Well said. I think that is the problem that you are dealing with right now. Maybe you should be more playful so that you look less intimidating. You are going to have to make the first move because unless you act totally naive and innocent, they won't make the first move.
Good looks + game = not many results
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Women do work on emotion and not logic. It is exactly right, not a generalization.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I think it's lame to say "oh they are intimidated by me because I'm so good looking." just because they aren't as comfortable with you as your friends. If you truly believe that and it makes you feel better...then so be it I guess.
Bloke
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Let just get one clear for you
You don't have game - otherwise you wouldn't be asking for advice msartie pants
In this case, good looks account for jacksh*t if she's getting onto your friends, & not you who is supposedly so good looking
You don't have game - otherwise you wouldn't be asking for advice msartie pants
In this case, good looks account for jacksh*t if she's getting onto your friends, & not you who is supposedly so good looking
Before this degenerates into a childish "I am right, you are wrong!" bickering session, I'd like to say that I've met cold calculating females that could slice a man in half with their logic, and will go for guys based on what the guy can do for them.
As for 'average' girls, it's ridiculous to assert that 'all women work on emotion'.
If this was true a girl would spread her legs instantaneously, whenever feeling attracted to a guy. If this were true there would be no reason why girls deliberately go out with guys purely to improve their social standing. And if this were true we might never hear of women who consciously marry a rich man in order to later divorce him and gain sums of money.
Even so, emotion and logic are not perfectly discrete faculties.
-Case closed- :crackup:
By the way, you might want to look up the definition for generalisation here: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=generalisation
Because unless you've somehow interacted with every female on the planet, it's a generalisation by definition.
Because unless you've somehow interacted with every female on the planet, it's a generalisation by definition.
Forgive the forum trolls that only come out of the woodwork to express opinions that are blatently wrong.
let me sum this whole post up.
this dude has NO GAME. and if he's as good lookin as he says which i highly doubt he wouldn't have to have much game to begin wtih. But the fact that his friends are pulling females right and left and perplexes him to no end makes me wonder if he's not just the loser friend, other friends drag along because they feel sorry for his pale, stupid sorry @$$.
because OP just because a girl looks at you don't mean shyt. Hell i look at fat ugly bytches all the time, wondering why in gods name they come out in public wearing some hip hugger jeans and a halter top.
End of discussion here folks, go home and trolls please vacate back into the shadows from wence you came and wait for another day to troll again.
let me sum this whole post up.
this dude has NO GAME. and if he's as good lookin as he says which i highly doubt he wouldn't have to have much game to begin wtih. But the fact that his friends are pulling females right and left and perplexes him to no end makes me wonder if he's not just the loser friend, other friends drag along because they feel sorry for his pale, stupid sorry @$$.
because OP just because a girl looks at you don't mean shyt. Hell i look at fat ugly bytches all the time, wondering why in gods name they come out in public wearing some hip hugger jeans and a halter top.
End of discussion here folks, go home and trolls please vacate back into the shadows from wence you came and wait for another day to troll again.
This is a very good point - guys around here are constantly complaining about gold digging women. A gold digger, by definition, is a woman who dates a man for money and material gain rather than emotional connection.
Join the club bro.
I almost never approach someone. Not even when I'm 99% sure she likes me. I only do it whenever I know some people who they know and I know whatever.
Just the other night I was out with my friend (who is even less experienced then me) and I made eyecontact with these 2 girls every time I saw them. We were like chillin at the bar drinking beers and talking etc. Then they started dancing closer and closer and I just interpreted them (the way they looked etc.) as: "Come on, why won't you approach us" and I just didn't do it. I guess my buddy didn't even noticed it. lol. Maybe I should get him some education so I can work with him better, but he's more like: "I'll just get whatever I'm gonna get and eventually I'll get something that's ok."
And I'm all like: "I wanna rule this ****!"
But whatever I'm just going to slowly inject him some of this stuff so he won't notice. Only untill he'll get some nice results
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Okay... Whoever started this topic... I know how you feel... I was once the same as you...
It's not about the attractiveness of a man. WOMEN are attractive. Men are masculine. Men are tough.
You need to become more of a bad boy... toughen up... stop worrying about how your hair looks and be a man that doesn't care about what happens to his appearance, be indestructable.
Metrosexuals are every woman's nightmare. They initially think it's great, but when it comes down to it not ONE woman will choose a metrosexual over a bad boy...
You do have a lot of potential... If you're very attractive, you can be very succesful with women no matter what. You've just still gotta practice.
Think... Brad Pitt... How hot do you think women would find him, if they saw him spend 2 hours on his hair, 3 hours on choosing what shoes to wear and 4 hours on choosing his outfit... Women think he's hot, because he's a bad boy. Not just because he's such an extremely attractive guy.
Understood?
It's not about the attractiveness of a man. WOMEN are attractive. Men are masculine. Men are tough.
You need to become more of a bad boy... toughen up... stop worrying about how your hair looks and be a man that doesn't care about what happens to his appearance, be indestructable.
Metrosexuals are every woman's nightmare. They initially think it's great, but when it comes down to it not ONE woman will choose a metrosexual over a bad boy...
You do have a lot of potential... If you're very attractive, you can be very succesful with women no matter what. You've just still gotta practice.
Think... Brad Pitt... How hot do you think women would find him, if they saw him spend 2 hours on his hair, 3 hours on choosing what shoes to wear and 4 hours on choosing his outfit... Women think he's hot, because he's a bad boy. Not just because he's such an extremely attractive guy.
Understood?
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I-am-someone
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Ask a woman... not me
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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Well since you're new here check out the DJ bible and the Archive. You're gonna learn a lot and your game is gonna get 10000x better.
ya, 10,000x may at first seem like quite an exageration to those of us who were predisposed with game already..
however, it this particular case going from absolute kelvin zero to hogging at the local 24 hour crispy cream...is really quite to advertise about.