giving out facebook to girls you just met, bad or good?

[tony-montana]

just wondering... to me i think it's not that good of an idea. kind of lose the mystery right? i met a girl last night we exchanged numbers and wanted to see more pictures of her and im sure she has facebook... but then if i asked for it, would probably lose that spark we had going.

 

[f283000]

Read the link in my signature. But your post tells me you are already taking the coward's way out. You saying you want to see more of this chic so why don't you ask her out?

You rather settle for jacking off to her pics online rather than seeing her face to face? I know this is the path you are going if you get her facebook..

 

[tony-montana]

no i didn't say that. i was just wondering from peoples experience that's all. we have already arranged to meet next weekend i just wanted to check her out more cause i only spoke to her for 30 minutes.

i am reading your thread. looks good.

are you saying its bad to even add girls you are currently seeing? cause i did that with another girl (i don't really use facebook much anyway, i only add photos sometimes when i have been out or a status that i'm out and about, maybe like twice a week thats it.) kind of shows that i have a life and i dont give away too much.

 

[bigneil]

Facebook is a great way to make new connections. If they give you their card or their name and tell you that they are on FB, then you can email them there. But never be their FB friend, even (especially) if you are in a LTR.

 

[tony-montana]

whats wrong with having your gf on facebook? many people do it.

 

[ArcBound]

having gf is alright, a girl you just met isn't. She's supposed to wonder about you, but when she logs on to your facebook and sees jack sh!t she sates her curiosity and moves on.

 

[xdreamz]

I don't get girls on facebook. I use it to socialize with close friends and meet attractive girls to practice game.

 

[tony-montana]

having gf is alright, a girl you just met isn't. She's supposed to wonder about you, but when she logs on to your facebook and sees jack sh!t she sates her curiosity and moves on.

you sure about that? i got a girl to add me before i even had a date with her and we are having our second date next weekend. have already made out too.

 

[Blusher]

I use Facebook to stay in touch with girls I just met. A lot easier than 12 numbers in your phone and not remembering who's who. Plus, I travel to different cities so it's also easier to say in touch between trips.

Same for LTRs when I met my gf, I added to FB. we had a date a couple of days later. Two years we're still together and having a blast.

So IMO, FB = great communication tool.

You just have to know how to use it wisely.