game before you do it)

3. Spend a looooooot of time and effort on OLD, swipe through 1000+ tinder girls (don't swipe right on all of them or tinders algorithm might detect it)
 
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OLD is for really physically attractive men, the only advantage for men is that the average guy online is a weirdo with no game so you look better by comparison than the third worlder begging for boobs or the guys who immediately send **** pics

They say tinder and all other platforms (plenty of fish, ok cupid, etc.) Is best used as a suppliment rather than a main thing to rely on.

I'd say you have a few options:

1. Get professional shots done by a photographer, still have 1 or 2 candid photos so that you look like a real person, but professional shots will probably make you look like a model

2. Meet women on places where you can chat that aren't specifically OLD platforms, i had more success sliding into the DMs of randoms and adding friends of friends on facebook than with tinder. (but this can blow up in your face and screw you over so practice and refine your game before you do it)

3. Spend a looooooot of time and effort on OLD, swipe through 1000+ tinder girls (don't swipe right on all of them or tinders algorithm might detect it)
What should the locations of these professional photographs be taken in?

I had a photographer say downtown. I think that's played out and the amount of other people around would probably distract me from taking pictures, which is something I already hate doing anyway.

How could they make me look like a model? Are you talking lighting and makeup and sh1t like that?
 

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What should the locations of these professional photographs be taken in?

I had a photographer say downtown. I think that's played out and the amount of other people around would probably distract me from taking pictures, which is something I already hate doing anyway.
I imagine the best person to ask would be whatever photographer you go with, assuming they're an experienced reputable professional they'll know how to make you look good

What I'd personally suggest is having something recognizable in the background, like if you live in chicago and that's what your profile says then you have something that looks distinctly like chicago behind you, so that your photos look totally real (there's a chance that you'll look too good)

How could they make me look like a model? Are you talking lighting and makeup and sh1t like that?
Ever seen a girl who looks like a 6 in real life but is an 8 in her selfies on social media?

Well i know an actual model who is normally a 7-7.5 that turns into a 9 in her modelling photos.

So the lighting, the pose you make, the location, how well you're dressed, etc. Will all add to making you look really good (make up optional but i doubt the photographer is gonna walk around carrying a bag of men's makeup but idk lol)
 
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