Giving/Taking Advice from Strangers: Why?

[Grounded eagle]

I'm honestly not impressed with the "advice" here. A person would have to be extremely inexperienced in life to get much from here. Or just extremely naive. It's mostly chest thumping delusions.

I'm not saying that I have anything against the individuals here, but as a collective, I don't find this place as much of a source of wisdom.

Your over 1000 messages in just 8 months tells a different story.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Your over 1000 messages in just 8 months tells a different story.

No it doesn't.

 

[Grounded eagle]

No it doesn't.

You know,people have actually left the forum before because they got tired of dealing with the admittedly almost ubiquitous BS here.Good members,who actually contributed worthwhile ideas.

The option is always available to you if you really believe there’s no good to be found here.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

You know,people have actually left the forum before because they got tired of dealing with the admittedly almost ubiquitous BS here.Good members,who actually contributed worthwhile ideas.

The option is always available to you if you really believe there’s no good to be found here.

Did you think I needed you to tell me my options?

 

[joesbigship]

Luciano's recent post is one of the most recent examples, but it probably applies to most threads, aside from the ones where the answers are common-sensically obvious.

Dude found something good with an 18 year old hottie, and 95% of the forum spews the most ridiculous hate out of obvious spite and jealousy. It's so obvious what's motivating their anger.

I had no strong feelings or any specific recommendations on the matter. He's a grown man in this 30's and can make his own decisions, so basically wished him good luck since he's someone I don't know and can't reliably give advice to.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Did you think I needed you to tell me my options?

No,it’s just that you seemed unaware of them.Since,you know,you’d rather be an insufferable troll instead of just sparing us all and leaving.Not like you’d be missed or something.

 

[Barrister]

Good question. I'll try to answer...

I think I stay here for the 1 out of 1000 posts that actually involves real people and real interactions with a female.

I haven't even tried to do anything other than with escorts in several years because I know there's no better way to get sex on demand with a super attractive girl with no drama or strings attached. And even have a different one every day.

I guess I'm just looking to see others experiences and if they match up with the world that I see. I think most relationships are based on finances anyway (even if the parties claim to be "in love" or whatever), and I'm certainly not going to support one girl.

But I get lost in pointless arguments during the 999 out of 1000 posts that were pointless begin with.

How many times do we need to hear about some random guy who made a YouTube channel claiming to know "the game" just so he can get people to view his channel.

Okay - but here the other side of the coin. You seem to like to argue, which is fine. I enjoy it sometimes too and do it for a living. But offering advice is surely better than just trying to be a contrarian 100% of the time. Who are you really benefiting by being that way? Especially on a public forum that is here for the sake of understanding and picking up women?

I will agree with you that some posters here I don't believe are half as successful with women as they act like. But I actually think there is a good percentage of guys here, generally the guys that have been here for a bit, who know what they are talking about and offer pretty solid advice on women (and life experience in general). I agree with @Billtx49 that if someone thinks this place is as worthless as you seem to insinuate you are likely better off just leaving.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

No,it’s just that you seemed unaware of them.Since,you know,you’d rather be an insufferable troll instead of just sparing us all and leaving.Not like you’d be missed or something.

This interaction is pointless and we should end it right now. You can put me on ignore if you want and never hear from me again.

 

[Barrister]

Luciano's recent post is one of the most recent examples, but it probably applies to most threads, aside from the ones where the answers are common-sensically obvious.

Dude found something good with an 18 year old hottie, and 95% of the forum spews the most ridiculous hate out of obvious spite and jealousy. It's so obvious what's motivating their anger.

I had no strong feelings or any specific recommendations on the matter. He's a grown man in this 30's and can make his own decisions, so basically wished him good luck since he's someone I don't know and can't reliably give advice to.

There was hardly any "ridiculous hate" being "spewed." More like people trying to tell the guy to come to his senses over strapping his life to a volatile 18 year old girl. That is sound advice that comes with life experience. And the whole reason this place exists. If he was 100% sure of the decision then he wouldn't have made the post in the first place.

You actually just highlighted why this place is so important. Exhibit A of a man who (hopefully) came to his senses and can thank SS.

 

[Grounded eagle]

This interaction is pointless and we should end it right now. You can put me on ignore if you want and never hear from me again.

You’re right.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Okay - but here the other side of the coin. You seem to like to argue, which is fine. I enjoy it sometimes too and do it for a living. But offering advice is surely better than just trying to be a contrarian 100% of the time. Who are you really benefiting by being that way? Especially on a public forum that is here for the sake of understanding and picking up women?

I will agree with you that some posters here I don't believe are half as successful with women as they act like. But I actually think there is a good percentage of guys here, generally the guys that have been here for a bit, who know what they are talking about and offer pretty solid advice on women (and life experience in general). I agree with @Billtx49 that if someone thinks this place is as worthless as you seem to insinuate you are likely better off just leaving.

1. I'm not contrarian 100% of the time. It might seem that way, but if you pay attention to the "1 out of 1000" posts that I see as worthy, then you'll see that's not the case.

2. I see your point that I can leave. I just haven't chosen to yet.

3. I think a lot of the "guys who are good" are actually just succumbing and submitting to the feminist world. I truly don't think there's any way to actually win. When I go out, which I haven't done much of since I stopped drinking 3 years ago, I am almost always immediately turned off by the little "princess" attitudes. I feel like it's disrespecting myself to even interact with them.

