Got a lapdance...

( . )( . )

Banned
Joined
Dec 31, 2002
Messages
4,875
Reaction score
177
Location
Cobra Kai dojo
Señor Fingers said:
Nevermind the cash, Tits.

What about our most precious commodity... TIME!!!

Either way you pay. And the investment only makes sense if you are getting something out of it (besides a holster for your penis)
Bingo. "Either way we pay" Sheet I'll be payin for the next 14 years. And some of you guys reckon paying an escort is "sad" or "chumpish" (I used too aswell),pffft we dont know jack ,how wrong we are or were :crazy:

Oh and for the record I've never payed for a hooker (at least one that states it on her tax declaration), but I'm starting to reconsider that as I type.
 

edger

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2006
Messages
1,875
Reaction score
39
Location
A state in America that'll unmercifully leave you
MatureDJ said:
Although you think your game is intact, perhaps it is not.
I know it sounds like the typical self-delusional "I'm doing everything right, I follow everything from this site" rant, but I can positively tell you it is not. I know it's hard to believe that my game is good and I'm a good-looking guy when I'm only reeling in hotties every once in a while. If it were another poster posting what I've posted, in all honesty, I'd be hesitant to believe him too..I'd be the first one to probably say, "this guy can't have good game and be good looking and not be banging HOT women on a consistent basis". It's very hard to believe indeed when someone is telling you this. But all I know is, I'm doing the job for the most part(97% good game)the way it's supposed to be done. Whether you choose to believe it, is up to you. No hard feelings, I understand. Something else has to be at play here, something beyond that of this world, whether you wanna call it fate, a curse, or whatever, as crazy as it might sound. After I've ruled everything else out, that's the only sound explanation I can come up with.

I know dudes who have terrible game who are f*cking beautiful babes consistently. If THEY are pulling tail like that, then I should without question be pulling tail like that..to the point where I'd be puking up women, lol.
 

ketostix

Banned
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
3,871
Reaction score
55
edger said:
I know it sounds like the typical self-delusional "I'm doing everything right, I follow everything from this site" rant that many guys talk about, but I can positively tell you it is not. I know it's hard to believe that my game is good and I'm a good-looking guy, when I'm only reeling in hotties every once in a while. If it were another poster posting what I've posted, in all honesty, I'd be hesitant to believe him too..I'd be the first one to probably say, "this guy can't have good game and be good looking and not be banging HOT women on a consistent basis". It's very hard to believe indeed when someone is telling you this. But all I know is, I'm doing everything the way it's supposed to be done. Whether you choose to believe it, is up to you. No hard feelings. Something else has to be at play here, something beyond that of this world, whether you wanna call it fate, a curse, or whatever, as crazy as it might sound. After I've ruled everything else out, that's the only sound explanation I can come up with.

Edgar there's no way you can have good game and be good looking and not do well. The only other explanation is you either have way to high standards in girls or you have much more success than you realize and are complaining about nothing. I doubt it's either of those two, if you're standards were too high you'd still be getting action from girls, and besides having too high standards is not good game. And I don't think you're having average to above average success and not realizing it. This also wouldn't be good game at elast inner game.

You're either not as goodlooking to women as you think, or your game isn't as good as you think. Good looks and good game would equal enough social proof. You can't deny this because part of good game is creating social proof. There's nothing else left besides money. There's no such thing as a "curse" or paranormal "destiny" that would control your fate with women that wouldn't also have to manifest in either your appearance or game. Just you saying things like that is manifestation that you don't have good inner-game and consequently imperfect outer-game too.

You obviously have room for improvement in your game, but you don't want to admit it. There's probably room for improvement in your looks and style too. You really do sound a lot like wutang with height or Mad Manic with race, except you attributed to some intangible factor.

edger said:
I know dudes who have terrible game who are f*cking beautiful babes consistently. If THEY are pulling tail like that, then I should without question be pulling tail like that..to the point where I'd be puking up women.
See you say they have terrible game, but evidently these women don't think so. You probably also think these guys are goodlooking, but evidently these females think they are attractive. And how do you know they're fvcking these beautiful women consistently? Plus I can see that you have unreasonably high expectations. No matter how good you are with women it's very unusual for a guy to be able to get that many beautiful women.
 

edger

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2006
Messages
1,875
Reaction score
39
Location
A state in America that'll unmercifully leave you
ketostix said:
Edgar there's no way you can have good game and be good looking and not do well. The only other explanation is you either have way to high standards in girls or you have much more success than you realize and are complaining about nothing. I doubt it's either of those two, if you're standards were too high you'd still be getting action from girls, and besides having too high standards is not good game. And I don't think you're having average to above average success and not realizing it. This also wouldn't be good game at elast inner game.

You're either not as goodlooking to women as you think, or your game isn't as good as you think. Good looks and good game would equal enough social proof. You can't deny this because part of good game is creating social proof. There's nothing else left besides money. There's no such thing as a "curse" or paranormal "destiny" that would control your fate with women that wouldn't also have to manifest in either your appearance or game. Just you saying things like that is manifestation that you don't have good inner-game and consequently imperfect outer-game too.

You obviously have room for improvement in your game, but you don't want to admit it. There's probably room for improvement in your looks and style too. You really do sound a lot like wutang with height or Mad Manic with race, except you attributed to some intangible factor.



