Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
This^ Is why you're in the quarterfinals. I like how you did that man!Robyn923b said:
Gladiators!::Approach Anxiety Competition!
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robyn, that was just a sh1t test that you failed but props on not letting it get to you.
She probably just didn't want to seem so easy that you could just do whatever you wanted to her, but if you just kept plowing through it as if you could do whatever you wanted, i'm sure you could have.
Her first line:
hb: blah blah...umm, listen..umm how do I put this in a nice way. You aren't going to get anything out of me.
Could have playfully responded, "well i'd be a millionaire if i got something out of everyone now, wouldn't i."
Second line:
hb: *silent in shock* It's nothing personal; I'm just loaded with homework and I also work and I don't have time to even be friends.
ya, i'm actually studying hardcore for a few tests too and have been too busy to socialize. You're the only friend i have and you're going to ditch me!"
Then she'll probably try to qualify herself to you then you wham bam set up study date.
"okay lets study at the lib thursday then. i'll call you. Be there or be a sponge."
She probably just didn't want to seem so easy that you could just do whatever you wanted to her, but if you just kept plowing through it as if you could do whatever you wanted, i'm sure you could have.
Her first line:
hb: blah blah...umm, listen..umm how do I put this in a nice way. You aren't going to get anything out of me.
Could have playfully responded, "well i'd be a millionaire if i got something out of everyone now, wouldn't i."
Second line:
hb: *silent in shock* It's nothing personal; I'm just loaded with homework and I also work and I don't have time to even be friends.
ya, i'm actually studying hardcore for a few tests too and have been too busy to socialize. You're the only friend i have and you're going to ditch me!"
Then she'll probably try to qualify herself to you then you wham bam set up study date.
"okay lets study at the lib thursday then. i'll call you. Be there or be a sponge."
PrettyBoyAJ
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That's why I wouldn't take a phone and put my number in it. You don't get to see the full reaction from the girl. If you asked her for her number you could have got gotten the rejection there instead of getting your hopes up.
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I don't ask for numbers; I tell the girl to give me her number. It's either that or I just grab her phone. This approach has worked well for me in the past meeting girls the club (good-looking chicks that were actually normal). I see what you mean though, but if rejection occurs then just shake it off and use it as practice to build your game stronger. That's the way I see it.PrettyBoyAJ said:
I got the sh!t test vibe too. The study date sounds good except that we take completely different classes. I could have insisted and probably gotten father with her, but she isn't my top choice. She is cute, but not enough to put in the effort. This is one of those nerdy, cute chicks that don't get approached a lot though. She'll prob think about me in the next few days. Notice that she left the back door open by saying "maybe I'll see you around". A girl who wants to be left alone doesn't say something like this or simply says nothing. After we hung up I sent her a text going something like this: "Maaan...it's sad how women play hard to get nowadays, lol. I don't usually approach like that btw, but I made an exception with you. Anyway, it was funny talking to you. Later! =] "AAAgent said:
I never got a response and I didn't expect one, but I see what you mean AAA...don't crack in the presence of a sh!t test; it may be the last thing before you break the nut open. I'm hesitating on whether I should call her next week and answer with: "You didn't really think I bought the whole "I'm too busy thing", did you?" Or something like that. Let me get some feedback/criticism guys
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neghitzbrah
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Reading it is a lot different than being in the scenario, though. Now we aren't full fledged DJ's or PUA's, so there's not much experience with this. I'm sure from now on, Robyn will be able to think on his feet faster (which he has) should he run into this again. But that crazy bvtch pulled a fast one on you bro! I would've failed that one too.AAAgent said:
Though, I would've taken it from a different approach though. I like your line:
Afterwards, I normally just pull the hang out as friends part... but I hate shvt tests so I would've definitely failed too. This is my problem with being too forward. It doesn't give myself a chance to pull because I'd be pushing the entire time. Dang, she really pulled that shvt test hard!
Glad you're taking it good. She must be a bit intimidated/insecure to pull something like this. If you like the style, then keep doing what you're doing. I have no doubts that this will work on any other bvtch.
Nice work Robyn.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
HB7fling Date #1
AAAgent, this week's challenge is the shvt. I'm taking a new perspective on my style and lovin it. Taking the ****y/funny role is just too good. Here's how it went down:
Yesterday, after HB7fling went back to work -- following the copy machine interuption-- I went back upstairs. Few hours later, I called her up at front desk
Negz: Hey how's the clerical work goin?
