Going after a girl who's on verge of breaking up with her boyfriend?

[Kal0051]

I know this girl that I kind of like but she's had a boyfriend as long as i've known her (only a couple of months). Now it appears her relationship with him is pretty much over. Should I persue her or wait a little bit first? I've already asked her to hang out, so any comments on that too would be nice. Thanks guys.

 

[Captain]

If you wait, she might just latch on to some other guy before you make your move. Go for it.

 

[Kal0051]

Any other advice? I do appreciate your advice Captain, I kinda think the same way as you.

 

[nateistoraw]

go for it, if you even have the audacity to do such a thing, you PROBALY ALREADY HAVE COMPETITION! BEAT THE COMPETITION BEFORE IT WINS THE RACE!

 

[romangod]

My 2 cents:

Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!


Cheers!

 

[Kal0051]

My 2 cents:

Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!


Cheers!

well I don't know if it's over for sure. I'm not her girlfriend so she doesn't keep me informed of these things. And I think it would be odd sounding if I just asked her if they were through, know what I mean?

 

[GoodMikey]

if you want to be the rebound then go for it, if you want a more serious relationship have patience till she calmed down and is over the previous relationship.