Gladiators!::Approach Anxiety Competition!

[powpow]

Gentleman -

I think I am in love.

Went to a nice nightclub last night. My friend ended up texting me saying he wants to join. Sweet. This guy has solid game. Good looking. Surely this will be a good night. I met a homeless guy on the street. Tried to get him in. I said how baller is it gonna be to go clubbing with a homeless? They said he "didnt pass the dresscode". Bullsh!t.

You know who my friend brings? He brings one of my old plates (the 7.5 29 year old. And one of his plates. IM LIKE DUDE!!!!!! GUYS NIGHT! I SAID GUYS NIGHT! Hes already three sheets and oblivious. OHHHHHH HERE IT GOES.

So I keep trying to ditch my old plate at the club but shes major clingy. GHA. Then... omg. This girl. This beautiful creature.

I see her looking at me. Like I actually got a little bit nervous making eye contact with her. She had these big catlike eyes. Like piercing. SHE makes the move. She comes up to me and my old plate. She uses MY line, "hey is this your girlfriend?". I say no, just a friend. Plate gets so mad. Starts going off on this girl. And me.

old plate - what do you mean Im just a friend?
me - I mean youre not my girlfriend. I told you that.
old plate - so what those nights are nothing?

*so like at this point Ive heard this all before and its lame and boring. girls complaining like I cant just drop the plate*

new girl - hey look, what are you like 40? you look like my moms friend. It seems like he could do better.
they start arguing in some japanese jibberish I cant understand. Im bored with it so I go to the bathroom.

Old plate keeps being clingy. Following me around as I try to ditch, asking me why shes only a friend to me. GHAAA SHUTUP PLATE.

Anyway, that new chick keeps popping up every once in a while. She is so super confident its so sexy. She sees me arguing with my old plate again. I look over, shes laughing. Its so funny. I make eyes for her to meet me downstairs. I ditch the plate for a second. She meets me. We leave. So much score. I mean SO MUCH SCORE.

From there we ate at mcdonalds with some of her friends. I build rapport with each one of these people for about 10 minutes. She **** tests me so hard. I tell her Im coming back to her place. Shes so full of **** tests. I bypass like my boy pretty boy aj. Go back to her house MAN! BITER! Thought my **** was gonna fall off and now it looks like I got into a fight with a tiger all these scratches on my back.

Yep. Im in love.

 

[AAAgent]

powpow...your stories sound ridiculous sometimes. Banging strippers in clubs, getting girls to fight over each other, etc.

 

[Masculinity]

powpow...your stories sound ridiculous sometimes. Banging strippers in clubs, getting girls to fight over each other, etc.

Ameeen!!!

Is this for real? Girls fighting over you? I would be crazy happy if two chicks fought over me. Man that sounds gay, haha...get over it

 

[Gray The Prince]

Lol,what's this week's task? I'm back in my hometown cause of Spring Break and I'm venturing into Houston as well, so this will be fun. Plus I'm catching up with my friends from Houston and my hometown, so I'll get a glimpse of a lot of these guys' games too. Oh and eliminate all of the guys who've failed to do ANYTHING. So the real fun can be began!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I had spring break last week so I've been busy with alot of things so I'll try to complete this weeks task tonight.

 

[powpow]

powpow...your stories sound ridiculous sometimes. Banging strippers in clubs, getting girls to fight over each other, etc.

Well its because I am a huge douchebag that treats women like garbage and have grown into a person with little to no moral or societal boundaries. More animal than human, with a ridiculously disproportioned id.

I am a big piece of garbage and my parents would be so proud. Fvck man. I am gonna do nothing today but clean my room. I used to treat women so well, what happened? Its like ever since my last girlfriend dumped me I have had a personal vendetta against the female species.

PSH! WHATEVER! Ill find the medium in time. Until then, fortes fortuna adiuvat right? Yall my dogs, go get em.

 

[flint]

hey is this still going on? I might have posted this too late but whatever maybe I just made it.