HB7fling: talks about how it is (I negged her a few times)
Negz: That's great, you like Thai?
Hb7fling: I love Thai!
Negz: I bet you do, what's you're schedule like for the rest of the week?
HB7fling: I'm pretty much free
Negz: And tonight, you have any plans?
HB7fling: No, I was going to go home and relax ---- was??? she already inferred somethin
Negz: Aight, were goin out for Thai tonight, I'll swing by the front desk at 5
HB7fling: Okay, see you then
So I meet up with her, then say were goin to a bar beforehand. See how I just laid out what were gonna do instead of asking? It's a completely different approach then what I'd normally do. I basically asked myself, "what would I normally do in this situation?" Then I do the opposite, like George Constanza.
At the bar, I got the first round and she got the second. Lots of kino and EC.
HB7fling: Yeah so this last guy I dated kept calling me
Negz: Sounds like a needy and insecure fvck. Bet you've been dating dudes like that for a while huh?
HB7fling: All men are so weird
Negz: You know what, come here
I grabbed her hand and took her to a table in the back corner and told her to sit on my lap. We made out for a while, then I pulled back
HB7fling: omg I've never done this before, I can't remember -- I cut her off
Negz: Yeah, how bout remembering this
Made out with her more. She started giving me the puppy dog look and kept biting her bottom lip. Then she started calling me 'bad.'
I was ready to ask her to come back to my place, but her mom was calling and bvtching at her to come home. Fvckin cawkblock.
Negz: What's you schedule like this weekend?
She tells me that she's busy on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday but free Sat night
Negz: Okay let's go out on Sat Night, I'll call you and let you know.
Made out a bit more, grabbed some food real quick then went our separate ways. We still hung out for a good hour after her mom bvtched her out haha.
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So I realized what I've been lacking. I needed to be more ****y and a bit more forward in order to hook some girls. She seems like a pretty cool chick cause she likes traveling and meeting people. I love a girl whose social and open-minded. -- Oh and by the way, she's paying for dinner tomorrow since I ended up getting the 2 rounds at the bar.
I'm goin out tonight and putting this new style to the test. I still gotta get those 3 numbers for this week's challenge. Good luck to you fellas
AAAgent, this week's challenge is the shvt. I'm taking a new perspective on my style and lovin it. Taking the ****y/funny role is just too good. Here's how it went down:
Yesterday, after HB7fling went back to work -- following the copy machine interuption-- I went back upstairs. Few hours later, I called her up at front desk
Negz: Hey how's the clerical work goin?
HB7fling: talks about how it is (I negged her a few times)
Negz: That's great, you like Thai?
Hb7fling: I love Thai!
Negz: I bet you do, what's you're schedule like for the rest of the week?
HB7fling: I'm pretty much free
Negz: And tonight, you have any plans?
HB7fling: No, I was going to go home and relax ---- was??? she already inferred somethin
Negz: Aight, were goin out for Thai tonight, I'll swing by the front desk at 5
HB7fling: Okay, see you then
So I meet up with her, then say were goin to a bar beforehand. See how I just laid out what were gonna do instead of asking? It's a completely different approach then what I'd normally do. I basically asked myself, "what would I normally do in this situation?" Then I do the opposite, like George Constanza.
At the bar, I got the first round and she got the second. Lots of kino and EC.
HB7fling: Yeah so this last guy I dated kept calling me
Negz: Sounds like a needy and insecure fvck. Bet you've been dating dudes like that for a while huh?
HB7fling: All men are so weird
Negz: You know what, come here
I grabbed her hand and took her to a table in the back corner and told her to sit on my lap. We made out for a while, then I pulled back
HB7fling: omg I've never done this before, I can't remember -- I cut her off
Negz: Yeah, how bout remembering this
Made out with her more. She started giving me the puppy dog look and kept biting her bottom lip. Then she started calling me 'bad.'
I was ready to ask her to come back to my place, but her mom was calling and bvtching at her to come home. Fvckin cawkblock.
Negz: What's you schedule like this weekend?
She tells me that she's busy on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday but free Sat night
Negz: Okay let's go out on Sat Night, I'll call you and let you know.
Made out a bit more, grabbed some food real quick then went our separate ways. We still hung out for a good hour after her mom bvtched her out haha.
