What's up guys. I'm a college student (junior) just getting back on campus and ready to have a good year. I realized that alcohol consumption will impair my memory badly, so I think this journal can be helpful to me. I hope it will also be helpful to you guys. And I hope you can precisely critique my interactions with the felines, they're always looking for improvement.
Alright so last night was the first night of the semester back at the bars. Lots of anticipation from everyone, and my frat's pregame was about 300 people in itself. It was crowded as fvck so my buddy and I shot off to the bar early with some hotties.
The cab ride there continued what I'd been sensing throughout the day/night: feline attention. Countless girls initiated with me by sticking out there hand and saying their name. This is because I dress fly and like to laugh/smile a lot. Including a dimepiece senior in the cab, who I just sort of biffed on with conversation. Unfortunately, looking back I was like 70% there in terms of headspace throughout the night. This was the cause for me not pulling in the end. However, I definitely had some marginal successes and my failures were minimal.
SUCCESSES:
--Had a great time out with my friends. Boom.
--Playing beer pong with my fratbros at the bar, I immediately sense a babeeee just keep looking over at me. While she was talking to one of my homies. Like, 4 or 5 times in 10 minutes. Didn't talk to her, saw her end up getting carried out like a wounded (and drunken) soldier by her friend. Lol
--Approach 1: I'm squatting like a catcher in front of this huge industrial fan that's in the club. Lol it gets so sweaty that this thing is just essential. I'm around a group of friends so conversation is happening when a cute chick squats in front of me, facing me. She introduces herself first so I know I gotta spit. I proceed to banter with her about our ages, turns out she's a senior (damn where you been). I go in for the makeout within a minute and she declines with a smile. "Are we gonna makeout? (giggle)" I say: "yeah." And casually continue the convo, although it has an undeniable edge now. After maybe 15 more seconds I blast another fire in the hole. She's not quite feeling it again. Soon she stands up (we were in catcher stance), and lingers as to suggest she's waiting for another move. Unfortunately, it was half-assed. I try to say something (instead of grabbin her arm and drawing her for more intimate convo) and simultaneously another chode gets some of her attention. She took a step or two away from me and I ejected. Bummer, but I think my "yeah" response was inaccurate and weak. In any case, this gave me the confidence to give fewer fvcks the rest of the night.
--Approach 2: This sophomore broad (HB East) spots me and approaches with a smile. I know this chick from last year, and she's low quality. However I've hooked up with her and evaluated her huge titties at the same bar, so the sexual tension is abundant. The drawback with this broad is that she sucks, and gets **** on ruthlessly by my frat bros. So I'm just chatting with her (again by the fan) she's interviewing me about my summer, I'm too above her to give full responses to her answers. After like 5 minutes I get fed up and out of nowhere try to kiss her. She's clearly stunned but doesn't kiss back. So I just give her **** about getting lipstick on my lips; she takes her finger and wipes it off. At this point I want to get to the d-floor (where no fratbros will see ) and get to goin' with another fvckin mammagram. However, this drunk annoying kid I know stumbles up and hijacks the interaction. I don't really give a fvck about where this is going, so I eject and say see yall. She says "see you later!" and I smile.
--Other notable (and minor) success: saw this cutie that I'd taken to a date function freshman spring. She's from a different school and this chick I'm friends wit set me up. Super cutie and I copped the makeout, but she ended up getting swooped by my fratbro and banging him a couple times. P!ssed me the fvck off for a while but whatever. It's approaching closing time, and I'm secretly disappointed that I'm not already back with a chick. I'm just posted and I see her getting blared at by some chode, so I just wait for a sec. After she turns to her friend, I go up and hijack their conversation. "Hey!" She's delighted to see me ("I was hoping to talk to you! That lame dude was so annoying"), and although I have a grudge against her for choosing a homie in the past, we're both drunk so it's cool. She says she's going abroad in two days, so I'm thinking maybe she's into a one-night thing. Definitely animated conversation. However, I ****in double dribble and travel at the same godd@mn time: "Take my number in case you need a place to stay tonight" just went nowhere. Convo deflated within 10 seconds. What I think I should have done is said (e.g) "show me how your dance moves have improved since last time" and usher her to the d-floor. Whatever... the funny thing is, later I saw her outside with blood all over her face! Pretty sure she ate sh!t outside waiting for a cab. Lol she was so embarrassed.
