Going out for drinks...

[ApocalypseCow]

Originally posted by Charisma
yeah dude, I made the mistake my first couple of dates of doing the dinner-and-a-movie, how could I have known going for a simple drink was waaay more effective, and alot less expensive

I think going for a drink and shooting some pool is a great, cheap date (less than $20, depending on how much you drink). Bowling and drinking also works.

 

[matius]

any real man would not care about spending some bucks on a woman, even a woman that doesn't deserve it

Do you ever listen to yourself?

 

[jlujan]

Originally posted by matius
Do you ever listen to yourself?

The last thing i worry about when meeting a woman is money, its my personal opinion only, but what ever the outcome of a date i never worry worry about a couple of bucks.

 

[matius]

jlujan- I hear you. I'm not sure if you just missed my point or you're a guy that won't mind blowing $40 - $80 on a girl that just wants your bank for an evening. At this point it's kind of moot.

I don't mind spending money either, really.

 

[jlujan]

Originally posted by matius
jlujan- I hear you. I'm not sure if you just missed my point or you're a guy that won't mind blowing $40 - $80 on a girl that just wants your bank for an evening. At this point it's kind of moot.

I don't mind spending money either, really.

I guess when you get older spending $50-$80 on a woman is kind of expected. i personally don't spend much on the first date because i don't want to give the impression that money is no problem, so i usually pick coffe houses wich are a long drive from my area, that way i can actually talk to the person and get to know her.

If after a few dates everything is going well, then i proceed to invite her to a nice dinner.

You can usually spot a gold digger on the first date, she will order many things and won't even think about seeking your approval, or she will not even make an effort to offer paying for half the bill.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Could go skiing, hiking, go on a powerboat around the coast, or something else thats free.

First times its always either a free date, or cheap.


And what exactly is a coffeehouse? I've never heard of one, or seen one. Is it a coffee-based pub?

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by jlujan
Frankly, theres no such thing as that, any real man would not care about spending some bucks on a woman, even a woman that doesn't deserve it, ITS A REAL PRINCIPLE THING.

you sound like a woman, are you a man? if so you are and AFC. You are saying the measure of my manhood is my desire or lack there of to spend money on a chick

If thats all it takes to be "real man" I guess any fool with a platinum card that wines and dines chicks, is in your opinion a real man?

Personally I don't spend more than 10-20 bucks on a chick I haven't boned. Once im screwing her, if I enjoy her company, I will take her out. If I have to wine and dine a chick chances are she isnt really feeling me in the first place. Sex is free, if I have to spend a whole lotta money shes charging me and Im not a john. I simply walk away. Making me spend money is a form of control, im not willing to supplicate. My spending money on a woman is a reward for good behavior. if you screw me enough I will spend money on you. If I like you I will spend money on you.

 

[matius]

And what exactly is a coffeehouse? I've never heard of one, or seen one. Is it a coffee-based pub?

Where you from? Yeah, it's like that I suppose.

Personally I don't spend more than 10-20 bucks on a chick I haven't boned.

Good way to put it. I used to do the dinner thing and spend money than not even get laid. Bull Shlt! No more will that happen. It's about respect.

 

[JohnJones]

You could just say when the drinks arrive and she doesn't reach for her wallet, "No, I'll get this one and you can get the next round."

 

[FlyGuy]

Matius I agree with you 100% - don't let a woman take advantage of you. I don't care if you are rich or poor why should you have to pay for a woman's drinks? Chivalry is dead, women want equality lets give it to them. I've been used for money before too and I'll never let it happen again.

 

[jlujan]

Originally posted by princelydeeds
you sound like a woman, are you a man? if so you are and AFC. You are saying the measure of my manhood is my desire or lack there of to spend money on a chick

If thats all it takes to be "real man" I guess any fool with a platinum card that wines and dines chicks, is in your opinion a real man?