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So I realized what I've been lacking. I needed to be more ****y and a bit more forward in order to hook some girls. She seems like a pretty cool chick cause she likes traveling and meeting people. I love a girl whose social and open-minded. -- Oh and by the way, she's paying for dinner tomorrow since I ended up getting the 2 rounds at the bar.
I'm goin out tonight and putting this new style to the test. I still gotta get those 3 numbers for this week's challenge. Good luck to you fellas
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Telling a girl to give you her number is the same as asking. She can say yes and she can say no. So I categorize it both as asking.
Thanks, I saw her today briefly while she was going to class and we're going to try and get coffee together next week. Talking on the phone with her will be a little difficult, but I'll get it done. Yes, I need to diversify my openers. I'm starting to not care what women think of me or that they know I'm hitting on them. Teasing women I don't know is coming so much more naturally also.Robyn923b said:
Good job on taking the phone from that girl also. I've never thought of doing stuff like that before.
I had just got done with Japanese class, when I saw a Middle Eastern girl talking with her professor. I waited it out until she got done talking, then I walked out the building, caught up to her, and the approach began.
Me:Hey! You look Middle Eastern, where are you from?
HB Indian 6/7: I'm from India.
Me: So what did you move here for?
HB: I've lived here my whole life.
Me: So what are you studying?
HB: Pharmacy
Me: That sounds very complicated. What do you have to do for it? Like balancing chemical equations?
Her: Yes, it's complicated and it takes a lot of Biology and Chemistry.
Me: So what did you do that was interesting over Spring Break?
HB: I studied. Studying is interesting.
Me: Laughs, studying over break isn't that interesting. At least you didn't say no. Doing pharmacy work over break is a little boring too.
HB: Laughs What is your major?
Me: Spanish. Yes I can speak it pretty well. I can speak it pretty well too. I just got done with Japanese class also. Is that stuff too hard for you?
Then the HB tells me she has to go to class, and I hesitated and then asked if I could have her number and talk again, and she said no, she was good.
So, I think my lack of confidence showed in the approach, and my ****y and funny transformation took a little bit to show. But, I tried and learned that I need to have more confidence from the start during approaches.
Me:Hey! You look Middle Eastern, where are you from?
HB Indian 6/7: I'm from India.
Me: So what did you move here for?
HB: I've lived here my whole life.
Me: So what are you studying?
HB: Pharmacy
Me: That sounds very complicated. What do you have to do for it? Like balancing chemical equations?
Her: Yes, it's complicated and it takes a lot of Biology and Chemistry.
Me: So what did you do that was interesting over Spring Break?
HB: I studied. Studying is interesting.
Me: Laughs, studying over break isn't that interesting. At least you didn't say no. Doing pharmacy work over break is a little boring too.
HB: Laughs What is your major?
Me: Spanish. Yes I can speak it pretty well. I can speak it pretty well too. I just got done with Japanese class also. Is that stuff too hard for you?
Then the HB tells me she has to go to class, and I hesitated and then asked if I could have her number and talk again, and she said no, she was good.
So, I think my lack of confidence showed in the approach, and my ****y and funny transformation took a little bit to show. But, I tried and learned that I need to have more confidence from the start during approaches.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
I made my task a little harder tonight
After talking to NegHitzBrah, I had an idea to make my task a little more challenging.
One of the things that gives me an advantage in my game is my physique. So, before me and a friend/future teammate (hopefully) went out to a club , I put a button-down black shirt over my tight black tshirt. The sleeves are rolled up to my elbows and is a little tight, however you can't fully see that I'm lean. This way I won't use my body for leverage.
At The Club....
This place sucked, but I decided to make the best of it.
HB6.5 skinny black girl
Me: I come over here and I see you standing on the wall. What gives?
HB6.5: ....
Me: You should be dancing.
HB6.5: Yeah, I can start dancing but what's the point when no one will dance with you.
Me: Go dance
HB6.5: (Gets off the wall and starts dancing)
I go and get behind her and we start grinding. She gets low and starts ramming her ass against me which was great and all, but keeping this week's task in mind, I decided to take control.
Me: You're doing alright, but I wanna turn this up a notch. Put your hands on that rail. (Lol, we all know what I was trying to do!)
HB6.5: Uh no...
Me: Lol (And I walk away and get onto my next victim....I mean target.