--HB Burgh: this chick is a blonde with big tits and even better, she's slutty as they come. Know her from the past when I was a bit more of a chump, but I could definitely hook up with her now. I grabbed her ass (multiple times) and lifted up her dress jokingly while she was fanning off (lol this random fan is coming up way too much). Since my interactions with her weren't on/near the dancefloor, my convo needs to be sexually charged, major. It wasn't quite there--it wasn't chumpy, but it needs to be aggressive. Ignorant if you will. Put this broad in my top 5 prospects because I could literally see me taking her home and fvcking the sh!t out of her.
Also: vibed hard with this chick and then never saw her again. She's historically DTF and did I mention she's cute as hell (HB Dorm). Lived in my dorm last year, and based on interaction she's ready for me to pull the trigger next time it's proper. I guarantee I will pursue this at some point. Also: when I was talking to the chick mentioned below, this chick and her friend both approached me and drew me away from my other conversation. Definitely worked in my favor.
FAILURES:
--So there's this one adorable, tall babe (sophomore; HB South) that I met at our day party last weekend. Vibed super heavy, introduced by our mutual friend and first thing I said to her was "your eyes are really pretty" (which they fvcking are). Anyway, after the dayparty she came to our pregame and I chopped it up big time. Got her to start talking about how she's never had sex at college and how she waits for the right one. She ends up grabbing me just to touch me while I'm faced away from her on the bus to the bar. (The bar was too packed though so my entire pregame pretty much went home w/in 30 minutes of arrival). So I went into last night with this girl strong on my radar. I see her looking my way earlier, so when I finally talk to her later it's just a casual bump-in. She needs to be reminded of my name, so I'm definitely checking that disrespect. The club-game-style-convo isn't really going anywhere though --this chick is definitely prude and hard (so far) to draw into the right frame for me to pull the trigger on a makeout. As the night goes on, she's starting to look sloppy as hell fellas. She talks to every dude; she's very southern and very friendly. It's pretty hard for me to pinpoint where I stand (NOTE: this isn't the right way of thinking. Analysis is paralysis. Take action) Well in her sloppy state she's clearly still interested in me. I'm sitting up on this ledge talking to a hoe when she comes up. I try to pull her up a few feet to sit next to me, but it's doomed. She's hardly capable of making it up, and she immediately starts complaining her a$$ hurts so I tease her for having a soft butt. In a matter of seconds she drops back down, and with that the interaction loses steam. I don't have anything else to report besides the fact that I saw her on the way out (alone). I was walking opposite direction so we just barely hugged as she departed. ***Looking for advice on how to escalate with this goooooooody-goody, extroverted chick.***
--General inaction: I need to be singling out and focusing my sniper on the right birds. HB Dorm was a definite prospect that fell off my radar. Also need to be in that all-systems-a-go headspace. It's essential for full energy and ooze confidence.
Things for personal note: (1) HB Laxtitute (literally a 9) fvcking loves me. Securely friend-zoned, but she dragged me to buy me a drink (ended up spending $30 and she didn't even have one). Then as she was leaving with her friends she grabbed my wrist pretty HARD.... (2) Good job staying relatively in check with alcohol consumption. This is a killer folks. Gotta drink enough to be feeling yourself but then just start sipping beer. (3) 2 younger kids I live with got pu$$y last night. I didn't have an angle at these chicks on the cab ride back, but it's good motivation to keep focused on improvements until next time.
It's key to dwell on the positives and take each day with a vigor, even when not partying. I've got a job and solid classes to work on, not to mention fitness which is in a constant state of improvement.
Oh and just for the record, my school is pretttttty prude and all that. These girls are definitely intelligent. Ratchet sh!t doesn't usually work, you gotta have your wits about you if you want a serious pull.
