Girls with "boyfriends"

Sneevox

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Okay, so this question is simple:
Is a girl with a "boyfriend" an automatic no? I've pursued multiple girls with boyfriends and it has ended up.. badly. Maybe it's just my approach. I mean, I used to be their emotional tampon, but now I just act like I already have them in my grasps.. because I basically do.

I guess the REAL question here is "At what point can I tell if she is willing to let me steal her, and how do I go about doing that?"
 

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if you do not mind dealing with any drama that someone with a boyfriend may/may not bring into your life, then go for it.
 

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Are there not plenty of single girls you can game?

Why bother with the girlfriend stealing?

Is this an entitlement thing? Do you get some rush out of this?
 

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I bet you're the type of guy that will go around his head to scratch his ass. why go to all the trouble when there are MUCH easier ways...like going after single girls. sure even some of the single ones "have" boyfriends, but you're really battling an uphill climb here going after girls you KNOW have boyfriends.
 

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If she's not interested then she has a boyfriend: whether or not he really exists doesn't matter.
If she's interested then she'll consider you as a replacement for when she tires of her boyfriend.
If she's really interested then she'll forget that she has a boyfriend, just don't act surprised if she then forgets you when the next dude comes along.
 

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If she finds you attractive, she's single and if she finds you unattractive, she's got a boyfriend or is happily married! :trouble:

Case dismissed.
 

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Sneevox said:
I guess the REAL question here is "At what point can I tell if she is willing to let me steal her, and how do I go about doing that?"
This form of thinking comes from waiting for the perfect moment. You will never be able to tell if or when she is going to be willing to be stolen.
You must assume that she likes you and make your move.

Sometimes you'll be wrong, but you know what? Sometimes you wil be right.

A man does not wait for his moment, he creates it.
 

Sneevox

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Robert28 said:
I bet you're the type of guy that will go around his head to scratch his ass. why go to all the trouble when there are MUCH easier ways...like going after single girls. sure even some of the single ones "have" boyfriends, but you're really battling an uphill climb here going after girls you KNOW have boyfriends.
I thought this forum was for helping, not insulting.
Thanks anyways.
 

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r0cky said:
This form of thinking comes from waiting for the perfect moment. You will never be able to tell if or when she is going to be willing to be stolen.
You must assume that she likes you and make your move.

Sometimes you'll be wrong, but you know what? Sometimes you wil be right.

A man does not wait for his moment, he creates it.
Thank you. That's helped me.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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