Giving free attention to girls

[AntoniousIV]

So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college. Gave me a lot we flirted, I got her ig. Texted for 2 hours I asked her out and told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys. (her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy, but i guess game is game)
Now she keeps texting me seeking attention. Im thinking maybe I should keep on texting cus she might monkey branch too me.
Also during lunch break we eat together which is social proof.

Any advice? How would you handle such a situation?

 

[zekko]

And women wonder why guys don't pick up their IOIs. Fact is, a lot of women just flirt for the fun of it, and have no intentions of it going anywhere. As men, we can't discern between who is serious and who is just playing around.

 

[Oatmeal31]

So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college. Gave me a lot we flirted, I got her ig. Texted for 2 hours I asked her out and told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys. (her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy, but i guess game is game)
Now she keeps texting me seeking attention. Im thinking maybe I should keep on texting cus she might monkey branch too me.
Also during lunch break we eat together which is social proof.

Any advice? How would you handle such a situation?

Sounds like she's flirting for fun, but has no intention of going further. I wouldn't bank on her, you'll end up frustrated. Focus on other girls.

Also, if you're college age, this is prime time. For the love of god, don't waste time on that when you're surrounded by so many more options. This is the best time for learning and exploring

 

[BaronOfHair]

Im thinking maybe I should keep on texting cus she might monkey branch too me... Any advice? How would you handle such a situation?

Stop being more desperate for a slice of poonany than a Mogadishu street kid is for a crust of bread. It's nonsense like this that REALLY takes a torrential wet sh-t on the public's perception of men, more so than even Logan Paul acting a fool on social media or all these Girl Boss products Hollywood pumps out

Chicks who are craving d-ck are spread across this planet by the billions, and Post-MeToo, the average person's thoughts of men are so uncharitable, folks(especially women)are bowled over when they encounter a guy who at least APPEARS to be putting time and effort into himself. In THAT sense, dating/mating today hasn't been this easy in decades. Relying on monkey branching is inexcusable

 

[New_Journey]

So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college.

Maybe not.

I got her ig.

Why?

Texted for 2 hours

Needy

told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys.

Translation, I would have fvcked you, but you are desperate like the other orbiters I have lol

her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy

Why? Are you old enough to be in this forum?

Im thinking maybe I should keep on texting cus she might monkey branch too me.

Maybe, but she would have left you anyways by the way you are acting with her in the present.

Also during lunch break we eat together which is social proof.

Lunch is for women, do date nights were drink are included.

Any advice? How would you handle such a situation?

Keep texting her, she may give you a shot if you are persistent enough.

 

[New_Journey]

As men, we can't discern between who is serious and who is just playing around.

No, this is a you problem. How about you assume everything is flirty like she wants to fvck you, but if she is not interested who cares? Its called Outcome Independence, she wants to fvck you but you don't care if it doesn't happen.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

As men, we can't discern between who is serious and who is just playing around.

Yes we do and it's called escalation. Seeing how they react to physical contact is often enough to suffice.

 

[zekko]

No, this is a you problem. How about you assume everything is flirty like she wants to fvck you, but if she is not interested who cares? Its called Outcome Independence, she wants to fvck you but you don't care if it doesn't happen.

Yes we do and it's called escalation. Seeing how they react to physical contact is often enough to suffice.

Okay, let's just say it is a common problem among men. Especially those who haven't been trained in PUA principles.
Anyway, I still say you can't tell her intentions from her initial movements.

 

[AntoniousIV]

Maybe, but she would have left you anyways by the way you are acting with her in the present.

How am I acting in the present?

Keep texting her, she may give you a shot if you are persistent enough.

I doubt she would, I was thinking the social proof would be more helpful.
Why is texting for 2hr desparate? When I text I usually ask her out too early without any rapport built.
Why is getting her ig bad? I dont get it

 

[Vanderdonck]

So I had one girl gimme fake iois in college. Gave me a lot we flirted, I got her ig. Texted for 2 hours I asked her out and told me that outta respect for her boyfriend she cant go out with guys. (her boyfriend is 5 years older, this is crazy, but i guess game is game)
Now she keeps texting me seeking attention. Im thinking maybe I should keep on texting cus she might monkey branch too me.
Also during lunch break we eat together which is social proof.

Any advice? How would you handle such a situation?

Just enjoy it but don't count on her for anything more. Do your own thing, be the center of your universe. No orbiting.

 

[crowolf]

Forget about her and don't text her. If she still craves you and seeks your attention, tell her straight "join me *here*, X day at Y pm" (for a date). If she doesn't comply, don't text her again. Any other than this would be a waste of time and energy.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Keep texting her, she may give you a shot if you are persistent enough.

Or when the batteries in her pocket rocket crap out in the middle of the night, and she's too horny to wait till morning

 

[RangerMIke]

And women wonder why guys don't pick up their IOIs. Fact is, a lot of women just flirt for the fun of it, and have no intentions of it going anywhere. As men, we can't discern between who is serious and who is just playing around.

Yep. The only way to do this is the try and make something happen. Try to make a date. You find out really fast who is and isn't interested. If she likes you she will make things easy... if not... well it's just playful flirting and a man should just ignore her and move on.

Always assume a woman is interested until, by her ACTIONS, she demonstrates she isn't. It is a man's job to try and make something happen, if he doesn't then a woman will just assume he isn't interested... or lacks the confidence to be successful.

 

[Clockwerk50]

What are you guys texting about?

You have to figure out if this woman brings any benefits to your life, and if so, whether you want to keep texting her, that decision is up to you. This is a good opportunity; see it as an exercise to be a man, make a decision, and own it. However, just like everything in life, it will eventually get boring if things aren’t progressing or staying in motion.

I don’t think she would monkey-branch to you, since if the guy she’s with is older, he likely has more access to resources than you do right now. Women usually don’t lower their dating standards unless they are in their post-wall era.

 

[AntoniousIV]

Forget about her and don't text her. If she still craves you and seeks your attention, tell her straight "join me *here*, X day at Y pm" (for a date). If she doesn't comply, don't text her again. Any other than this would be a waste of time and energy.

Why not text like a friend? Can men and girls be friends

 

[AntoniousIV]

What are you guys texting about?

You have to figure out if this woman brings any benefits to your life, and if so, whether you want to keep texting her, that decision is up to you. This is a good opportunity; see it as an exercise to be a man, make a decision, and own it. However, just like everything in life, it will eventually get boring if things aren’t progressing or staying in motion.

I don’t think she would monkey-branch to you, since if the guy she’s with is older, he likely has more access to resources than you do right now. Women usually don’t lower their dating standards unless they are in their post-wall era.

Just random stuff. Even if she doesnt monkeybranch I find it fun.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Flirting is fun. I guess it’s kind of unfortunate that it’s so ambiguous.