So this weekend I went to a city that was celebrating a st. patties day parade. I didn't make it in time to watch the parade but I did make it in time to see all of the hb's who went to the parade go to the bars and everything

Anyways I actually had several approaches and got a few girls numbers. I think the excersize was to just have 2 ten minute conversations with girls or something. Here are two of them that I had:

*Flint tries to get into a bar, bouncer says I have to wait in a long line that stretches really far back and that it would be a 30 minute wait. After some banter back and forth I see these two girls at the front of the line and talk to them*

*Flint goes up to 2 HBs in front of the line and wraps my arm around them*:
"Cousins! Its been so long nice to see you!"

*HBs laugh and act pleasantly surprised to see me*

Flint: "I haven't seen you guys since the divorce what have you been up to!" (smiling)

HB1: "You're such a jerk" (laughing)

Flint: "Hey hey that's not a nice way to talk to family"

*We go back and forth about how they are from brazil and stuff, after a couple of minutes I convince the bar tender to let us in and tell him that the girls are with me*

Flint to hb1: "Well hey listen I've gota meet up with a friend now but I admit I might be interested in my cousin right now, so why don't you give me your number so we can have a little family reunion"

(gets number)


Anyways that was approach 1. Approach two was immediately after this:

*Flint sees two girls at the bar. Stands next to them and taps one on the shoulder*: "Man, you have no idea what I just had to go through to get in here"

HB1: "Oh really, what happened?"

Flint *touches shoulder*: "So I forgot to close out my tab here and I had to basically talk the bouncer down for a solid 15 minutes to get in here. Actually I better chill out you probably think I've got a drinking problem now because I put in that much effort to come back in and get a drink".

HBs laugh

Flint: "But then again I bet you guys have been drinking since 4 in the morning."

Anways we go back and forth for a while, and I actually talked to these two chicks for about a half hour before I got their number. At one point I asked them what they think I do for a living. HB2 told me she thought I was a lawyer, HB1 thought I was some sort of chef, so I told them I was insulted that they basically called me a big fat liar.

So yeah I got three numbers but this city isn't too close to where I live so it was mostly practice. And I didn't get the first 2 numbers of girls I approached so I didn't win the bonus elimination.

Keep it up folks.


*Flint is victorious!*

 

[AAAgent]

This weeks task:

1 Cold Day Approach with no alcohol influence and one rapport approach where you need to hold a conversation and build rapport for atleast 2 minutes.

I will post the people that are still in it for the running as well as the people that have been eliminated.

I forgot to mention the cold approach without influence must end in a number close.

 

[Deicide]

Cool, thanks AAAgent. I'm on Spring Break in a town in East TN that is full of married women and women with boyfriends! It sucks for picking up, but it's a nice tourist town with restaraunts and shops. But, I'm still doing it for sure. I approached a girl this morning with her 2 kids at breakfast, that was crazy!
She didn't want to take the elevator with me and took the stairs. hahaha I got rejected by a married waitress last night. The weird thing is I'm doing all this stuff with my family and sister beside me! If they weren't here, I would like to sarge this little place. I guess I'll try my hand at the hired guns, a lot of them are Eastern Euro girls. I've gotten 0 numbers so far. I still have work to do.

 

[flint]

oh mann no alcohol influence? ughhh fiiiiiiiiiiiine. you're making this tough now.

 

[AAAgent]

Hey guys, I've been busy lately with preparing for my vacations. I managed to secure myself a spot in an underwater archaeology excavation in Greece and also planned a trip to Hong Kong where i will also meet and work with my equivalent team in HK.

I also just got eliminated yesterday from making the playoff's in my basketball league. damn! we were 1 game away. I know i can jump high. I can easily grab rim but i must be doing something wrong because i can't block people. I know my timing is off for my jumps but i'm not exactly sure how to change that. I'm like a rebound king and beast the boards even over bigger and taller guys but shorter guys on my team block guys all the time and I rarely ever get any blocks (not just this league, i never was good at blocking shots). This shorter guy on my team jumps about the same height as i do and when we both try to dunk a mini basketball he gets it where i utterly fail because i can never time my jump properly. Anyway back to topic-----

I caught another girl looking at me multiple times today. Happens often with asian girls. One time i actually caught her when she turned around to look at me. she quickly turned back right away.

