Gladiators II : The Next Level of Approach Anxiety Competition!

[Masculinity]

You've found it!

This is the second part of the competition for those who want to take it further; new gladiators are also welcome!

The guys who survived are still on the hunt for more and I'm included too. This competition will be stronger, the challenges will show who's really up to it, & women below hb7.5 won't be valid approaches. There will be one winner, but all of us are sure to learn & develop ourselves.
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Credit to AAAgent for starting the first challenge. The rules are a lot like the original competition:

The competition will be done in tournament style elimination with task's that need to be completed each week. Those who don't complete their tasks will have a strike. Two strikes takes you out of the competition.

I'll post a weekly task that will push all of us to the edge; the competition will last six weeks.


Contestant Rules:
1. No veterans (though you may comment in the thread you cannot be a participant in the games, you're skill level would not be fairly matched to the newbies. We know who you guys are haha)

2. Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each tash/objective. Start on monday and you must post by sunday 11:59pm or you are eliminated.

3. Encouragement and tips are highly recommended as to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys like me that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5. Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. We are here to improve, faking improvement does nothing for yourself. Failure is only another step towards success.

6. You must post the conversations and share what you learned from your week's experience.

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The last man standing will be the one who will win this challenge & overcome his AA.


Who's in?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Im in. and I will win again

 

[scribblec]

im in why not

 

[TheMale]

im in !

 

[Nemic]

I'm in.

 

[Gray The Prince]

I'm in and ready to mow down the competition. :rockon:

 

[Masculinity]

So far there is 6 competitors. Let's start the competition! Others will still have the opportunity to join the battle later if they want.

PrettyBoyAJ
scribblec
TheMale
Nemic
Gray The Prince
Deicide
Robyn923b

Week # 1 : Pedestals & insecurities.

Attractive women are approached many, many times a day by wussy guys with weak game hoping she'll give them a chance. Most of them approach with compliments such as "you're cute, what's up?" or something along those lines.

What's wrong with this approach? Well, if you were a female being approached all the time by guys who literally say the SAME thing, after some experience you'd simply weed out these guys automatically. You must DHV (Demonstrate Higher Value) by telling a story as you approach instead of expecting her to take over the conversation because your insecure about keeping her hooked.

Some of us think of these women as unreachable because of their beauty, but they are 10x more insecure than they seem (except for that cold woman every once in a while). This week's challenge is to approach five attractive women and open with insulting compliments and then kick in your game--no closing required. That's right, an insulting compliment would me something like:

you: "your hair is really pretty"
hb: *turned off from hearing it so many times* "thanks"
you: *flip it over and playfully say with a smirk* "imagine how pretty it would look if it was washed! ; ] "
her: *find out by yourself*

Why this works: attractive women take serious pride in how they look, smell, and their hygiene overall, this is why they take so long to get ready. When you question this, her b!tch shield will take a big hit and she will get doubtful about her own appearance resulting in positive (smiling like a puppy) or shocking (frozen) feedback to your approach. It works like a charm. Remember: Female egos are the size of buildings, but they're made of thin glass: one hit and the whole thing shatters, and BAM you're in!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That's not going to work lol. If I say that they are going to say thank you and for me to give that insult is just rude as hell.

 

[Masculinity]

That's not going to work lol. If I say that they are going to say thank you and for me to give that insult is just rude as hell.

Haha, that's exactly the paradigm of which we're trying to break free. You must have acuity around this though and say it the insult playfully, but without cracking & saying "I'm just kidding." I have done these myself doubtfully and they work. Tip: They usually work the best in the high-numbered (hb8+) women (hint hint).

 

[TheMale]

lets just be crazy !
i remember one time i juste did an experience of crush and burn goind to every women/sets i could find and asking to be rejected
so it goes:
me: hey girls i know it may be sound weird but i need you to reject me
girl(s):[a little shy] humm ok ... huumm ... i dont know ... why ? ... ok ... im not interested ! ;p

 

[Deicide]

Count me in! I've been working on keeping a cool mind throughout the day, even in social situations and experimenting with openers. So, I definitely want to improve my game and confidence.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Easy task. I shall complete it.

 

[Cry For Love]

So far there is 6 competitors. Let's start the competition! Others will still have the opportunity to join the battle later if they want.

PrettyBoyAJ
scribblec
TheMale
Nemic
Gray The Prince
Deicide
Robyn923b

Week # 1 : Pedestals & insecurities.

Attractive women are approached many, many times a day by wussy guys with weak game hoping she'll give them a chance. Most of them approach with compliments such as "you're cute, what's up?" or something along those lines.

What's wrong with this approach? Well, if you were a female being approached all the time by guys who literally say the SAME thing, after some experience you'd simply weed out these guys automatically. You must DHV (Demonstrate Higher Value) by telling a story as you approach instead of expecting her to take over the conversation because your insecure about keeping her hooked.