Personally I don't spend more than 10-20 bucks on a chick I haven't boned. Once im screwing her, if I enjoy her company, I will take her out. If I have to wine and dine a chick chances are she isnt really feeling me in the first place. Sex is free, if I have to spend a whole lotta money shes charging me and Im not a john. I simply walk away. Making me spend money is a form of control, im not willing to supplicate. My spending money on a woman is a reward for good behavior. if you screw me enough I will spend money on you. If I like you I will spend money on you.

You can be a DJ with class or no class, is up to you, when i spend money on a woman i don't spend it on her, it is me who enjoys the wine and the nice dinner, it is me who enjoys my lifestyle, and if shes good enough for me, she might get rewarded by spending more time with me.

Maybe your too young, or too economically disabled, but as you get older your realize that money is for spending, all the money i spend i spend it on me, it has nothing to do with me buying her off, i can spend $500 in one night and get my point across that i am in charge and she would be lucky to be with me, not because of my money, but because of who i am and the way i enjoy life.

 

[princelydeeds]

actually, In my AFC days I used to do the same thing. Through my own trial and error I learned that the more I wine and dine chicks the less puzzy I get. I would say that I bone 1 out 3 chicks I take to dinner on a first date. By renting a movie, pouring some wine, and having a little dessert ready I would say I bone 3 out of 4 chicks. Those are my numbers maybe yours are different. I don't care about spending time with every chick I wanna screw, thats what friends are for. What I do care about is screwing, I reward women for screwing me.

If the fact that I dont spend money makes me classless, then I guess im classless. I only wine and dine women that are screwing me. If I really like a chick she can have whatever I want to give her.

Its not about money its about principle. Im not gonna get into a pissing contest with you about who has more money, lets just say I'm comfortable. Plus I know this to be a fact, the more money you show, i.e cars clothes jewelry, boats, houses etc, the less you have to spend to get with a woman. The truly wealthy guys I know spend no money on a chick but screw every chick they desire. Im also 29, i don't know if that makes me young or not compared to you.

 

[jlujan]

We are just diferent, sex is only the icing on the cake for me, i enjoy the process of conquering a woman, not just sexually but emotionally, to be honest with you, i don't consider just fvcking a woman a goal, i think getting to sleep with a woman is fairly easy, whats more challenging is getting her to sleep with you and feel something for you.

To me the ultimate example of a DJ is the fictional caracter of James Bond, hes not cheap and likes the good things in life, and it has nothing to do with the women, and everythign to do with his style.

We just have diferent styles, that's all.

 

[matius]

Your styles could also be conducive to where you live. I'm sure that women in Cabo San Lucas (please correct me if I'm wrong) are not as money hungry as the women in the United States.

And by the way, I think there is something interesting about both of the styles mentioned above. I can totally see the challenge of dominating both the mental and physical attraction.

I'm 24 and am a college student. Let's just say that I don't rent the limo, hit the hot club and grab a 4 star hotel room every other night. I'm workin' on it though (well, not the limo).

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by jlujan
We are just diferent, sex is only the icing on the cake for me, i enjoy the process of conquering a woman, not just sexually but emotionally, to be honest with you, i don't consider just fvcking a woman a goal, i think getting to sleep with a woman is fairly easy, whats more challenging is getting her to sleep with you and feel something for you.

To me the ultimate example of a DJ is the fictional caracter of James Bond, hes not cheap and likes the good things in life, and it has nothing to do with the women, and everythign to do with his style.

We just have diferent styles, that's all.

I guess we are different. im not into the mind games. I like to hit most chicks 4-5 times then say goodbye in a nice way. All I really want is to get my freak on and have a good time. Thats why I can ususally go back to every woman I get. They respect my honesty and straight forward, attitude. The fact that I don't lie or play games usually leaves them with a very good taste in their mouth when it comes to me. I'm also good at making women feel like they are calling it off with me. So if Iever wnat them back I can alwasy say that the reason we stopped talking is there fault. Honestly I can call just about every woman I've ever been with.

 

[matius]

you sound like a pimp.