Look forward to chatting with yall as this year goes. Feel free to critique the h3ll out of me. Peace
Alright so last night was the first night of the semester back at the bars. Lots of anticipation from everyone, and my frat's pregame was about 300 people in itself. It was crowded as fvck so my buddy and I shot off to the bar early with some hotties.
The cab ride there continued what I'd been sensing throughout the day/night: feline attention. Countless girls initiated with me by sticking out there hand and saying their name. This is because I dress fly and like to laugh/smile a lot. Including a dimepiece senior in the cab, who I just sort of biffed on with conversation. Unfortunately, looking back I was like 70% there in terms of headspace throughout the night. This was the cause for me not pulling in the end. However, I definitely had some marginal successes and my failures were minimal.
SUCCESSES:
--Had a great time out with my friends. Boom.
--Playing beer pong with my fratbros at the bar, I immediately sense a babeeee just keep looking over at me. While she was talking to one of my homies. Like, 4 or 5 times in 10 minutes. Didn't talk to her, saw her end up getting carried out like a wounded (and drunken) soldier by her friend. Lol
--Approach 1: I'm squatting like a catcher in front of this huge industrial fan that's in the club. Lol it gets so sweaty that this thing is just essential. I'm around a group of friends so conversation is happening when a cute chick squats in front of me, facing me. She introduces herself first so I know I gotta spit. I proceed to banter with her about our ages, turns out she's a senior (damn where you been). I go in for the makeout within a minute and she declines with a smile. "Are we gonna makeout? (giggle)" I say: "yeah." And casually continue the convo, although it has an undeniable edge now. After maybe 15 more seconds I blast another fire in the hole. She's not quite feeling it again. Soon she stands up (we were in catcher stance), and lingers as to suggest she's waiting for another move. Unfortunately, it was half-assed. I try to say something (instead of grabbin her arm and drawing her for more intimate convo) and simultaneously another chode gets some of her attention. She took a step or two away from me and I ejected. Bummer, but I think my "yeah" response was inaccurate and weak. In any case, this gave me the confidence to give fewer fvcks the rest of the night.
--Approach 2: This sophomore broad (HB East) spots me and approaches with a smile. I know this chick from last year, and she's low quality. However I've hooked up with her and evaluated her huge titties at the same bar, so the sexual tension is abundant. The drawback with this broad is that she sucks, and gets **** on ruthlessly by my frat bros. So I'm just chatting with her (again by the fan) she's interviewing me about my summer, I'm too above her to give full responses to her answers. After like 5 minutes I get fed up and out of nowhere try to kiss her. She's clearly stunned but doesn't kiss back. So I just give her **** about getting lipstick on my lips; she takes her finger and wipes it off. At this point I want to get to the d-floor (where no fratbros will see ) and get to goin' with another fvckin mammagram. However, this drunk annoying kid I know stumbles up and hijacks the interaction. I don't really give a fvck about where this is going, so I eject and say see yall. She says "see you later!" and I smile.
--Other notable (and minor) success: saw this cutie that I'd taken to a date function freshman spring. She's from a different school and this chick I'm friends wit set me up. Super cutie and I copped the makeout, but she ended up getting swooped by my fratbro and banging him a couple times. P!ssed me the fvck off for a while but whatever. It's approaching closing time, and I'm secretly disappointed that I'm not already back with a chick. I'm just posted and I see her getting blared at by some chode, so I just wait for a sec. After she turns to her friend, I go up and hijack their conversation. "Hey!" She's delighted to see me ("I was hoping to talk to you! That lame dude was so annoying"), and although I have a grudge against her for choosing a homie in the past, we're both drunk so it's cool. She says she's going abroad in two days, so I'm thinking maybe she's into a one-night thing. Definitely animated conversation. However, I ****in double dribble and travel at the same godd@mn time: "Take my number in case you need a place to stay tonight" just went nowhere. Convo deflated within 10 seconds. What I think I should have done is said (e.g) "show me how your dance moves have improved since last time" and usher her to the d-floor. Whatever... the funny thing is, later I saw her outside with blood all over her face! Pretty sure she ate sh!t outside waiting for a cab. Lol she was so embarrassed.
