Idk why but once in a while(like lately) I like to watch some vids on YouTube besides what I learned from book of Pook and sosuave.
There's this PUA coach(the33secrets)who said:
1) Good women(hot, feminine,etc) are never single
2) Its okay to talk to one that is with a bf(not married )because most are never serious anyway and 80-90% of those relationships end..and that blue pill guys stay away from women with bf
This is kind of disheartening because like that makes it seem that us guys have to essentially go for a good chick thats looking to be 'stolen'
How accurate is this dude? Are there good women who ARE single? One thing I do notice is that the hottest looking chicks at gym or other places are married lol whether they're good , bad, nice(obviously I don't know cause I don't talk to married chicks like that). On top of that I knoow good looking good women are married as well.
This is 100% false. In fact, it is more false than ever.
1) the major concentrations of hot women are in college. Almost none of them are married or in committed relationships.
2) women who work full time are now the norm. As a result, many are forced to relocate right out of college. Lacking social circles, a lot of these girls remain single for long periods.
3) many local girls get drunk on the power of their youthful looks and don't get into relationships, but remain single, milking guys for money and dates and attention.
As I've already stated, access is a problem for the bottom 80% of men. These single women are almost always waiting for the top 20% of men and we are in very high demand. If you are in this same pool, you've experienced the same. The supply of women is overwhelming if you are in the top 5th and the numbers only increase as you move up in percentile.
PUA coaches are almost always wrong in the details that matter, and in general philosophy overall.
