Good character women.......

[romangod]

This discussion was inspired by Interceptor's post in another discussion:


"Many men like to think and feel like the prize with lower class women. THis is all ego stroking.
And if this man is looking for a goods serious LTR, he wont find it with poor character women]

Which got me thinking.............. In today's tangled web of the Matrix what constitutes a "good character woman"? I'm sure this is different for everyone but it would be interesting to see if we can come up with a concensus.

Anyone?

 

[reset]

A chick that doesn't flirt with guys in front of you to piss you off. I'm starting from the bottom here. I used to think that was part of the game, and it is, but it's also BS.

So the positive side is, a girl who is present with you as you're present with her.

 

[romangod]

I think modesty is a desirable trait along with generosity. A selfish, self-centered woman is the kiss of death.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I think modesty is a desirable trait along with generosity. A selfish, self-centered woman is the kiss of death.

Adding to this, a woman who embraces her femininity, and sees it as a strength, not a weakness to overcome.

 

[KontrollerX]

What constitutes a good character woman in my mind is...

-Someone whose friend base doesn't mostly consist of guys

-A woman who both thinks emotionally like a female but logically like a male when it comes to important matters in your relationship and who you can have a real conversation with about all of that not someone constantly denying any wrongs they do and constantly putting up false fronts to protect themself. That chick in the Joe Rogan video posted on this site is a good example of one of these types of false front garbage women you want to avoid for anything other than a fvck and a chuck.

-Has a lot of empathy and cares for herself, you and other people and it shows if you ever bring up some tragedy in the news with her that involved families and little kids because her face might get pained or strained about it. A lot of people personality disordered or not these days are emotionally cold. You want to avoid these types of women and get one that really cares about people because that is a strong indicator she will care about you too.

-Shares values that are important to you. As you can see I don't put too much stock in the adage of "opposites attract".

-Doesn't drink or smoke or do drugs.

-Isn't covered in tattoos nor has a single tattoo on her body as tattoos on chicks almost always mean rebellion or bad girl despite what the words of the tattoo actually say.

So yeah I believe that the best base to start from when looking for a chick is to find one that you personally think has a good character to be with you but ultimately I agree with Str8up that quality women are a myth and even the best character'd women can and will sell you out if a perceived good enough better deal makes itself known to them.

The only thing you can do to possibly prevent this?

Always stay on the ball and keep your DJ skills strong but even then you are not 100% guaranteed a chick won't stray if absolute newness is what she craves.

 

[Dongfu]

A modern Amazon woman. Strong, beautiful, intelligent, self reliant, loves to fvck and can think rationally like a man, but with all of the feminine characteristics of a real girly girl which are only displayed at the appropriate times. In other words, dynamic. She has to be everything all at once.

 

[joekerr31]

pretty much the same thing that defines a quality man - someone who takes accountability for their actions.

as simple as though.

 

[Luthor Rex]

I think modesty is a desirable trait along with generosity. A selfish, self-centered woman is the kiss of death.

http://blogs.modestlyyours.net/

Has someone been reading about the modesty girls?

 

[LoneSilver]

One that tells me my barn door is open while zipping it up for me and then sqeezing my butt now thats a quality woman if I ever had one.

LoneSilver

 

[Interceptor]

Emotional MATURITY is EXTREMELY important.

And a genuine AFFECTIONATE nature.

She should have as close to the same VALUES as you too.

And if she is willing to try to take part and expereince some of the same hobbies and interests as you woudl be awesome.

And damn, if she is SUPPORTIVE of you ACHIEVING your GOALS, well dayum....that is simply amazing.

And while we're at it, a NON Judgemental Nature would be incredible.
Not for us to take OVERadvantage of, but that she doesn't look at you as some piece of sh*t or a failure or something, instead if she sees something she disagress with she's totally cool with you in expressing it and without it being hurtful or condemning.