Good sex, disrespectful wife and child

[Aralius]

Yeah, also watching Rians Sidebars and joining the community helped a lot.

 

[lamath]

Some women can't be fixed but with many its often bad leadership/frame.
Honestly man you have no idea of the toll a divorce can take on you and your kids. A lot of women go crazy when you start dating and then they start brainwashing the kids. I highly suggest going for shared custody if you go ahead,. you might think its not going to be like that for you but it most likely will.
Fix things if you can, most of the time the grass is only greener for a short while on the other side.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I would have a question, though:
Do any of you divorced guys feel pity for your ex?

I do; she had everything necessary to her:
1. Huge dual incomes.
2. Vacation home.
3. New German cars every five years or so.
4. The validation from being married to an HV man that's attractive enough to attract her GFs and have them say it in front of us both.
5. Bangin retirement savings.
6. A doting blue-pilled man who would've done anything for her.

Her rigidity led me to self-help books like NMMNG and MMSL, which led me to Roosh, and here, I would've never even considered Red Pill if she'd even tried to keep me around. She facked the literal pooch. Now I'm a hardcore evo-psych/red pill advocate.

Now, she has none of that and is an old, frigid, fat maid who stands a meager chance of ever attracting another man like me. EVER. Medically, she's falling apart, too, because she drinks too much and isn't very physically active. Instead of losing weight and getting a new wardrobe, boyfriends, and all the things 40-something divorcees do, she's let herself go. When we were married, she was a 7; now, she's dropped into the 5s. I would have done anything to keep my marriage together and tried for years - she would never meet me halfway. I left her. I will probably help my kids bury her inside two decades from now. She will die a miserably unhappy woman, all because she could not figure out what was important in life.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Aurelius,
" Do any of you divorced guys feel pity for your ex?"
great to see that despite the Trauma you have still retained your sense of humour.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Aurelius,
Your name set was reknowned for his stoicism and I think thats why you chose it,but there was also another side to him,as a Warrior he tamed the Persians and Armenians...Having chosen a path where every hand will be turned against you, cultivate both aspects of this Man you admire!

 

[Macadellic]

name calls me, like she did since we met.

This is where you f/cked up

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I would have a question though:
Do any of you divorced guys feel pity for your ex?

Nope.

Hard to feel pity after you've seen what's behind the mask of sanity.