many women prefer to keep the comfort of the bf/husband, it's almost a laziness thing, but get some from another guy. If you're going to be a big ***** about it and wonder if it's the right thing to do, then you're never going to make it in that niche. You need to be pretty hard core. I have a never ending list of such women it seems. Everytime one can't get out or have me over, another one shows up.
There is no gentleman's code. If I can get the ***** and it's worth ****ing, then so be it. There are exceptions, but in general I don't really hang out with dudes anyway so it's never an issue. I actually have 2 guys right now who I go to their houses to **** the women and they know it, and a third one knows his girl ****ed me and still sees me but the dummie actually believes we don't have sex anymore... ok dude. I could blow a bunch of smoke up your ass and make myself popular on forums rambling on about how noble I am, but I'd rather just tell you the truth. If you don't man up and do it, someone like me will. Might as well get some and enjoy it.