Give advice to the first time freshmen.

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Let's hear it.
 

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You gotta stab someone on the first day so others know not to fvck with you.
 

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Having just graduated, I have advice that I think would have helped me through my high school years.

As much as it may seems so right now, these people you meet in high school don't matter. Most of them you'll never see again once you leave, so don't worry about how other people view you. Have fun, work hard, and get the hell out.
 

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Haha...go rent "The New Guy". It somehow dances on the line between a waste of time and really entertaining
 

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Yeah man, take it from someone who is graduated as well.

9Th grade you will be a fukking homo regardless of what you do. It took some time for me to find my niche, my style etc etc.

Just mack on all the girls, even if you fail you will still be seen as the ultra pimp because all the other friends will still be AFC.

Dont worry about anything. I skipped so much school, got in so much trouble, got KICKED out of school junior year And still graduated on time with full credit. =)

And the other guy is right, after highschool chances are you wont be seeing many of those people again.
 

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Having just finished freshman year, I think I can give some good advice.

Don't settle down with a group. This is very important because one, you don't yet know who your true friends are and you'll be just like the 90% of people who are in a clique. Take your best friends (guy friends preferably) and take about 2 or 3 of them and wander around, and chill with different people.

Make sure people know that you are one of the top males in the grade. Act really confident (even if you aren't totally confident yet). Dress to impress. Get some good clothes, buy some jewelry and some good smellin cologne.

Concentrate on your grades as well. Make sure you are trying your hardest. Have your fun, but don't start slacking off this early, because you'll form a bad habit (slacking off is for senior year newayz.:D )
 

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Bieng confident is realy important, smile alot, dont pass-up and opertunities.
 

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Advice? Put the books first. In classes, participate but don't do it in a boring way. Joke a lot, talk to the teachers, talk to everyone. Be someone they like to be with. Enroll in extra curricular activities, because you'll get the opportunity to meet more people as well.

I advise very strongly not to get a girlfriend, especially if the school is co-ed. There are TOO many girls in highschool to be with one girl. Even if you hook up, most likely you won't last forever. Attend every dance and actually dance. Go to every party you can go to.

Do what it takes to succeed. Whatever works, do it. If you have to know a certain type of group to get into all the good dance parties, get in touch with them, so you have fun. And never go out of your way for people. Put the books first and don't procrastinate. People will look up to you if you can maintain at least decent grades and still be in all the wild places, all the good parties, know all the good people. And don't tie down to one clique, that just keeps you from knowing everybody. Hope this helps.
 

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This is real simple.

1. The only thing you should ever really give a fukk about is your grades. Even if you play sports. This is the only reason you endure high school. NOTHING ELSE IN HIGH SCHOOL WILL MATTER IN THE LONG RUN.

2. If you want to fukk the hot girls and your parents aren't rich. Play the following sports: football, basketball. Depending on where you live, baseball.

2a. If you don't play a sport and are just a "random" - which is all you will ever be as a frosh if you are not a) rich or b) a jock stud. Join a gym and start lifting immediately. (see my GUIDE TO BULKING UP or if you're a fat fukk, my GUIDE TO CUTTING UP in the H& F section).

3. EVERYTHING ELSE IN HIGH SCHOOL IS ABSOLUTE BULLSHYT. Don't ever forget this.

4. Anything that detracts from your focus towards grades or your physical development (this includes "troll" friends or girls ) should be discarded immediately. They won't be around when high school is over and their collateral damage will have been done.

5. Join clubs and extracurriculars attain leadership positions in those activities, get a job, and do occassional volunteer work.

Follow steps 1-5, and you can go pretty much anywhere you want after high school.

Hopefully you won't be a weak-minded fukk like the rest of the sheep you will be attending high school with and become just another average putz.
 

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Grades

Remember if there is anything that you really need to focus on it's your grades;) . And take care of yourself plus respect yourself, and everything will fall into place.


GOOD LUCK!
 

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Try not to become a SECOND time freshmen..
 

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Grades are number one. Making friends with the people older than you helps a lot. Make sure you mack on all the girls, dress nicely and be friendly to everyone. Get your name known around school for something, anything (grades/clothes/attitude/macking/etc). Be spontaneous, unpredictable, and fun loving. Go to all the parties, have a blast, and you are going to be set up for success your whole high school career. Don't do anything stupid like drink and drive, do hardcore drugs, impregnate anyone and you'll be straight :D
 

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Originally posted by K56Connect
You gotta stab someone on the first day so others know not to fvck with you.
AHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA:D :D :D
 

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Read my thread:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34863

I feel that every newcoming HS student should at least take a look at it.