Next target is an HB7 tall, mildly thick White girl
I dont fully remember the dialogue with her, but I remember that I approached, grabbed her and she was all on my d!ck. She suddenly got off and left to get more drinks. I did not feel like waiting on her, so I go after her firend. An Hb7 Curvy girl
Me: Hey, come here and get on me.
HBCurvy: Okay.
She wiggles her ass on me and so on. From here on out, I don't say much and I took control. I made my intentions ckear. I was all up on her. I grinded her face to face, wrapped her leg around my waist, then later on I picked her up and she rode me. I practically banged her with my clothes on.
I had the attention of the ENTIRE club especially the all the guys when I got on my knees and she got on the floor and stuck her ass up to level my d!ck and I start getting it on doggy style. One of the guys glaring came and hurried up and got on her after I was through with her.
She also told me that I was making her really horny and I could've f-closed. However, she wasn't up to my standards. So, I let the other guy have her and me and my boy left.
Even though I completed this week's task. I don't feel as I did, so I'm pretty likely going to post more approaches later.
After talking to NegHitzBrah, I had an idea to make my task a little more challenging.
One of the things that gives me an advantage in my game is my physique. So, before me and a friend/future teammate (hopefully) went out to a club , I put a button-down black shirt over my tight black tshirt. The sleeves are rolled up to my elbows and is a little tight, however you can't fully see that I'm lean. This way I won't use my body for leverage.
At The Club....
This place sucked, but I decided to make the best of it.
HB6.5 skinny black girl
Me: I come over here and I see you standing on the wall. What gives?
HB6.5: ....
Me: You should be dancing.
HB6.5: Yeah, I can start dancing but what's the point when no one will dance with you.
Me: Go dance
HB6.5: (Gets off the wall and starts dancing)
I go and get behind her and we start grinding. She gets low and starts ramming her ass against me which was great and all, but keeping this week's task in mind, I decided to take control.
Me: You're doing alright, but I wanna turn this up a notch. Put your hands on that rail. (Lol, we all know what I was trying to do!)
HB6.5: Uh no...
Me: Lol (And I walk away and get onto my next victim....I mean target.
Next target is an HB7 tall, mildly thick White girl
I dont fully remember the dialogue with her, but I remember that I approached, grabbed her and she was all on my d!ck. She suddenly got off and left to get more drinks. I did not feel like waiting on her, so I go after her firend. An Hb7 Curvy girl
Me: Hey, come here and get on me.
HBCurvy: Okay.
She wiggles her ass on me and so on. From here on out, I don't say much and I took control. I made my intentions ckear. I was all up on her. I grinded her face to face, wrapped her leg around my waist, then later on I picked her up and she rode me. I practically banged her with my clothes on.
I had the attention of the ENTIRE club especially the all the guys when I got on my knees and she got on the floor and stuck her ass up to level my d!ck and I start getting it on doggy style. One of the guys glaring came and hurried up and got on her after I was through with her.
She also told me that I was making her really horny and I could've f-closed. However, she wasn't up to my standards. So, I let the other guy have her and me and my boy left.
Even though I completed this week's task. I don't feel as I did, so I'm pretty likely going to post more approaches later.
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well i realized one reason i haven't been able to number close. All places i go to are horrible places to pick up chicks.
All my co-workers are 26-29. They have girlfriends and boyfriends. a few are single. They never go clubbing etc.
we go to bars and lounges. Everyone is in their own clicks, either sitting in their own booths or standing together in a crowd.
Another thing happened yesterday, my co-worker came up to me and asked me if i liked my senior co-worker. girls are always so forward with me. Telling me they like me, touching me, trying to physically rape me, WTF! I'd say only 30% were bangable in my standards.