Some of us think of these women as unreachable because of their beauty, but they are 10x more insecure than they seem (except for that cold woman every once in a while). This week's challenge is to approach five attractive women and open with insulting compliments and then kick in your game--no closing required. That's right, an insulting compliment would me something like:

you: "your hair is really pretty"
hb: *turned off from hearing it so many times* "thanks"
you: *flip it over and playfully say with a smirk* "imagine how pretty it would look if it was washed! ; ] "
her: *find out by yourself*

Why this works: attractive women take serious pride in how they look, smell, and their hygiene overall, this is why they take so long to get ready. When you question this, her b!tch shield will take a big hit and she will get doubtful about her own appearance resulting in positive (smiling like a puppy) or shocking (frozen) feedback to your approach. It works like a charm. Remember: Female egos are the size of buildings, but they're made of thin glass: one hit and the whole thing shatters, and BAM you're in!

With all due respect, negs do not work well against anything other than 9s and 10s, unless theres already a good connection.

 

[diabolicplans]

This first task kind of only works in bars. Saying that to a woman who hasn't had alcohol in her would be really embarrassing to say the least. Day game is much better, include some exercises for that too.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Everybody stop complaining, be like Nike and JUST DO IT.

 

[Masculinity]

Everybody stop complaining, be like Nike and JUST DO IT.

Haha...this is funny. I said this in eighth grade while doing an algebra problem our group couldn't solve. I somehow solved it and the teacher asked me to draw it on the board. I did it and when everyone asked how I solved it I shrugged my shoulders and said "just do it"

I pulled this off on an hb 7.5 at the library today. I was sitting down working on my essay and she came over and sat next to me. Here's the convo:

hb: excuse me could you wa...
me: you got five bucks?
hb: *looks confused smiling* what?
me: you want me to watch your laptop, right?
hb: yeah, sorry I have to go to the bathroom. do you speak Spanish?
me: well, it's gonna cost ya & yes I do!
hb: *smiling from cheek to cheek* Where are you from?
me: where are YOU from?
hb: Perú and you?
me: I'm from [country]
hb: ohhh...Mexico?
me: classical stereotypical response, I'm so disappointed, dude. *shaking my head with a smirk* Your hair is cute.
hb: where are you frooom?
me: Imagine how good your hair would look if it was washed
hb: *shocked but smiling* I swear I washed it this morning!
me: riiiight...(convo goes on for a long time. Too much to post)

"20 minutes later"

me: what's your name?
hb: Alexandra, and you?
me: Robyn, like Robin Hood. Your name is like that racist girl from ucla on youtube Alexandra Wallace, haha.
hb: no way, how do I find it!
me: *told her what to search* I gotta go, give me your number and we'll hangout another time where we don't have to whisper
her: okay =] (gives number and asks for my number) where are you going?
me: I'm picking up my grandma
her: Awww...where are you taking her?
me: I'm going to the park & to get a coffee =]
her: Aww...*with the puss in boots eyes*
me: see ya later.
her: call me
me: YOU call me!
her:

Okay so this isn't necessarily and approach, but it came out well. Let me hear your comments & constructive criticism!

 

[Masculinity]

With all due respect, negs do not work well against anything other than 9s and 10s, unless theres already a good connection.

I agree with negs working better with higher scaled hb's; however, it can also work on any other when used with acuity. This competition only counts in hb7.5+ approaches. You, the guy reading this, or I can go up to a 9 and have this approach work without a problem. If you believe it'll work, it will probably will.
I encourage you to join the competition.

This first task kind of only works in bars. Saying that to a woman who hasn't had alcohol in her would be really embarrassing to say the least. Day game is much better, include some exercises for that too.

Not to judge you, bro...but this sounds like you have anxiety and you'd need a woman who has consumed alcohol. I am scared of the approach myself sometimes, but let me tell you the game is mostly about rejection; most women you meet will no be compatible with you or of your interest even if they're amazing babes. It's a numbers game [thanks GTP] and you will find one good, desirable, attractive, healthy woman after approaching a bunch of women.

Step up to the plate and see what happens. I welcome you to the competition!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Robyn heres my critique. Don't ever tell a girl to call you.

 

[Masculinity]

Robyn heres my critique. Don't ever tell a girl to call you.

I agree, but I think you read the post while I was editing it

 

[diabolicplans]

I agree with negs working better with higher scaled hb's; however, it can also work on any other when used with acuity. This competition only counts in hb7.5+ approaches. You, the guy reading this, or I can go up to a 9 and have this approach work without a problem. If you believe it'll work, it will probably will.
I encourage you to join the competition.



Not to judge you, bro...but this sounds like you have anxiety and you'd need a woman who has consumed alcohol. I am scared of the approach myself sometimes, but let me tell you the game is mostly about rejection; most women you meet will no be compatible with you or of your interest even if they're amazing babes. It's a numbers game [thanks GTP] and you will find one good, desirable, attractive, healthy woman after approaching a bunch of women.

Step up to the plate and see what happens. I welcome you to the competition!

So you can honestly go to a girl sitting on a park bench during the day and open her by saying "your hair is cute, it could need a wash though."? Sounds strange to me. I would participate in the competition but I don't see anyone taking it very seriously.