 

[joesbigship]

Another example was from missouri's post on his honeymoon? with a "dime asian" or something like that. Was she really as hot as he claimed? Impossible to say without photos.

What we do know is that most hot women are aged 18 to 25 or at least in their 20's. Certainly some asians do age very well, and it is possible in a minority of cases for women in their 30's to be or remain "hot."

But the odds are against it, and it's more probable he's kind of a nerdy, not so good looking guy who's infatuated with asian women. We saw concrete proof of how bizarre of a hold asian fever can take on guys with biggoal's photos of a "hot" asian woman who literally had a head the size of a pumpkin.

She could've legitimately been rated a '4' or in an extremely generous case, a not so plausible '6'. But at least he posted a photo of himself and rated women's photos so we could easily spot his delusion.

With missouri, none of this was possible so it became a strange guessing game based upon zero concrete information.

There was hardly any "ridiculous hate" being "spewed." More like people trying to tell the guy to come to his senses over strapping his life to a volatile 18 year old girl. That is sound advice that comes with life experience. And the whole reason this place exists. If he was 100% sure of the decision then he wouldn't have made the post in the first place.

You actually just highlighted why this place is so important. Exhibit A of a man who (hopefully) came to his senses and can thank SS.

More silly hyperbole. Signing a lease isn't 'strapping his life' to someone. Leases are relatively easy to get out of, especially with demand so high.

She may or may not be "volatile," no evidence of that from anything he posted. This is more a case of projection from the many mentally imbalanced guys attacking him out of jealousy.

Look at all of the nutjob females you guys try to date who are well into their 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond. Clearly, the women you guys are interested in are hardly emotionally balanced despite their age.

I doubt you are very good at 'arguing' since you routinely ignore the facts.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Another example was from missouri's post on his honeymoon? with a "dime asian" or something like that. Was she really as hot as he claimed? Impossible to say without photos.

What we do know is that most hot women are aged 18 to 25 or at least in their 20's. Certainly some asians do age very well, and it is possible in a minority of cases for women in their 30's to be or remain "hot."

But the odds are against it, and it's more probable he's kind of a nerdy, not so good looking guy who's infatuated with asian women. We saw concrete proof of how bizarre of a hold asian fever can take on guys with biggoal's photos of a "hot" asian woman who literally had a head the size of a pumpkin.

She could've legitimately been rated a '4' or in an extremely generous case, a not so plausible '6'. But at least he posted a photo of himself and rated women's photos so we could easily spot his delusion.

With missouri, none of this was possible so it became a strange guessing game based upon zero concrete information.

And even if photos are posted (which is always inappropriate without permission of the girl), then most likely they will be some weird model pic that doesn't represent what the girl even looks like.

 

[joesbigship]

And even if photos are posted (which is always inappropriate without permission of the girl), then most likely they will be some weird model pic that doesn't represent what the girl even looks like.

True, true, all too easy to post the most flattering single pic or shoop a pic in a few seconds, or post a phony pic.

But if they do post a realistic photo, like biggoal did, there's some legitimate basis to start from.

 

[rdzntz422.MYZ]

Hey guys, new here. Just looking for a place where I could get feedback on how to improve my style and looks. The 'advice' forum seemed like an ok bet, so I was hoping if I could get help on looking better or formulating a new look? If someone thinks they have good taste, I can DM some pics. If I could get a few pointers I'd appreciate it, thanks.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Hey guys, new here. Just looking for a place where I could get feedback on how to improve my style and looks. The 'advice' forum seemed like an ok bet, so I was hoping if I could get help on looking better or formulating a new look? If someone thinks they have good taste, I can DM some pics. If I could get a few pointers I'd appreciate it, thanks.

Shouldn't you start a new thread for this?

 

[Stuffnu]

This is a great forum. Generally we can speak our minds freely besides some obvious guidelines. Sosauve and the membership was my red pill and I will pay it back.
Besides a few peacocks, I know most have provided advice from personal experiences. However we’re not a one size - fit all with different strengths and weaknesses. Its up to us to incorporate into our skill set what works best.
Further reinforced from women’s perspective like BeExcellent even though she can get off her pedestal (friendly jab).
Sure, posts can be duplicated or recycled but sometimes a refresher couldn’t hurt.

Keep it up..

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

This is a great forum. Generally we can speak our minds freely besides some obvious guidelines. Sosauve and the membership was my red pill and I will pay it back.
Besides a few peacocks, I know most have provided advice from personal experiences. However we’re not a one size - fit all with different strengths and weaknesses. Its up to us to incorporate into our skill set what works best.
Further reinforced from women’s perspective like BeExcellent even though she can get off her pedestal (friendly jab).
Sure, posts can be duplicated or recycled but sometimes a refresher couldn’t hurt.

Keep it up..

I don't think the female perspective helps at all here.

And did you mean can't get off her pedestal?

 

[Billtx49]

True, true, all too easy to post the most flattering single pic or shoop a pic in a few seconds, or post a phony pic.

But if they do post a realistic photo, like biggoal did, there's some legitimate basis to start from.

Gentlemen, this forum isn’t about posting pics and bragging. Most looking for help are here for advice, not pic lookin. Every man here that keeps hittin it regularly has no need to show her oic off for others approval, she already has his…
Wanting to look at other mens women only makes you seem weird and gives you no personal help getting your own woman, consider that…

 

[Stuffnu]

I don't think the female perspective helps at all here.

And did you mean can't get off her pedestal?

Sounds like you fear a women’s perspective. Didn’t say you had to agree with it.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”