Good Looking Guys: Can You Relate?

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I am familiar with the pua literature, pretty well. Of course, I am going to try to max out the variables so to speak. I am finding however, that girls can get intimidated by good looking guys.

I have really tried to tone down the ****y/funny and negs and all that stuff as it can backfire. But sometimes, it can get frustrating still.

These nervous girls start to stutter or blush, or run away, or just look down and do and say nothing, regardless of how nice and complimentary you are.

How are you able to get past this? This is becoming an issue even with the hotter girls I encounter, not just average looking girls.
 

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guytime said:
I am finding however, that girls can get intimidated by good looking guys.

These nervous girls start to stutter or blush, or run away, or just look down and do and say nothing, regardless of how nice and complimentary you are.

How are you able to get past this? This is becoming an issue even with the hotter girls I encounter, not just average looking girls.
Wow dude, it sounds like you are absolutely GORGEOUS! :crackup:

I'm quite the Adonis myself, considering the fact that I'm going to be starting my male modeling career pretty soon ;)

But in all seriousness, although I'm an above-average looking guy who is tall in stature I have actually not experienced the same kinds of roadblocks that you seem to be talking about here. This probably has to do with the fact that I wear glasses (huge turn-off for girls, no matter what the media says) about 95 percent of the time. This probably masks my blue eyes and gives me more of a "nerdy" feel/look.

But enough about myself, let's get back to the task at hand my brother - which is YOU! :yes:

In this case, it would help to look at the history of how and where these PUA tactics originated from... Erik von Markovik (the real name of the infamous Mystery) created the neg technique in order to bring a gorgeous babe (H8+) down to the level of an average or below average looking guy. This not particulary remarkable man (who would have otherwise gone completely unoticed in the club) would set himself apart from all the other males (his competition) by saying something controversial such as a backhanded compliment that a gorgeous babe would never hear from the plethora of chodes attempting to kiss her ass everyday. So in this case, the basic goal of a neg was to bring the goddess down to the level of an average or even nerdy, shy, socially-awkward (keeping in mind the kind of students that became the pioneers of the Seduction Community) guys.

David DeAngelo's ****y Comedy routine seems to actually originate from the way in which the pimps interacted with the good looking women (accorinding to Player Supreme, this tactic was a long-standing tradition in the Black Community & it was known as "Bustin on a B1tch"). Similar to Mystery's negs, David D's ****y & Funny routines were a much more natural way of bringing the fine honies down a couple of notches... Interestingly enough, the "****y comedy" has been known to have failed even the below-average looking guys (and trust me, this little strategy is quite easy to overuse/misuse/abuse).

In your case, I would recommend any of Tyler Durden's (Real Social Dynamics) more natural programs/methods/approaches to the game. Try these programs - Foundations, Transformations, Flawless Natural and The Blueprint Decoded (which is considered to be the most advanced and information filled program that has ever been offered in the history of the Seduction Community).

If you're extremely serious about improving yourself, I'd recomend Player Supreme's style of game. He's a fifty year-old black fellow who has probably been in the game longer and experienced many more things than any of the so-called PUA gurus out there. In fact, Supreme actually detests all of the PUAs and collectively labels them as "nerds" :crackup:

To summarize, considering the important fact that you are a very good-looking guy (or so you claim... lmao) utilizing the tactics that were originally intended for nerds to use, would actually mess up your game. Instead, you have enough masculine energy/presence to go more direct and natural in your interactions with women.


Hopefully, this little lesson will help you make the proper changes in your life to grow as a man & be able to "swim in pvssy" sometime in the near future. If you have any additional questions, feel free to message me.
Till then, keep playing playa :cool:

- Master Don Juan OTB
 

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My strategy would to dominate these women with kino since obviously they're already attracted and feel unworthy. I'd close the distance, invade her space and work my charm.

If she's really intimidated, then she'll secretly admire you're agressiveness.
 

