LOL not sure if serious...corrector said:
But if you are, it might actually work for the OP. Hell, it worked for me lol. You can't have the experience of f*cking 4 HBs (9s or 10s) in the space of 12 hours for 50 euros (around $70) per girl in a place where it's legal and regulated anywhere else in the world. It can really put one-itis and women woes into perspective. If women problems are a major distraction for you (I suspect the OP is distracted from his life by it), then such an action might get rid of the distraction and free your mind for other things in life.
It was no coincidence how after the Amsterdam trip, I started hitting the gym hard, getting serious with my diet and reading DJ material properly.
OP needs to take action and actively do something to get out of his rut/midlife crisis.