got a bank teller's number - when should i call?

[PrettyBoyAJ]

This is when you delete her number.

If she contacts you you can try again. Until then you can't do anything but see her and act like the $hit never went down.

 

[Kohinoor1]

should i tease/neg her (in person) about not picking up her phone or say its rude to ignore a call?

at this point ive already moved on, but it might be fun practice.

 

[Iceberg]

should i tease/neg her (in person) about not picking up her phone or say its rude to ignore a call?

at this point ive already moved on, but it might be fun practice.

What would you be practicing? How NOT to act?

You gave it a shot. It failed. That's life. Time to move forward.

 

[MrI0wn]

It's over. You called twice with no reply and the ball was in her court. Then you sent her a text message, no reply. You are no different from the dozens of other guys that talk to her every ****ing day.

I knew this was going to hell after you already called twice, can't say I'm surprised people still told you to foolishly keep pursuing even after that.

 

[Mr. Suave]

Why would you even need to "move on" from her? To me it sounds like she's just a random girl you met in the bank... It's not like you have any sort of connection. Forget her.

 

[Kohinoor1]

What would you be practicing? How NOT to act?

You gave it a shot. It failed. That's life. Time to move forward.

er, i meant in a playful way. its inevitable that i will see her again.

Why would you even need to "move on" from this girl? To me it sounds like.she's just a random girl you met in the bank... It's not like you have any sort of connection AFAIK apart from some quick talking...

moving on like 'on to the next one'.

 

[Pwnge]

Keep it professional when you see her. None of that what you been up to crap. Deposit your money and get back to business.

 

[MisterD]

Well no contact, that's a definite. And when you see her, business as usual. Don't let her get the slighest hint that she affected your ego in any way. Don't feel bitter, dont ask her what happened, nothing. Don't give her that validation. You didn't blow your chance with her, she blew her chance with you. That's how I always try to view it. These chicks think they're doing you a favor by giving you their numbers and then politely rejecting you. You're not doing me any favors, if anything, I did you a favor by trying to show you a good time, but you blew it honey.

 

[evansblue]

2 calls and a text? And you're thinking about calling her again?

Then you're going back to the bank to talk to her?

Wow. The security guard is probably going to escort you out for harassing this chick.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Nope don't think that bro. Again she is freaking testing you without fail. She is probably really shy. Girls have been notorious for calling a dude back months later all ready for something. She is probably trying to get you off your game.

Show her some more interest. Again give it a couple of months and space out your contact with her. My suggestion is to text her again how happy you were to have met her. Start talking about yourself and how busy you are. Bust her on not returning your stuff. Say something like "I am happy I met you and I would like to see you but you are acting like a tease ."

Keep trying buddy but after 3 times calling and 3 times texting with no dice go ahead and wait a couple of months then try again. If she doesn't pick up on it by then forget her and move on. Also try to build some more rapport with her in person as this may increase her IL and could cause her to call you out of the blue one day.

Are you a girl posing as a dude giving advice??

What kind of self respecting man with options would contact someone 6x with no reply, then try again in a month? Do you know how socially retarded that makes you look, seriously?

I'm all for confident persistence, not giving up too quick; but the bottom line here is if a girl has healthy interest in you she will not test you when it comes to getting together for a first date.

No one should waste time trying to elevate interest in a girl who already isn't at a healthy level; meet new ones who are and who knows in the time away she might come around. Girls have a funny 6th sense of knowing when you have lost interest and are meeting new girls.







PIMP

 

[Kohinoor1]

so i saw her again today. i havent seen her since i first made the thread - been traveling and she was at other locations when i did go to the bank. anyway, turns out she is engaged now and she looks pregnant, maybe 2 months. funny how things turn out...

 

[oxford comma]

so what? engaged aint married. text her again. say you have a deposit to make, then follow it up with a ****pic.