Going to her dorm Saturday

[Macaframalama]

Mac abundance is not women. Nor will it ever be.

Not disputing this.

You can fallow @CMNILS87 advice or if it were me i would cancel on her because you are a realy busy guy. Really be busy with somthing that has more value to you.

You have somewhat changed your stance, since the beginning of the post.

And OP didnt define what "all over me actually was"
Im saying
When a man runs back to a girl who blows him off he automatically starts back off in a weak frame, fck or not ....and will lead back into beta behavior. In most cases.

If I had $100 for every person, outside of my closest circle, that I blew off or blew me off over the summer I would be a much richer man. Between all the chit that goes on during the summer, who really has time to take it personal?

 

[marmel75]

So what should we do according to you guys, go lick a woman's boots as soon as she calls? Is it forbidden for men to have requests and to respect themselves? Or do we go to our "owner" when they call? She blew him off a couple of months ago.

For some unenlightened people here, I am not suggesting he act bitter and proud nor am I suggesting he blow her away (although if he was in the right place mentally, he probably would). All that's being suggested to OP is that he has her come over and not him go to her. This might seem like a little, unimportant detail to you, but it would set the tone in favour of the OP since he would start off with a simple request this girl should be able to complete without any problem if her interest is real.

Further on for the unenlightened people around here, this girl might tell OP "No, I won't come over, you must come here", we understand that this is a ****ed up situation. Oh god, why is it so hard for people here to have some standards? Like, do you go bang a woman just cause she wants to be banged? That's some facking R-selective behaviour right there. Who gives a damn she wants him to come over? Does he wanna go over there? Should he go over there? Is this a woman who badly wants the **** of the OP inside of her cause he's such an amazing and charming guy or does OP go and be one of the ****s that will penetrate her, get 1 or 2 lays out of her and go home feeling even more confused than before?

Like, this is such basic **** and it is amazing to see someone who has 2500 likes and is an old timer here have trouble understanding the bigger picture in this one.

You are telling a guy who is starving not to eat off the dollar menu because he should wait for filet mignon and lobster tails. The dude needs to eat.

As far as needing to control things he can do that in the bedroom when he is pulling her hair and spanking her ass

 

[Macaframalama]

You guys are telling the OP to go into this one like ***** is air or food. Once again, I am telling that OP is never going to grow a strong frame and mindset by acting this way.

Any guy who jumps back into a chics frame after being blown off is in a weakened frame.

Quite the opposite. Who in their right mind takes a college hook up this serious?.?. If he were screening for a LTR, then I would agree. He's already mentioned pump and dump.

 

[Sub]

Is anyone's frame weakened if they don't agree with someone's post one day then agree with another post by the same poster they disagreed with the previous day?

Or in order to keep a strong frame you must disagree with them constantly because you disagreed with them once?

 

[guru1000]

String puller, your mind is so rigid, you’re an easy target.

I can see why you call yourself Stringpuller, as it’s so easy to pull your strings—like a puppet being played by his puppeteer.

As for me, I have no defined shape, so they will never see me coming.

 

[Sub]

String puller, your mind is so rigid, you’re an easy target.

I can see why you call yourself Stringpuller, as it’s so easy to pull your strings—like a puppet being played by his puppeteer.

As for me, I have no defined shape, so they will never see me coming.

So in other words you go the opposite extreme as a head nodding yes man.

If you have no defined shape then you never take a stance and get your own strings pulled seeking approval.

 

[guru1000]

So in other words you go the opposite extreme as a head nodding yes man.

If you have no defined shape then you never take a stance and get your own strings pulled seeking approval.

Naughty Ninja, did you have a defined shape when Guru left you waiting at the oyster restaurant on the west side two months ago holding your breath waiting for Guru to appear and bless you with his presence?

 

[Sub]

Naughty Ninja, did you have a defined shape when Guru left you waiting at the oyster restaurant on the west side two months ago holding your breath waiting for Guru to appear?

Actually yes I did. I go where I'm going. You flapped your gums and got your card pulled like is expected of a 10+ year kj.

Not like it hasn't been done to you before on ss. Its been par for the course "guru". Lmao

 

[Bayne05]

Why does everything turn into a d!ck measuring contest here!

Everyone is reading too much into this, my best guess is this girl probably had a boyfriend at the time she blew him off and now they've broken up so she's now on her wh0re phase looking for that "get over my boyfriend" d!ck.

And yes I'm talking from experience, I've had girls blow me off before and 1year later they hit me up and boom next day we fvckin.

OP my advice is simple. Go to her place, bang her then ghost her, if she wants more let her come to you. She just wants a quick lay, she still doesn't want to date you. Enjoy this opportunity, it won't last long.

 

[doctor1996]

Made out, and left to a bar with a friend. Screw her anyway.

 

[doctor1996]

Wdy mean? You left, while making out and you are pissed?

I just made out with her. After 20 minutes, I decided to leave. I don't think she wanted to have sex.

 

[lizardking82]

Told ya.

 

[Murk]

I just made out with her. After 20 minutes, I decided to leave. I don't think she wanted to have sex.

You must be terrible at kissing or just very bad "game", how you gonna make out for 20 min and not escalate further. Or even not persist for longer than 20 minutes, you decided to leave yourself rather than drink (assuming you did bring drink along as you posted).

So you brought drinks - made out for 20 mins - left.

Then decided to go to a club and spend money when you have a warm room, drinks and a girl willing to make out there.

If you can't make something happen with those ingredients bro something is very wrong or you're not telling the full story here.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I just made out with her. After 20 minutes, I decided to leave. I don't think she wanted to have sex.

Was she on her period? That would explain why she was so comfortable inviting you over - it's a trump card to shut you down for sex. If that happens, don't get mad and be a d!ck about it, and don't run away. Act like it is no big deal, and you'll probably get the chance to assess her bj skills.

 

[devilkingx2]

If i were OP I'd have followed @marmel75 's advice first and then @lizardking82 's advice second.

Get laid first because that's top priority, then stop taking her calls and texts while she's wondering what you are

Then you get laid, you keep your self respect, feed your ego AND get back at her, a total and complete victory for yourself

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Did you start feeling her up after a while and slowly push for more sexual groping points while making out or nah? That’s the basis of what escalation means.

 

[RedScorpion]

Need more info on what happened, really.

 

[derby1]

have a friend who does all this naturally, women come to his house, you would never see him go anywhere for a woman NEVER EVER

they all worship the ground he walks on

so just to back track i do stick to this method when shes flaked and messed me about and pops back up again 2nd time around.....she comes to mine

and tbf its got a pretty good success rate

 

[marmel75]

have a friend who does all this naturally, women come to his house, you would never see him go anywhere for a woman NEVER EVER

they all worship the ground he walks on

so just to back track i do stick to this method when shes flaked and messed me about and pops back up again 2nd time around.....she comes to mine

and tbf its got a pretty good success rate

Yeah but that means you have to clean the sheets...I hate laundry so id rather go to her place so she can do that sh!t...