How would you approach these girls? We were on the train and got off the same stop. I'm really used to girls making themselves readily available to me. Like the japanese girl last week and the other asian girls in the office.

POWPOW- i'm sure you're getting familiar with asian culture more now that you live there and you may see how forward/ how much IOI these asian's girls give or go out of their way to grab your attention. Any suggestions on how to approach and escalate during the day/train/etc?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Sounds fun AAA. Sucks your basketball tm didnt make playoffs. Just because you can touch rim doesn't mean you can jump high. I was touching rim when I was in middle school.

 

[AAAgent]

i've dunked a football before and had the 3rd best long jump in my highschool. for an asian guy that's only 5''11, i think that's pretty damn good.

i've also been touching rim since middleschool but i'm getting back in shape now and started squatting recently. I want to be able to dunk so i need to work on my jumping.

 

[Deicide]

I did a few cold approaches yesterday, but these were the best ones.
I saw an HB 7 Mature Latina woman with her daughter in a store. I heard her speaking Spanish and approached her and said:
Me:You speak Spanish well.
Her: You speak Spanish?
Me: Yes, I learned it at my university. Spanish is my major.
Her: How nice, where are you from?
Me: West Tennessee. I'm white and not Hispanic.
Her:*Laughs* I'm from Venezuela.
(Her daughter translates and speaks English in between our conversations to help us out)
Her: We went from Venezuela to Florida then we drove here.
Me: How is Venezuela?
Her: It's very pretty with a lot of beaches.
Me: Too bad there's no beaches here.
It was a long conversation with different topics ranging from Traveling, Europe(our times spent there), Portuguese, Iberian food, teasing her about her daughter speaking better English than her, and unfortunately, I found out she had a husband mid-way through. But she said that I spoke very good Spanish and that she was very happy to have spoken with me, and she reached out to shake hands with me first. It was one of the best approaches I've ever had, though things get in the way of getting more than just an approach. We talked for 5-10 minutes.

Next, I was at an arcade with my family after I had just eaten dinner. I wasn't even concerned with approaching. I just saw one of the HB 6 Brunette workers there and said Hey and smiled as I was passing by. The approach was split up into 3 times, but it definitely built rapport.
Me: Hey
Her:Hey, I wasn't talking to myself. I was on the phone. haha
I came back later because the Ms. Pac-Man machine took my money.
Me: Hey, the Ms. Pac-Man machine took my money.
Her:Really, are you kidding me?
Me:Haha, no. I came all the way up here to admit that I played Ms. Pac Man.
Her: Haha, that's so old school. Let me get your money back.*Calls a worker and tells him to come see me at the machine*
Later on, I go approach her at the desk.
Me:Hey, I got my money back and more. I got to play twice.
Her:Oh, he must've been trying to suck up to you.
Me:Haha(Then we have a little confusion about what she said).
Her: My phone is starting to mess up on me:
Me:It's because you're always on it and you have nothing to do.
Her:Laughs. It gets so boring up her. There was a girl with a British accent that came her and talked to me last night. I'd love to go to England...uh.. yeah...England for a trip.
Me: Haha You couldn't make up your mind. England uh yeah, England.
Her: Laughs. I like your watch.
Me:Thanks, I got it at an airport before I went to Spain for a month.
Her: Why didn't you take me with you?!
Me: Because I didn't know you yet. haha
Her: What did you do there?
Me:I took classes, but I did a lot more than that there. I had fun!
Then later on, I ask her what she is doing tomorrow.
She told me she had classes during the day and had to drive 2 hours to get to work tomorrow night. She doesn't know what time she gets off work, and Tuesday(today) is my last full day here. I told her I was going to ask if she wanted to meet tomorrow sometime, but I don't know now.

So, despite her being into me obviously, we're probably not meeting due to time constraints. I need to go on Spring Break without my parents next year. I know I could position myself for a one night stand if I was here for a couple more days.

My AA here is higher than usual because I got my Dad by my side most of the time and he dislikes me doing PUA stuff. He told me I'm going to be a victim of a jealous bf/husband or that I'm going to end up in jail for being with an underage girl. It's just his overprotective bs. Surprisingly, my Mom doesn't mind my PUA stuff. She even said that I got good taste in women from what she's seen. haha

Can a cold approach be a rapport approach as well? Because I'm not at college/out of town and everything I'm doing here is cold approaches or hired gun game.