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exactly. If they're intimidated by you, all you need to do, is take the lead.Also, negs are not necessarily designed to knock a chick off her pedestal. They are also designed to throw the chick off, as if to convey that you arent really hitting on her, so she will hopefully let her guard down. You dont need to knock a chick down, because they are not above you, to begin with. Negs are just to show that you arent supplicating to her. If a chick is attracted to you, there is no reason to neg, because her guard is already down.
 

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I've found that as a good looking guy (sue me, I'm vain), you don't need to do any PUA tricks/techniques BS because it just makes you look like a try-hard douche who had been living under a rock for the past 10 years.

All I have to do is....you ready?....be myself. Now, my specific personality is very sarcastic, outgoing, wild at times, ****y, and hilarious. One of my buddies is actually 10x better looking than I am, and he is more quiet and shy than I am. He still got laid like a rock star back when he was single though. So the type of personality isn't really a huge factor if you're trying to pick up chicks in club/bar scene so long as you're good looking.

Now, when it comes to getting into relationships...that's a whole different ball game.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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schttrj said:
lovely post, OTB...he said it all.

@OTB, do you know any link where i can download the flawless natural???
BTjunkie. All the rest of them are there too, not that Im condoning that or anything.
 
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meeting milf

I approached a tall hot blonde milf today just for the heck of it at a convenience store at lunchtime. How do I know she was a milf? Because I saw her telling her teenage son to get some milk a minute after I talked to her!

Anyway, I just asked her if some particular item I was looking for was in stock as I stood nearby. She seemed friendly at first, "oh, I don't know it must be here..." After that, she just froze. She said nothing, and barely moved. She did look at me wide eyed, almost as if she were in shock. It almost seemed like she stopped breathing.

I finally said: "thank you so much for your help."

She just burst out laughing with apparent relief: "ha ha ha ha! you're welcome."

That was tense, dude. At least for her.

I'm going to keep trying this just to experiment.
 

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guytime said:
I approached a tall hot blonde milf today just for the heck of it at a convenience store at lunchtime. How do I know she was a milf? Because I saw her telling her teenage son to get some milk a minute after I talked to her!

Anyway, I just asked her if some particular item I was looking for was in stock as I stood nearby. She seemed friendly at first, "oh, I don't know it must be here..." After that, she just froze. She said nothing, and barely moved. She did look at me wide eyed, almost as if she were in shock. It almost seemed like she stopped breathing.

I finally said: "thank you so much for your help."

She just burst out laughing with apparent relief: "ha ha ha ha! you're welcome."

That was tense, dude. At least for her.

I'm going to keep trying this just to experiment.

The best is when girls try to run game on YOU...that has got to be the most challenging thing for a girl to do! I recall several time when girls would use pickup lines in the most awkward places and times possible.

Most times, I just busted out laughing in front of them!

priceless...
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Have you ever just tried "Hey" ?

I do it all the time now, a powerful confident hello with a smile. Try on the next shop clerk you meet to build up confidence. Guess what you dont need "games" with woman most of the time, just hi and smile, your looks will carry the initial interaction no problem. If you want it to continue the interactions, make sure your inner game is tight. But that is a whole other issue.
 

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Greg from the show used to have this problem. Honestly, if you're a better looking guy, this is a HUGE advantage and should be helping you more than hurting you.

Observing Greg in field, he definitely tones his personality down a bit and as a matter of fact, he acts a little more AFC. Overall, you need to be approachable.
Girls never approach guys and if you think you have approach anxiety bad, it's 10x worse for girls. It's kind of the same feeling you get when you see an HB10 and you haven't opened a single set that night yet.

Make yourself approachable, that's the keyword, easy/relaxed, perhaps a little soft spoken
 

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I've learned c&f and negs usually do more harm than good, regardless of your delivery. If you're a good looking guy, she probably doesn't feel that pedestal raising her off the ground like it does with average guys.

So the moral of the story is don't kick a pedestal that isn't there, or you're just kicking her in the shins.
 
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