--HB Burgh: this chick is a blonde with big tits and even better, she's slutty as they come. Know her from the past when I was a bit more of a chump, but I could definitely hook up with her now. I grabbed her ass (multiple times) and lifted up her dress jokingly while she was fanning off (lol this random fan is coming up way too much). Since my interactions with her weren't on/near the dancefloor, my convo needs to be sexually charged, major. It wasn't quite there--it wasn't chumpy, but it needs to be aggressive. Ignorant if you will. Put this broad in my top 5 prospects because I could literally see me taking her home and fvcking the sh!t out of her.
Also: vibed hard with this chick and then never saw her again. She's historically DTF and did I mention she's cute as hell (HB Dorm). Lived in my dorm last year, and based on interaction she's ready for me to pull the trigger next time it's proper. I guarantee I will pursue this at some point. Also: when I was talking to the chick mentioned below, this chick and her friend both approached me and drew me away from my other conversation. Definitely worked in my favor.
FAILURES:
--So there's this one adorable, tall babe (sophomore; HB South) that I met at our day party last weekend. Vibed super heavy, introduced by our mutual friend and first thing I said to her was "your eyes are really pretty" (which they fvcking are). Anyway, after the dayparty she came to our pregame and I chopped it up big time. Got her to start talking about how she's never had sex at college and how she waits for the right one. She ends up grabbing me just to touch me while I'm faced away from her on the bus to the bar. (The bar was too packed though so my entire pregame pretty much went home w/in 30 minutes of arrival). So I went into last night with this girl strong on my radar. I see her looking my way earlier, so when I finally talk to her later it's just a casual bump-in. She needs to be reminded of my name, so I'm definitely checking that disrespect. The club-game-style-convo isn't really going anywhere though --this chick is definitely prude and hard (so far) to draw into the right frame for me to pull the trigger on a makeout. As the night goes on, she's starting to look sloppy as hell fellas. She talks to every dude; she's very southern and very friendly. It's pretty hard for me to pinpoint where I stand (NOTE: this isn't the right way of thinking. Analysis is paralysis. Take action) Well in her sloppy state she's clearly still interested in me. I'm sitting up on this ledge talking to a hoe when she comes up. I try to pull her up a few feet to sit next to me, but it's doomed. She's hardly capable of making it up, and she immediately starts complaining her a$$ hurts so I tease her for having a soft butt. In a matter of seconds she drops back down, and with that the interaction loses steam. I don't have anything else to report besides the fact that I saw her on the way out (alone). I was walking opposite direction so we just barely hugged as she departed. ***Looking for advice on how to escalate with this goooooooody-goody, extroverted chick.***
--General inaction: I need to be singling out and focusing my sniper on the right birds. HB Dorm was a definite prospect that fell off my radar. Also need to be in that all-systems-a-go headspace. It's essential for full energy and ooze confidence.
Things for personal note: (1) HB Laxtitute (literally a 9) fvcking loves me. Securely friend-zoned, but she dragged me to buy me a drink (ended up spending $30 and she didn't even have one). Then as she was leaving with her friends she grabbed my wrist pretty HARD.... (2) Good job staying relatively in check with alcohol consumption. This is a killer folks. Gotta drink enough to be feeling yourself but then just start sipping beer. (3) 2 younger kids I live with got pu$$y last night. I didn't have an angle at these chicks on the cab ride back, but it's good motivation to keep focused on improvements until next time.
It's key to dwell on the positives and take each day with a vigor, even when not partying. I've got a job and solid classes to work on, not to mention fitness which is in a constant state of improvement.
Oh and just for the record, my school is pretttttty prude and all that. These girls are definitely intelligent. Ratchet sh!t doesn't usually work, you gotta have your wits about you if you want a serious pull.
Look forward to chatting with yall as this year goes. Feel free to critique the h3ll out of me. Peace