 

[AAAgent]

both were good but you still need a number close. def could have atleast # closed the second one. It's good that your conversation skills have progressed that you can easily answer questions off the top of your head. Makes free flow conversation so much easier.

 

[neghitzbrah]

Conversations are better

One thing I realized is that I'm not longer the dude who chills with his friends in the corner of the bar. I talk up everyone, guys and girl. It really opens a lot of doors to free drinks, people wanting to talk to you, and girls bein interested in you. Every weekend I get better at this stuff. Let me review last weekend:

Friday: Club Scene
I had some AA because one of my friends doesn't really socialize that much. In fact, he's kinda awkward, so I had to solo most of it.
HB7 dances near me
Negz: Hey where u from?
HB7: Im from LI, how bout you? ::bumps me with her butt::
We start to talk about NYC vs LI and I joke around with her for moving to LI from queens. Lots of Kino. -- in the midst of all this, I did something different to better my game. I was more open about myself (but still kept a bit of a mystery). -- so we danced for a bit and she was really feelin me. But I didn't # close. I really need to man up and do it.

HB Coat check girl. I talk to her for a little bit then a 2-set outside. At this point, I guess some chick noticed all this and EC'ed me all night. Didn't build up the courage to approach her. She was an HB8.5 easy. AA through the roof on HB8+'s. Plus my friend threw off my game a bit when he *****ed at me for talking to too many people. I hate it when people do this.

Saturday: Bar game
Met up with a few friends in the city. Talked with lots of girls that night. My wing and I talked to a 2-set, didn't # close just yet but said we would come back since they asked if they were boring us. I caught them when they were leaving, but didn't # close. I really need to man up with this.

Here's a situation worth talkin about:
3 AMOGS playin pool and a 2-set watchin them, HB8 and HB 7.5.
I made up a game plan.
Negz: WTF only sunk 2 balls? You guys are terrible, hurry up we wanna play
My wing went along with it so we negged these AMOGs. They were crackin up. Funniest was when I went up to this 6'7" AMOG and bashed him for lookin like a bouncer but acting like a pu$$y. Finally the HB8 approaches me
HB8: Do you always have this much fun?
Negz: Depends on what kind of fun were talkin about. Where u from?
We talk for a bit, she smiles and sits next to her friend. Here's where I fvkced up. I ordered a drink and gamed messed with the bartender (she gave me 2 free drinks) and completely forgot about HB8. I turned around and they were up and leaving. Turns out they weren't with the AMOGs after all haha. Oh well

Later that night, I met a group of interesting people then jumped to another bar. At this point, I lost track of time and before I knew it it was 3am (DST). Last bar we went to, I talked to this Ukraine HB7.5 who didn't know a word of English. I just asked her questions using my Google Translate app, tons of Kino. When I asked her sister to get me her number, she c0ckbl0cked me and said "she doesn't know any english." bvtch didn't even translate it to the Ukraine HB7.5

Afterwards, my 2 buddies and I left the bar. Saw a 3-set at a corner of a street.
Negz: Hey do you ladies know where ___ is?
HB7: Yeah its ____
Negz: Aight, what bring you ladies out here?
My wings and I took a girl each. I picked the HB7 actress. She showed me her IMDB cause I said I didn't believe her. Legit. Respect.
My friend # closed, good 4 him.

Now technically I got rejected a # close. But I did get a # from a friend of a friend and hooked up w her. Does this count for Round 2?

