Good Lines & Strategy to Use for a Gym Class Setting (1 single girl & 1 taken)

[Dante420]

Alright so there's two girls in my gym class that I'm trying to get with. I'm not clueless, I'm gonna do what I do regardless but some advice and tips to help refine my game for this situation would be great.


Girl #1. Has a boyfriend, and I want her more then the second option. Sophomore brunette, she's been with her boyfriend for 4 months but it doesn't sound like anything to spectactular. This class started on Monday, I missed Wednesday and Friday, but we talked all class on Monday and Tuesday. She was the first girl in the class to catch my eye. I sat right next to her and we ended up talking all class and I got her number. The next day I was like with her all class, we were just walking around and talking on the indoor track. She knows I just broke up with my girlfriend and I told her I haven't had a good hug in awhile and she gave me a hug. Were talking about hanging out, she couldn't this weekend because of her sister's birthday party but she did say she could next week. So I have all week to start up making some new plans an building something. So what are some good lines I can throw at her for this situation? And maybe some good lines for girls with a boyfriend.

The next girl approached me and introduced herself to me and came around me while I was working out on Thursday which was the last day I was there. So I got all week to meet her, what are some good lines to use and a good way to come across with making plans. I did notice these two girls talking to each other on Thursday so they might be friends. I don't know if they are good friends, doesn't seem like they are that good of friends.

Any advice would be greatfully appreciated. These are the two options that presented themselves to me with the new trimester and the new single life, so I do wanna take advantage.

 

[rjames407]

In this situation you have to choose which ONE to go with, you cannot go with both because even if they werent friends it would 'come out' that you were trying to hit on two girls from the same class - mistake! In terms of which one you go for, obviously the one with the boyfriend will be harder and this is for two reasons: 1) she must have some interest in her boyfriend otherwise she wouldnt be with him so her IL is probably reasonably high, you will have to wait for her BF to go AFC which is quite likely but it will take time and 2) the way you have been with her is indicative of a platonic relationship (e.g. you shouldnt have told her that you have just broken up with your gf and look for sympathy and you certainly shouldnt be looking for a hug...that is AFC). It seems that the other one has a reasonably high IL as she was the one that approached you so if I were you id go for that one, just because it is easier and will take less time and effort.

SO you have to decide which one to go for before setting up a 'plan'!

 

[Dante420]

Nice advice. I didn't ask for the hug though. I really hope that wasn't an AFC move. We were walking around the track and talking. She told me about her past relationship problems, I told her about mine. She asked me about them and they were relevant, this girl probably thought I was still going out with my last girlfriend. She said something about loving to hug people, I said something about not having a good hug, with the exception of the day before, in awhile and she offered me a hug. I think it would be AFC to turn it down and not initiate no contact.


Yeah the second one does sound easy, she has a killer body. You can tell she works out, possibly a virgin.

I'm going to make the first one my #1 priority and see how that goes. So let's start writing up the game plan. Any good lines for a girl with a boyfriend?

 

[rjames407]

A few things just to help you with your decision, although it seems that you have already made your mind up.
If you do go for the girl with the bf it is a higher chance that you will just be rejected outright irrespective of your 'game' because she will be committed to her current relationship. Without meeting this girl I cant really judge what sort of a person she is. For example is she the sort of person that seems that she wouldnt stray from a relationship and would remain very loyal or is she the sort of person that i unpredictable and lively and may stray from a relationship if tempted (which is effectively what you are trying to achieve). The point i am trying to make here is that neither of them are a 'win win' situation, because if she seems like she is not the person that would stray then you are not going to get her, and if she seems like the person that would stray you MAY get her, but then she then demonstrates the fact that she can be unfaithful and if you did eventually get into a relationship with this girl then who knows what she would do. Now, that is arguably a cynical way to look at it but just trying to help you from wasting your time. Another thing is you should be looking elsewhere also, other than your gym class, for other women, if you have others around or are pursuing others then you come off as more relaxed, which is attractive because desperation is AFC!

Even after all of that and the fact that the other girl seems 'easier' you still want to go for the girl with the BF then a few tips:

1. Try to find out a bit about how she first met this guy and how her relationship is with him. NEVER put him down, for example if she says something like, 'He never does....blah blah' then dont say, yeah that sounds bad, dont try to convince her that her bf is bad and not right for her because she will probably defend him and this doesnt work in your favour. Just say im sure he is great in other areas, or something along those lines. On this also, try not to talk about the problems of your relationship or her relationship too much, if at all! Move to topic onto something light and fun.

2. You are going to have to judge, by flirting and teasing whether she is interested in you at all in a romantic sense. THe way you are going to do this is by kino, ****y funny etc and just seeing what her reaction is.

3. If you get a good reaction from her then just go for the kill, be leading and decisive - say something like what are you up to this weekend, lets go for a coffee at (place) at about (time).

Let me know how you get on!

 

[Dante420]

Great advice, thank you.

She already has said she wants to hang out, now it's just when to and how to make plans.

 

[Dante420]

Alright so I see them both next block. Anyone on to give me some last minute tips and good lines. some good C and F lines would be great.

 

[Dante420]

Alright so here's an update. This took an interesting twist today.

Only girl #2 was there. She was flirting with me all class. We were walking on the indoor track alone and I just touched her neck, and she grabbed me by mine. Pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me. She tried making out with me and I told her "Not yet".

 

[Dante420]

Alright so here's an update. This took an interesting twist today.

Only girl #2 was there. She was flirting with me all class. We were walking on the indoor track alone and I just touched her neck, and she grabbed me by mine. Pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me. She tried making out with me and I told her "Not yet". She's really slutty. Earlier I said "What should I do next" referring to working out and she said "Me". After class I told her to meet me after I changed and I'd give her my number. I got out and she was talking to another guy so iwe didn't talk but. What do the Don Juans think?