Going on a cruise with my ex

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Delete or lock this thread. No sense in keeping it open.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"I don't think it's worth my time to go on a children's cruise in the friendzone when there is a deadly disease ingesting airlines and cruiselines. There is zero benefit to me at this point."
Or just "Ive decided to not go. Take care". No further communication necessary.

Fvck her feelings. If more men would actually take charge women in general wouldnt do this BS as much.

Stop allowing women to control your thoughts and decisions and you will be amazed at how much better you think about things.
 

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Make her uncomfortable as you are about it....Then have her buy you out of 1/2 of it. She needs some skin in the game.

Start by texting her about how good it is going to feel to sleep naked with her again...Harken back to some memorable romps.

Lay that sexual tone out early. If she is offended then she might pay you NOT to go...
 

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So, did you finally go on this cruise or not?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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So, did you finally go on this cruise or not?
Covid saved me actually. I got a refund and everything. She’s tried to reach out a couple times, even used the old standby excuses but they haven’t worked. Her mom has seen pics of other girls I’ve been dating on my social media and I know word got back to her.
 

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Covid saved me actually. I got a refund and everything. She’s tried to reach out a couple times, even used the old standby excuses but they haven’t worked. Her mom has seen pics of other girls I’ve been dating on my social media and I know word got back to her.
So you've been less "stupid" overall as a result of not being allowed to continue that situation? God bless...
 

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So you've been less "stupid" overall as a result of not being allowed to continue that situation? God bless...
Yeah it’s amazing what time will do. I’m not saying she wants me back BUT she is the one reaching out, I haven’t been. I’ve truly gone my own way.
 

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Yeah it’s amazing what time will do. I’m not saying she wants me back BUT she is the one reaching out, I haven’t been. I’ve truly gone my own way.
Yea. I was commenting on that one stupid thing many of us do or a oneitis or something is weakness and keeps us stupid across the board.
 
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