 

[Deicide]

I did do a number close last night. I was walking around and I went to an arcade where I saw an Asian worker there. I approached her. HB 7 Thai.
Me: Hey, what do you have here?
Her: We have sausages here, and corndogs over on the other side.
Me: You have a little accent. Where are you from?
Her: Thailand. I have an accent?
Me: Yes, you do, but it's not that bad. haha I know some girls from Thailand that go to my college.
Her: Cool, where do you go to college at?
Me: X University in West TN.
Her: I've never heard of that place. I only know of Nashville and Knoxville in TN.
Me: You don't know a whole lot then. haha I've never heard Thai spoken before.
Her: Really? Even though you know those girls?
Me: Yes, I've never heard them speak in it before. Say something to me in Thai. Like "Hey, how're you doing?"
Her: Speaks Thai for me.
Me: That's interesting, though I'm not sure what you said.
Her: So I really have an accent?(concerned voice)
Me: Yes, but it's not that bad.
Then a customer comes up and disrupts the gaming process.
Me: What are you doing later on tonight after work?
Her: I'm going out with my friends.
Me:Can we exchange numbers and meet later on tonight when you get off work?
The she walks away to get her cellphone. She gives me her American and full name/phone number and tells me she is on Facebook. She also tells me she is going back to Thailand a week from now. Unfortunately tonight is her last night here, and so is mine.
Me: My name is D by the way.
Me:How about just me and you go meet after work tonight?
Her: I'm supposed to meet my friends.
Me: You seem like an interesting person so far, but I don't know about you.
And it's a big mess of a situation for me. I want to get this girl in an ONS despite me being a virgin. My family is somewhere waiting on me, I have no room to take this girl back to, we're supposed to pack up tonight and leave in the morning. My Dad pretty much warned me not to hit on girls for the night hahahaha So she ended up not calling me back and I guess I may never see her again. I got the number, but going on Spring Break with the parents has its limitations. I didn't want to go out with her friends because I wanted to isolate her instead of wasting time.

What did I do wrong? And how could I have gotten this girl to ditch her friends for me? She seemed into me and was laughing and enjoying our conversation, but it's hard to make a girl ditch her established friends over a random guy that can game women alright. I think I should've been more specific and I should've asked her to go out for drinks. Maybe I should've gone with her and her friends?

I don't know, that was the only approach I've ever done where the goal was an ONS. I'm not so sure I want to add a girl on Facebook that I failed to get an ONS with.

I don't think I'll be going on family vacations much anymore. I could've gotten a couple ONS's if I only had a car to drive to a nearby town. The trip eased my AA a lot, because I was gaming in front of my parents. haha But I only got one number and no 2nd meetings with women.

 

[flint]

Alright guys I need to admit I'm a little concerned now. I've been getting numbers since I started this (not many yet, just 3) and all 3 were fake. 2 of them were just some dude's number and another was a disconnected line.

Its weird because in every one of these situations I really didn't feel a flake coming on. Grr

 

[Masculinity]

I'm always sober as alcohol is simply not for me, so this is eaaasy for me :yes:

I've successfully completed my task, not perfectly, but I'm getting a lot of IOI's from this seriously attractive girl. Her waist is small and her hips are tight and round yum yum, haha.

Here's the link to the tread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182722

Thought I was kidding when I said AA better be ready for me? Neeegro, please! :kick:

Alright guys I need to admit I'm a little concerned now. I've been getting numbers since I started this (not many yet, just 3) and all 3 were fake. 2 of them were just some dude's number and another was a disconnected line.

Its weird because in every one of these situations I really didn't feel a flake coming on. Grr

:crackup: Sorry, dude. The way you worded this was just funny. I got a dude's number a few weeks ago too from a girl online who I thought was real


Post your convo's and have everyone take a look at them I post my own not knowing how the heck it went wrong and when I get feedback I got back to my thread and ask myself what the heck I was thinking when I said that to that girl.

There's chicks everywhere. Don't sweat it, capt'n!

 

[Gray The Prince]

Lol, I'm having a slow start due to being at my hometown and on a lot of R&R time and I've been playing the new Pokemon game that just came out (White Version) lol. I'm hanging out with my best friend today at the mall and stuff and I'm probably hitting the club with one of my friends from High School whom I havent seen since the week before I left for college and my cousin wants to go get on some HBs on Friday I believe, so I'll get on this today, tonight and tommorrow and possibly Saturday.

I'm curious to see how my approach style is gonna be this week considering I'm on Vacation and I'm getting a faux hawk/mohawk today, similar to this

http://i1212.photobucket.com/albums/cc443/Prince_Gray/Black_men_mohawk_haircut_picture.png