Earlier in the night:
hb5:you should go to this singles event with hb7.5
Me: ya i might. the last one she mentioned sounded like fun. 3 floors and you had to find your date. sounds like an adventure.
hb5: o how was it?
me: i ended up not going.
hb5: why?
me: well hb7.5 never sent me the information.
hb5: haha you got played.
some time passes by (when i drink i don't get hype like most people, i get really mellow and laid back. i start thinking about sh1t, life, etc.) hb7.5 is like a few feet away probably awaiting hb5 to relay the information.
hb5: Do you like hb7.5
me:why?
hb5: i think you do.
me: maybe i do, maybe i don't
hb5: y don't you just ask her out?
me: we work together in the same department. she sits across from me. besides, if i wanted to ask her out, i would.
hb5: (gives me this weird stare) so does that mean you don't like her.
me: if i liked her i would ask her out.
hb5: so you don't like her?
me: no
hb5: so would you date anyone from work.
me: (i just ignore her.)
earlier on in the night
a group of asian guys started to lean against me they were getting shoved by the crowd a little but they still did not respect that i was behind them, i was pushing them back but trying not to make a big deal out of it. I didn't want to start a fight and have my co-workers see the angry crazy side of me.
hb5 starts to yell at the other asian guys telling them to move away and that they were like sitting on me. They disrespectfully apologized.
hb5: don't worry AAA, i got your back.
Asian dude: yeah AAA she's got your back.
hb5: gives the guy a dirty stare.
I contemplated dropping the guy to the floor and if his friends came doing the same to all of them but, i just ignored it. I have such a babyface and i'm young and tall. The girls think i'm so innocent. I wonder what they'd think if they found out i've been suspended more than 20 times and expelled from some school, been arrested, sent people to the hospital all for fighting. I figure its not good to have your company know you're violent. Specially since i'm moving up and about to me promoted.
I think i may have an inferiority complex. If i feel dominated verbally/physically and i can't out talk the person then i automatically resort to beating their a$$ or threatening them. Almost everyone backs down and i have no problem fighting even if they do, but i realized that fighting is unnecessary and i need to pull myself away from it.
hb5 has a boyfriend but started to joke with me because i was standing so close to her.
hb5: wow you're so close, you trying to put the moves on me?
me: ( i just give her a confused look)
hb5: its okay, you can if you want (smiling).
me: (i just ignore her comment)
somehow i always turn all the girls around me aggressive.
I also realized that although i may have recovered from my last crazy relationship, i just don't feel the urge or spark to actively pursue girls for fun. I automatically trying to make some girl fall in love with me instead of trying to have fun for myself and i really don't know how to change this. The only girls i know how to have fun with are the ugs.
All my co-workers are 26-29. They have girlfriends and boyfriends. a few are single. They never go clubbing etc.
we go to bars and lounges. Everyone is in their own clicks, either sitting in their own booths or standing together in a crowd.
Another thing happened yesterday, my co-worker came up to me and asked me if i liked my senior co-worker. girls are always so forward with me. Telling me they like me, touching me, trying to physically rape me, WTF! I'd say only 30% were bangable in my standards.
Earlier in the night:
hb5:you should go to this singles event with hb7.5
Me: ya i might. the last one she mentioned sounded like fun. 3 floors and you had to find your date. sounds like an adventure.
hb5: o how was it?
me: i ended up not going.
hb5: why?
me: well hb7.5 never sent me the information.
hb5: haha you got played.
some time passes by (when i drink i don't get hype like most people, i get really mellow and laid back. i start thinking about sh1t, life, etc.) hb7.5 is like a few feet away probably awaiting hb5 to relay the information.
hb5: Do you like hb7.5
me:why?
hb5: i think you do.
me: maybe i do, maybe i don't
hb5: y don't you just ask her out?
me: we work together in the same department. she sits across from me. besides, if i wanted to ask her out, i would.
hb5: (gives me this weird stare) so does that mean you don't like her.
me: if i liked her i would ask her out.
hb5: so you don't like her?
me: no
hb5: so would you date anyone from work.
me: (i just ignore her.)
earlier on in the night
a group of asian guys started to lean against me they were getting shoved by the crowd a little but they still did not respect that i was behind them, i was pushing them back but trying not to make a big deal out of it. I didn't want to start a fight and have my co-workers see the angry crazy side of me.
hb5 starts to yell at the other asian guys telling them to move away and that they were like sitting on me. They disrespectfully apologized.
hb5: don't worry AAA, i got your back.
Asian dude: yeah AAA she's got your back.
hb5: gives the guy a dirty stare.
I contemplated dropping the guy to the floor and if his friends came doing the same to all of them but, i just ignored it. I have such a babyface and i'm young and tall. The girls think i'm so innocent. I wonder what they'd think if they found out i've been suspended more than 20 times and expelled from some school, been arrested, sent people to the hospital all for fighting. I figure its not good to have your company know you're violent. Specially since i'm moving up and about to me promoted.
