some thing to say on nighthawk's, dont be sarcastic. be playfully teasing. sarcastic doesnt work. and i dont know why, but i feel that when we suggest someone to be sarcastic, they think if they say anything like "i know u love me, but u have to wait for me" would make the girl fall for them. nopes, u can even get a reply like "dont u think too highly of urself?", ya i know u can def come back with a witty c/f comment but man, thats destructing the chemistry. remember its not being sarcastic, being teasing, being playful or being dominant that works. only thing that matters is when u have a solid chemistry or vibe with that girl, then u can lead it to anywhere u want. she will be enjoying that. girls want excitement but not when u make them feel down. my advice to u, johnny, just dont express ur feeling clearly to her, focus on having fun and creating that vibe with her and oh ya, dont let ur value down. im not saying u have to DHV but dont do anything u come down from her level. AND ALL THESE SAID, PLEASE REMEMBER to take it to the next level slowly. even if u know she likes u and she is attracted to u, dont rush into flirting that quickly, or u come of as hitting on her, u get me? jsut give her a good time, create the vibe and aim on gradually excalating ur kino level thru kino games, fun-dancing, etc. and oh ya, when u think flirting is rite now, just start creating the sexual tension thru intense eye glaring contact, sly smile and highly seductive kino. thats it and u snog together someday!