Going NC to get attention from AW makes you an AW.

[ScottMustaine]

Yeah... I've been thinking about it.

You also crave for her attention ( okay I understand that, we all need that sometimes ) , so you pull her with a manipulative trick of going NC so she would give you attention.

So you basically use her AW technique against herself. Which is alright, but will make temporary results.


My solution is simply to make yourself really busy. Read books, study, play instrument or whatever. Just don't sit and wait for her. So if she doesn't give you attention, you for sure will get something out of doing something you like.

Thoughts ?

 

[GADavid]

Yeah, some people use NC as psycologic warfare. Even if you win, what have you really won? An impossible relationship based on a lack of communication. Good luck. One day that NC will be permanent and not by choice. Go NC to get over a chick, not to win one back.

 

[ArcBound]

Yeah, some people use NC as psycologic warfare. Even if you win, what have you really won? An impossible relationship based on a lack of communication. Good luck. One day that NC will be permanent and not by choice. Go NC to get over a chick, not to win one back.

Anti-Dump once said (paraphrasing): When both the man and woman are playing games, they both lose. One side has to not be playing games in order for a relationship to work. Definitely agree with your last sentence.