I think i may have an inferiority complex. If i feel dominated verbally/physically and i can't out talk the person then i automatically resort to beating their a$$ or threatening them. Almost everyone backs down and i have no problem fighting even if they do, but i realized that fighting is unnecessary and i need to pull myself away from it.
hb5 has a boyfriend but started to joke with me because i was standing so close to her.
hb5: wow you're so close, you trying to put the moves on me?
me: ( i just give her a confused look)
hb5: its okay, you can if you want (smiling).
me: (i just ignore her comment)
somehow i always turn all the girls around me aggressive.
I also realized that although i may have recovered from my last crazy relationship, i just don't feel the urge or spark to actively pursue girls for fun. I automatically trying to make some girl fall in love with me instead of trying to have fun for myself and i really don't know how to change this. The only girls i know how to have fun with are the ugs.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
AAAgent: I feel you for the co-worker whose bugging the fvck out of you. Its kind of minor, but I remember meeting this chick at a bar. My boy was talking to a 3-set, 2 HB7's and HB5. When I came over, he knew HB5 liked me. So I thought I'll talk to her just to get to know her. The stupid bvtch kept saying I was cute. No matter what she said, it was somehow related to my looks. Annoying as fvck, I wanted to smack the shvt out of her. I straight up left the 3-set mid conversation. When I came back to get a drink, HB5 was gone and her 2 HB7 friends were telling me how good of a girl she is.
HB7-1: Oh Hb5 is such a cool girl. She likes to do this for fun. She also likes to do this. (Nothing sexual)
HB7-2: Ya she's a really sweet girl.
Negz: WTF is this high school or something?
(Jaws drop and I peace out) Then HB5 was hovering my friends and I all night. She was like that jewish girl from Jersey Shore, Stage 5 clinger haha.
HB7-1: Oh Hb5 is such a cool girl. She likes to do this for fun. She also likes to do this. (Nothing sexual)
HB7-2: Ya she's a really sweet girl.
Negz: WTF is this high school or something?
(Jaws drop and I peace out) Then HB5 was hovering my friends and I all night. She was like that jewish girl from Jersey Shore, Stage 5 clinger haha.
Masculinity
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AAA: From a completely straight man: Im curious to what you look like to see why these girls are all over you. What do you think it is?
Ouuuch, you're lucky they only beat you up, haha. This is the feeling inside that yells out "don't approach her" in fear of getting physically wounded, but it rarely happens...to me at leastpowpow said:
Thanks Josan! You're right in LA we should get together & go out now that my approach anxiety is way less!IamJosan said:
Haha, I actually carried this conversation right as she was giving me the info. You have to think FAST for busting a woman's balls and giving comebacks.Gray The Prince said:
Thanks bro...let me tell you though, that you will encounter sh!t tests everywhere you go. Even when the girl is already yours and you have been in an LTR for a year, she will still test you to se how you react and what kind of stuff she can get away with. Keep your saw sharp as hell and you won't have any problems. Approach girls just to get rejected and see that it isn't the end of the world. I use lame lines sometimes just to get into that "I don't give a f**k what happens" state of mind.neghitzbrah said:
We all know its not all about the looks with girls, but i am fairly attractive for an Asian. I get the most attention from ethnic girls like asian's and blacks. My senior is dominican and i know she's interested in me but i swear she's been with my boss. So i'm staying away.
It's not like all girls act like this upon sight, its more like a built attraction after they meet me and hang out. This only tall black girl in the group was showing interest but i just kept it friendly with her too.
I'm not the most photogenic but i'll post a pic later.
I'm 5'11, 180 and in decent shape. I've always gotten looks from Asian girls. The other day on the train this girl clearly stepped closer and slowly inched closer till she purposely tapped my foot. She was alright like a hb7 but i just have a problem talking to people through cold approaches. If i can somehow find a reason that i would need to talk to them for then its all normal and good.
I'd probably give myself an 7.5/8 in looks and if i perfected my body like an 8.5/9. I'll definitely be a killer looker when i get older since i have a young face.
Neg if you hit the clubs a lot hit me up man. I'm fairly new to the city and only hang with my co-workers.
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Remember when i mentioned the fine a$$ hb9 at my work that kept grilling the sh1t out of me and even turned around mid walk and looked me in face. After i made a botched a$$ attempt of an approach she just avoided me.
