Good hygiene, good looks, still not gettin' any.

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Why aren't girls noticing me? I have good hygiene, good looks, but they still pass me up as a nobody. As if there's something about me that just turns them away. It could be anything from my chin hair to my voice, but something about me is just NOT attracting the girls. I put on deoderant, take 2 showers everyday, put lotion on, brush my teeth and they still just don't seem to notice.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
It could be anything from my chin hair to my voice, but something about me is just NOT attracting the girls. I put on deoderant, take 2 showers everyday, put lotion on, brush my teeth and they still just don't seem to notice.
so just because you're clean girls are supposed to flock to you? I hear star trek geeks are clean they don't get any girls!
I think you need watch David Deangelos videos and start using C+F

appearance alone doesn't attract girls. You need confidence, ****yness and other things.
 

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Describe your body language, tonality , behaviour and attitude?

All of the above > Looks.

How do you walk down the hall?

When you Walk into a class room what do you do?

When talking to anybody do you look them in the eyes?
 

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We need to have a sticky of all your problems, because you have some baggage.

Dude, you keep talking about your low confidence, getting no chicks attitude. How about instead of smiling at a girl and then just passing her you stop her and talk to her?

Do you think we care if you do nothing? We honestly don't, theres no point in telling us you can't approach girls. We can't help you with that.

However, once you do approach girls, thats when we can help you.

And who are you to say girls don't notice you? Maybe if you actually approached them you could get a real answer to that one.

Yeah, this might come off as a bit harsh, but you seriously need a slap in the face so you can get your **** together.
 

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You can kinda tell when girls are noticing you.. Back in school I was quiet and shy, and I most likely showed it, so I didn't notice much attention. Only a few times, which I promptly stuffed up. Now with an extremely confident layed back look, I notice glances all the time.

Make yourself look confident, body language is a huge thing. Raise your head, shoulders back, swagger a bit, turn your head slowly, your whole face needs to get into it too.. Its hard to explain, tilt your head the direction you are looking and move your eyebrows..

Pfft, stuff that. The easiest way to get noticed is to talk to them. Then they have no choice but to notice you. Make eye contact and say something to them and guess what? They notice you!:eek:
 

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Originally posted by arutha
You can kinda tell when girls are noticing you.. Back in school I was quiet and shy, and I most likely showed it, so I didn't notice much attention. Only a few times, which I promptly stuffed up. Now with an extremely confident layed back look, I notice glances all the time.

Make yourself look confident, body language is a huge thing. Raise your head, shoulders back, swagger a bit, turn your head slowly, your whole face needs to get into it too.. Its hard to explain, tilt your head the direction you are looking and move your eyebrows..

Pfft, stuff that. The easiest way to get noticed is to talk to them. Then they have no choice but to notice you. Make eye contact and say something to them and guess what? They notice you!:eek:
Man listen to this. It is some Dam good advice. Even I learned something from it.

And it's true. If you approach a girl, and act really energetic, or happy about it, then you should be fine.

And we should definitely make a Viper sticky.

I think I give him more advice then anyone.

But I won't give up.

First you must realize, that no matter what, atleast one girl will check you out, out in the open, and if you are deft, you will notice.

There are just as many girls as there are guys, and they are just as desperate.

If you look any good, then you will have a chance.

Just make soem approaches, get a different attitude, and walk this way, talk this way.

If you want some inspirational music, listen to 80's metal.

Aerosmith, and Elton John, and everything else.

Most people reccomend Rap, and while that can make you feel like a pimp, it doesn't always work.
 

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Kid.... i want to help you.......

I have a best friend who seems exactly like you.... tahts why i'm replying to all your posts also

Probably like 6" and same weight... and hes black

He always thought he was a pimp.. but i had to tell him the truth that he wasnt.... and he doesn't believe me... he gets some once in a while... only because he gets cheap hos (not really cheap hos.. but slutty girls)

i can think of some stuff to help yuorself
 

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We need to have a sticky of all your problems, because you have some baggage.

Dude, you keep talking about your low confidence, getting no chicks attitude. How about instead of smiling at a girl and then just passing her you stop her and talk to her?

Do you think we care if you do nothing? We honestly don't, theres no point in telling us you can't approach girls. We can't help you with that.

However, once you do approach girls, thats when we can help you.