One thing that I note about freshmen is that there seems to be two major groups: the kids that think they are hot sh1t and the ones that are afraid of everything. When I came into HS, I was in the latter group. I thought that the seniors were so intimidating and scary. The kids that thought they were hot sh1t got put in check almost instantly.

Re the girls: Freshmen year is by far the worst for you. Going to JHS for girls will get you laughed out of the room. Same goes for trying to pursue an older chick. Older chicks can be with you but its not that common. Freshmen girls will quickly get snatched up by the upperclassmen so make your moves ASAP. Its possible to get freshmen girls but its tough. Your DJ skills need to be as sharp as a tack, especially if there is that letter jacket wearing junior or senior looking interested in her as well.
 

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The things that I am even now regretting having just got through my freshman year and found this site:

A. GO to every activity you can you will regret it later when you find out you where the only guy at home.

B. Have fun in class at the begining of the year i read through the whole class and didnt have any fun. After i found lesser dating advice site the 4 th six weeks of school I tried to be more outgoing and such and actually loved going to most of my classes because i had fun just talking to the girls and poking fun at my teachers.

C. Take classes that you just wont skim through. I tend to be able to just listen in most regular classes and make an A no problem at all. When I took these classes i didnt participate i didnt try and i was bored out of my mind
 

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Originally posted by es_mer8
Read my thread:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34863

I feel that every newcoming HS student should at least take a look at it.

One thing that I note about freshmen is that there seems to be two major groups: the kids that think they are hot sh1t and the ones that are afraid of everything. When I came into HS, I was in the latter group. I thought that the seniors were so intimidating and scary. The kids that thought they were hot sh1t got put in check almost instantly.

Re the girls: Freshmen year is by far the worst for you. Going to JHS for girls will get you laughed out of the room. Same goes for trying to pursue an older chick. Older chicks can be with you but its not that common. Freshmen girls will quickly get snatched up by the upperclassmen so make your moves ASAP. Its possible to get freshmen girls but its tough. Your DJ skills need to be as sharp as a tack, especially if there is that letter jacket wearing junior or senior looking interested in her as well.
OMG, you made me remember how horrible it was freshman year to try and get girls. I resorted to dating 8th graders, as did most of my peers. Boys, if you want to get a girl your age, you better make your moves EXTREMELY QUICK!
 

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Originally posted by TheSplat
OMG, you made me remember how horrible it was freshman year to try and get girls. I resorted to dating 8th graders, as did most of my peers. Boys, if you want to get a girl your age, you better make your moves EXTREMELY QUICK!
LOL, my point exactly. Freshmen girls also want to go for the older guys to get status. Seniors when I was a freshmen were both feared and respected by me and my peers. So if a girl were to be dating one of these "feared and respected", they would be elevated from the rest of the freshmen.

Of course seniors made fun of those that tried to pursue freshmen girls but a lot of this was because there was no challenge to get them. 99% of attractive freshmen girls will drop their freshmen boyfriend to be with a senior varsity linebacker. Its really tough. The way I see it is that the best year for women is to be a junior. If you try to hook up with freshmen, you don't get the bad rep with it. Most girls junior age now start on their own because their senior boyfriends are now in college and dropped them to go bang the college girls there. Some still go to senior guys but there are two classes of girls for one class of guys. A lot to choose from but anyway...

Junior year is the best for getting women by far. You have access to everyone without you or the girl getting a bad rep.
 

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Man.... walk in that school f.u.c.k.i.n.g fearless! Here's something I learn be beening on this board awhile and reading posts. People that has problems in High School, are the people who most likely doubt theirselfs, scared to talk to people, not happy at all, etc. I mean, walk in that motherfu.cker fearless yo.
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I'm a freshmen too, so there's nothing to worry about. \If you're cool wit people their cool wit you, be nice.
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I mean when I went to oritentation, i was quite as a church mouse, until people talked to me. I had 3 girls come up to me, and ask was I single. So I know if I got girls coming to me already, september 3, I'ma grab all the females.
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And this is true, the marjority of the people who have problems in high scool, mostly likely feared something before getting there.
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Another thing is on the first day, if you don't know anyone there, atleast find ONE friend. You don't want to sit a lunch by yourself. Having a friend works wonders. If your friend make other friends, then most likely you'll know more people, vice versa.
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Oh, and about showers, **** it man. Take one, you don't want females turning their heads once they smell you coming. hahaha. Take showers, don't be ashame of your size, cause most likely, their always some in that locker room, bigger, and smaller than you.
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And dress nice. You know take care of your self, everyday. wash up, take showers int he morning, use deordrant, brush your teeth, becuase if you don't you will get talked about.
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Never let a high school girl bring you hopes down, if they don't wanna go out, **** it, get another girl.....
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Hope I help.
 

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Good grades...make AS MANY FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE. After this year...its hard you know.
 
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