Show's you that looks will open the door for you but that's about it. You gotta do the rest. It's just more natural for me to play hard to get and have them come to me than it is for me to chase them.
That's what i'm trying to change, because when i am successful at approaching the chase is awesome.
It's not like all girls act like this upon sight, its more like a built attraction after they meet me and hang out. This only tall black girl in the group was showing interest but i just kept it friendly with her too.
I'm not the most photogenic but i'll post a pic later.
I'm 5'11, 180 and in decent shape. I've always gotten looks from Asian girls. The other day on the train this girl clearly stepped closer and slowly inched closer till she purposely tapped my foot. She was alright like a hb7 but i just have a problem talking to people through cold approaches. If i can somehow find a reason that i would need to talk to them for then its all normal and good.
I'd probably give myself an 7.5/8 in looks and if i perfected my body like an 8.5/9. I'll definitely be a killer looker when i get older since i have a young face.
Neg if you hit the clubs a lot hit me up man. I'm fairly new to the city and only hang with my co-workers.
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Remember when i mentioned the fine a$$ hb9 at my work that kept grilling the sh1t out of me and even turned around mid walk and looked me in face. After i made a botched a$$ attempt of an approach she just avoided me.
Show's you that looks will open the door for you but that's about it. You gotta do the rest. It's just more natural for me to play hard to get and have them come to me than it is for me to chase them.
That's what i'm trying to change, because when i am successful at approaching the chase is awesome.
Alright guys got a number last night but I couldn't do direct game like the challenge! I can't explain it it just isn't my personality, I'd rather shoot the sh*t before I go for her number and joke around to see if she's worth even calling before I invest any time or money.
Anyways just to give you guys an idea of what happened anyways though, I went to this bar that is usually poppin, but we got there really early. I was there with about 9 of my guy friends and as soon as I walked in I noticed not many people were there yet because we were there early.
I immediately saw these two girls sitting ad the bar and said "Hey you guys look like a bunch of alcoholics, are there drink specials?"
Now on the left was this foreign looking girl who was an 8.5, super hot. The other girl was cute but she was probably closer to a 6.5 maybe 7.
I was engaging both of them and they thought I was in finance and stuff even though I'm not,it was just their guess.
I tried to build rapport with the 8.5 but of the two the other seemed really interested in me, she wanted to know my name, when she had to go to the bathroom she had this sense of urgency like I was going to leave so she asked me to stay and stuff. While I was talking to the 8.5 it seemed like she was trying to talk her friend up more than anything.
Anyways I ended up getting the 6.5's number because she was actually pretty fun and cool where as the 8.5 was a little more boring. If anything I think I might have messed up a little bit towards the end of the night because I was getting hammered, and I saw this third girl come out of nowhere. Instead of taping her on the shoulder or something I lightly (key word lightly) tugged on her hair and introduced myself, but she got really p*ssed or something. I apologized but the 8.5 was like "hey you don't do that" or something. Eventually after talking to her for a minute she was cool again but yeah, if you get too drunk you start making mistakes I guess. I don't think it was a deal breaker but that was the low point.
In any rate the other girl seemed interested in me so at least I'm getting better. I am curious though whether I got another fake number though so Ill have to report back tomorrow and let you guys know!
Anyways just to give you guys an idea of what happened anyways though, I went to this bar that is usually poppin, but we got there really early. I was there with about 9 of my guy friends and as soon as I walked in I noticed not many people were there yet because we were there early.
I immediately saw these two girls sitting ad the bar and said "Hey you guys look like a bunch of alcoholics, are there drink specials?"
Now on the left was this foreign looking girl who was an 8.5, super hot. The other girl was cute but she was probably closer to a 6.5 maybe 7.
I was engaging both of them and they thought I was in finance and stuff even though I'm not,it was just their guess.
I tried to build rapport with the 8.5 but of the two the other seemed really interested in me, she wanted to know my name, when she had to go to the bathroom she had this sense of urgency like I was going to leave so she asked me to stay and stuff. While I was talking to the 8.5 it seemed like she was trying to talk her friend up more than anything.