And who are you to say girls don't notice you? Maybe if you actually approached them you could get a real answer to that one.

Yeah, this might come off as a bit harsh, but you seriously need a slap in the face so you can get your **** together.
Before I approach girls, I must improve my own confidence. Trust me, this fake confidence thing doesn't work on girls at my school. Also, girls WILL ignore you and won't take you seriously if you have a geekish voice like me, so even if I did become confident, I would still have an unattractive, girlish, geeky voice and people wouldn't take me seriously.
Originally posted by MikeS
Kid.... i want to help you.......

I have a best friend who seems exactly like you.... tahts why i'm replying to all your posts also

Probably like 6" and same weight... and hes black

He always thought he was a pimp.. but i had to tell him the truth that he wasnt.... and he doesn't believe me... he gets some once in a while... only because he gets cheap hos (not really cheap hos.. but slutty girls)

i can think of some stuff to help yuorself
Lol I'd rather have slutty girls than no girls at all.
You can kinda tell when girls are noticing you.. Back in school I was quiet and shy, and I most likely showed it, so I didn't notice much attention. Only a few times, which I promptly stuffed up. Now with an extremely confident layed back look, I notice glances all the time.

Make yourself look confident, body language is a huge thing. Raise your head, shoulders back, swagger a bit, turn your head slowly, your whole face needs to get into it too.. Its hard to explain, tilt your head the direction you are looking and move your eyebrows..

Pfft, stuff that. The easiest way to get noticed is to talk to them. Then they have no choice but to notice you. Make eye contact and say something to them and guess what? They notice you!
I do all these things, eye contact, head raised, shoulders back, turn my head slowly, I've tried it all. However, I haven't tried this hold head tilting thing yet, so I'll definitely see about using that.
 

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Re: Re: Good hygiene, good looks, still not gettin' any.

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe

I think you need watch David Deangelos videos and start using C+F
Videos?
Where?
 

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Re: Re: Re: Good hygiene, good looks, still not gettin' any.

Originally posted by whyshy
Videos?
Where?
"www.dontspammytopic.com" , that's where.
 

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easy way to get girls to notice you, change ur body language, portray the confident man that you are with your body. Head up, shoulders back, chest out, attitude: in your face!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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He reminds me of that kid that was a Freshman, and tried macking a 7th grader, but failed...
 

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Lots of girls notice me, just because of the way I walk.

It's all in the walk.

And the attitude.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Good hygiene, good looks, still not gettin' any.

Originally posted by Viper
"www.dontspammytopic.com" , that's where.
Doesn't work when i do it.
 

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OKAY LITTLE GUY!!!!!



from what i'm hearing it sounds like your a little geek but you look attractive? I have a Friend exactly like that but he gets hb6's and hb7's and not alot at all neither.


All the players you ever see have more balls and more confidence to fuel the titanic and nothing can stop them because they won't let anything stop them!! Have you ever seen a girl who kinda just GLOWED when you see her? That's because she's giving off an aura of confidence no-one can break and people are attracted to that. Make it your job to do everthing you come across either homework sports and even talking to parents...Do it with confidence...Speak loud enough to be heard but not loud enough to be annoying...you do this for a month it becomes a habit and you will start to notice women just melting in your hand....All women want starting in highschool is a guy to be a guy...make them feel as if there protected and if a wolf just so happend to come and take her away while you were on a date you would slap it with your D!ck and kill it. This is what seperates AFC and DJ's good looks are nothing but a plus...I like a girl with a hb8 face and an incredible body.....you also need to figure out what kind of women you want before you start...but get yourself together...I hate seeing AFC get mamed by others because they think it's cool to knock down someone when they post a thread for help so I've took it upon my self to bless you with a liitle of my testoterome.....get it together and get a girl. peace
 

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Ok get this. Girls dont flock around men unless they are already friends or they are very assertive(tomboys). it all depends on your attitude how you compose yourself. You more times than not are the one who needs to make the move. Being clean and handsome only help you in your first impressions and during your courting. i dont consider myself a drop dead hunk of a guy but that didnt matter. Because if you can show her who you are inside the other stuff just compliments you. If you dont believe me check this out. http://www.freewebs.com/dragonemperor000/
at the bottom is me and my chick. so pretty much to sum this up get out there and good luck!
 
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