See you say they have terrible game, but evidently these women don't think so. You probably also think these guys are goodlooking, but evidently these females think they are attractive. And how do you know they're fvcking these beautiful women consistently? Plus I can see that you have unreasonably high expectations. No matter how good you are with women it's very unusual for a guy to be able to get that many beautiful women.
Ketostix, you've even agreed with me in a past thread that even with "good game" it's hard to bag hot women? Did you not? I'll link your post:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1328417#post1328417
 

ketostix

Banned
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
3,871
Reaction score
55
edger said:
Ketostix, you've even agreed with me in a past thread that even with "good game" it's hard to bag hot women? Did you not? I'll link your post:http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1328417#post1328417
Yes I agree that it can still be hard to bag hot women even with good game. But I was assuming the hypothetical person also didn't have good looks. I sort of blend game and appearance together though. If your nonverbal communication is off even if your verbal game and such is good you will still fail even with decent physical looks. But if you have goodlooks and good game you will bag some hot women if you go after them. Whatever is your sticky point, it might not be your fault or easy to fix, you might not even realize it or have control over it. I'm just saying it has to be something tangible and manifested in your looks or game.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

taiyuu_otoko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2008
Messages
5,372
Reaction score
4,025
Location
象外
how is it possilble for ANYBODY (not pointing fingers) to have good game and not be consistently banging hot women???

That doesn't make any logical sense.

Thats like saying "we're a good team, but we never win"

or "my wife's a great cook but I alwasy get food poisoning"

or "that movie was really exciting but I fell asleep"

or "my boss told me I'm his best emloyee, but I just got fired"

or "I'm really in great shape, but I get super winded walking up the stairs"

:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:
 

ketostix

Banned
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
3,871
Reaction score
55
taiyuu_otoko said:
how is it possilble for ANYBODY (not pointing fingers) to have good game and not be consistently banging hot women???

That doesn't make any logical sense.

Thats like saying "we're a good team, but we never win"

or "my wife's a great cook but I alwasy get food poisoning"

or "that movie was really exciting but I fell asleep"

or "my boss told me I'm his best emloyee, but I just got fired"

or "I'm really in great shape, but I get super winded walking up the stairs"

:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

Well I sort of agree if you're looking at game from an overall perspestive as oposed to game as just your persona. You could have good game but without the required threshold of looks and status you could have a tough go at banging hot women. You probably will very ocassionally get a hot girl, which is what edger claims he does. But a lot of the time it's going to be hard to get your foot in the door to run your game and your game is going to subjectively evaluated by the hot girl based on your looks. Most hot girls have a choice of plenty of goodlooking guys with game and sometimes status and money. They don't have to settle on a guy with just good game. My point is if you truley have both good looks and good game, then money/ status isn't necessary to get hot girls. So there's no way a guy that has good game and looks would have a lot of trouble getting hot girls.
 

Centaurion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2001
Messages
2,315
Reaction score
16
Location
Europe
!!!!!!!!YOU ALWAYS PAY FOR SEX!!!!!!!!!

It doesn't matter if it's a 'normal' chick or a hooker - you always.

I was thinking about this yesterday, and I made an excel sheet over how much I spend everytime I go out, be it a date or go clubbing in order to pick up chicks.

This is what I came up with (these are all min. costs) :

Pre-party drinks/beers = 60 USD
Cab to club = 40 USD
Entry fee to club (I usually hit two clubs everytime I go out) : 40 USD
Drinks/beer in the club(s) = 120 USD
Cab home = 80

TOTAL = 340 USD

In addition to the direct monetary costs, comes indirect costs - the time I spend on going out. Let's say I spend 10 hours/everytime I go out. If I worked instead of going out I would have made 300 USD. (Actually, I consider my time to be more valuable than this. Time is the most precious thing we have as you can never get it back).

Also, it is not always guaranteed that I shack up with a chick.


Anyways, If you add all this up, I'm out 640 USD. 640 USD for what? Is it worth to dish out 640 USD for a ONS with a HB (considering what some of the guys on this board go for - UGs)?

HELL NO!!!!!
 

FoolsCause

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2007
Messages
158
Reaction score
1
Location
house
For $20 a lap dance, I expect full-body contact. At a strip club in downtown San Francisco, you can grab them "anywhere but the pvssy". One girl offered $5 lap dances 'special' there.

I went to a strip club last week for the first time in a couple years, and I was invited to a side room with soft cushion chairs, and all she offered was $20 lap dances with no contact because "they were cracking down" so I left after two dances.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,116
Reaction score
230
go to best buy.
Find the biggest best flat screen that money could buy.
Watch half a movie.
Throw all your money in your wallet at it.
Leave.

Same thing as a strip club. you leave with less than you came with.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

MotownMack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2008
Messages
373
Reaction score
11
Just to get the first time out of the way, build some extra confidence, etc?
If the confidence you seek is that you don't want to suck as bad in bed the first time you're with a woman that might go somewhere, that's one thing.

As far as confidence with other women goes, do you really believe that knowing in the back of your mind, you paid for sex, is really going to make you more confident?

I've seen guys go out and game women, sleep with them, and still lack confidence. It's like disease. So I am failing to see how paying for a hooker is going to help you overcome this.
 

MikeEdward1973

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2007
Messages
276
Reaction score
9
See my signature.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,116
Reaction score
230
so...there are no neighborhood slvts around your way? I mean everyone I know lost theirs to some girl who was known as the neighborhood slut, she might not even live in our neighborhood, but that didn't matter.
 
Top