time2change said:
It's not an excuse, at least I hope so
I'm not afraid to talk to her and I will!!!, I just think that the first impression is very important. Besides, it would be better to talk to her in person in our faculty yet it's wouldn't be so easy to meet her alone without her friends.
And there's also another girl I'm working on currently.
Btw, it would be nice to think of a C&F opening line if I text her on fb.
The reason I'm saying not to wait is because a lot can happen in a month, she could end up with someone else, etc, that's why it's best to just grab your balls and make a move. First impressions matter, sure, but I seriously doubt she's going to hate on you because of braces, and if she is, why do you want to be with someone who's that shallow?
Now if you feel self-concious about your braces, that will show, and the lack of confidence will be a turn off, so what I'd work on first is to tell yourself, "Who gives a ****?" Good looking girls are a dime a dozen anyway, and you don't even know her, so it's not like you have very much invested in this.
Your biggest ****block will be procrastination. Trust me.
Now as far as openers go, I can tell you from experience that if you're too caught up in what to say and do around her, you're already putting yourself at a disadvantage. C&F, all that stuff, don't worry about it right now, just be natural but don't supplicate, just keep the mentality that she should be glad you contacted her, not the other way around. In a school environment, this shouldn't even be a problem, ESPECIALLY because you study the same topic.
"Hey what's up, I've heard you're pretty good at {major} and was looking for someone to study with" or whatever. "Studying" is an amazing tool on college campuses. Use it, you'll see.
Just don't get all nervous, that's what'll matter more than braces or any small physical trait you're worried about. Change it to whatever matches your style, YMMV, but it works for me.
