Hey Guys,
I've been a long time player of the game. I've never really indulged myself 100% into it but i've used alot of what pick up has to offer and incorporated it into my interactions with women.
I'd like to think i am a decent looking guy. Not being arrogant but i get checked out a bit and it always surprises me when i catch 9's or 10's having a good old perv . i've got this boyish bad boy, naughty, trouble maker look about me that girls love apparently and i have a good sense of fashion. A few girls have admitted to me looking naughty being very attractive. I get a lot of attraction based of my look alone, and girls are open to conversation with me. I always catch eye contact. I have a different hair cut so i get noticed EVERYWHERE i go. But then again, i have been called ugly by a few haha
I've gotten with a lot of women i reckon primarily based off my looks, mixed with a bit of conversation. But the thing is, nothing ever happens after the initial pickup.
i can't count or even remember the amount of girls i have hooked up with in the past 2 years but i can count the number of girls on one hand with whom i've actually hung out with after and had a good time with and hooked up AGAIN with.
I've been starting to question my personality as a cause of it and it not being congruent with the image i portray. I'll give you guys a critical breakthrough of me as i can, I am a fairly outgoing guy and am really humorous.I really enjoy making people laugh no matter the cost so sometimes i make myself look like a clown to do so. I make conversations a little sexual (maybe borderline sleazy?) and always speak my mind, no matter what it is about or how weird or creepy the thought is. I guess some girls don't appreciate this? i don't know. I think i may be to funny during conversations and i end up losing attraction?
I'm really starting to feel down about myself, and it really sucks!
I don't want to change who i am, but i would like to better tailor myself to become more attractive!
It doesn't help that i meet a majority of my women when they are out partying so most likely under the influence to an extent. But about 6 in 10 respond to texts but it fizzles out soon.
I'm so sorry this post has been so long, but i would really really appreciate some input on my problem! I'm sure a few other guys are facing a similar dilemma.
Thanks alot guys, again sorry for the long post!
I've been a long time player of the game. I've never really indulged myself 100% into it but i've used alot of what pick up has to offer and incorporated it into my interactions with women.
I'd like to think i am a decent looking guy. Not being arrogant but i get checked out a bit and it always surprises me when i catch 9's or 10's having a good old perv . i've got this boyish bad boy, naughty, trouble maker look about me that girls love apparently and i have a good sense of fashion. A few girls have admitted to me looking naughty being very attractive. I get a lot of attraction based of my look alone, and girls are open to conversation with me. I always catch eye contact. I have a different hair cut so i get noticed EVERYWHERE i go. But then again, i have been called ugly by a few haha
I've gotten with a lot of women i reckon primarily based off my looks, mixed with a bit of conversation. But the thing is, nothing ever happens after the initial pickup.
i can't count or even remember the amount of girls i have hooked up with in the past 2 years but i can count the number of girls on one hand with whom i've actually hung out with after and had a good time with and hooked up AGAIN with.
I've been starting to question my personality as a cause of it and it not being congruent with the image i portray. I'll give you guys a critical breakthrough of me as i can, I am a fairly outgoing guy and am really humorous.I really enjoy making people laugh no matter the cost so sometimes i make myself look like a clown to do so. I make conversations a little sexual (maybe borderline sleazy?) and always speak my mind, no matter what it is about or how weird or creepy the thought is. I guess some girls don't appreciate this? i don't know. I think i may be to funny during conversations and i end up losing attraction?
I'm really starting to feel down about myself, and it really sucks!
I don't want to change who i am, but i would like to better tailor myself to become more attractive!
It doesn't help that i meet a majority of my women when they are out partying so most likely under the influence to an extent. But about 6 in 10 respond to texts but it fizzles out soon.
I'm so sorry this post has been so long, but i would really really appreciate some input on my problem! I'm sure a few other guys are facing a similar dilemma.
Thanks alot guys, again sorry for the long post!