Anyways I ended up getting the 6.5's number because she was actually pretty fun and cool where as the 8.5 was a little more boring. If anything I think I might have messed up a little bit towards the end of the night because I was getting hammered, and I saw this third girl come out of nowhere. Instead of taping her on the shoulder or something I lightly (key word lightly) tugged on her hair and introduced myself, but she got really p*ssed or something. I apologized but the 8.5 was like "hey you don't do that" or something. Eventually after talking to her for a minute she was cool again but yeah, if you get too drunk you start making mistakes I guess. I don't think it was a deal breaker but that was the low point.
In any rate the other girl seemed interested in me so at least I'm getting better. I am curious though whether I got another fake number though so Ill have to report back tomorrow and let you guys know!
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
Got 2 numbers lastnight
You ever look back at the point when you realized how easy it is to talk to people? Then you realize that it's not about there being any difficulty or easy to talk to people, it's about being comfortable. You don't HAVE to talk to anyone if they piss you off, say something stupid, act like an *******, or are shady.
I came across most of these situations last night. I don't have time to type it now cuz I got a date with HB7fling from the post earlier. I'll post it tomorrow night or something. I did get 2 numbers though, and hopefully will get the last tonight.
AAAgent: Yeah man, I hit up club sometimes, but like I said earlier I'm still getting used to the club game. I was on the dance floor and danced with this spanish chick, HB7.5. We were dancing and stuff, then her HB3 friends pulled her away as we were getting into it... I hate jealous friends. I'm kinda going off topic, but we should definitely hit some bars and club scenes in the city. Send me a PM
Robyn: Thanks for the advice bro. I wasn't aware of all these fvckin shvt tests until I read the DJ bible and articles a month ago. I can't believe I was so oblivious to it... of course failed most and passed ones with luck. How the hell was I in a LTR with an HB8.5 for 5 years and engaged???? I have no clue, but it AFC'd the hell out of me. Back in the game though! Yo Robyn, u should come out to NYC.
Flint: Props man. Sometimes after talking to a chick you realize that even though shes not as good looking as her friend, she might be the better girl, personality wise. I met an HB7 and HB9. HB9 had a bvtch shield the size of the fvckin planet. HB7 was chill as hell. Anyways nice work with the # close.
You ever look back at the point when you realized how easy it is to talk to people? Then you realize that it's not about there being any difficulty or easy to talk to people, it's about being comfortable. You don't HAVE to talk to anyone if they piss you off, say something stupid, act like an *******, or are shady.
I came across most of these situations last night. I don't have time to type it now cuz I got a date with HB7fling from the post earlier. I'll post it tomorrow night or something. I did get 2 numbers though, and hopefully will get the last tonight.
AAAgent: Yeah man, I hit up club sometimes, but like I said earlier I'm still getting used to the club game. I was on the dance floor and danced with this spanish chick, HB7.5. We were dancing and stuff, then her HB3 friends pulled her away as we were getting into it... I hate jealous friends. I'm kinda going off topic, but we should definitely hit some bars and club scenes in the city. Send me a PM
Robyn: Thanks for the advice bro. I wasn't aware of all these fvckin shvt tests until I read the DJ bible and articles a month ago. I can't believe I was so oblivious to it... of course failed most and passed ones with luck. How the hell was I in a LTR with an HB8.5 for 5 years and engaged???? I have no clue, but it AFC'd the hell out of me. Back in the game though! Yo Robyn, u should come out to NYC.
Flint: Props man. Sometimes after talking to a chick you realize that even though shes not as good looking as her friend, she might be the better girl, personality wise. I met an HB7 and HB9. HB9 had a bvtch shield the size of the fvckin planet. HB7 was chill as hell. Anyways nice work with the # close.
Congratulations to everyone still doing the challenge. I notice a lot of you are doing a lot of night/club/bar game, and that's something I rarely do. I have more approach anxiety about going to those places than doing my random day game approaches to be honest. I'm not sure why my AA is higher for just going to those places. The last time I went to a big party last October I bombed and got rejected a lot! It was just an intimidating atmosphere for some reason to me. But, I have to realize that I had little game then, and I was just asking random girls I didn't know to dance. I think there is a big frat party at a local club this upcoming Friday, and I'm really considering going. I might as well go and open sets, I have nothing to lose. My AA is still bad for night game(mainly makng myself go to those places, because I rarely drink, and I'm not a good dancer).
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
I guess I have a day to get two numbers, This will be very intresting.
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Hey guys, I did three more approaches and did pretty well! I have a bunch of homework and studying to do for exams right now, but I'll post the details later! I completed my weekly task :rockon:
