Girls with boyfriends. Nothing to lose.

[ryoshi]

Here's something that I've found to be a good way to maximize fortune from an unfortunate situation.

If a girl has a boyfriend, I've found that getting her number can be hard and can be fruitless. If you do get her number, you risk having the boyfriend answer and be pissed. Also, she likely doesn't want to date you.

I've learned that most true DJs rarely give out their number but only take the girl's number.

In this case, it can be an exception. I was out tonight and was getting along great with these two girls that had boyfriends with them. I made it seem like I was having a great time hanging out with them and meeting their boyfriends. They are about to get up to fetch some cigarettes so I slip one of them my phone number so we can hang out some time. The girls seemed more interested in me then they would a regular friend.

(Note: Only do this if you seem to notice a decent IL)

Even if she doesn't call, who cares. If she does call, it will most likely be because she wants to "hang out privately" with you. If she calls you, she's interested and you can get her number and it shows that you respect her relationship but also gives her an avenue out if she wants to have something more with you. Either way, you lose nothing by giving your phone number to her and it increases your odds where before you had no odds not exchanging any numbers.


Another thing I thought of in these cases is to refer to fate. For example, if she says, "you're so cool, you know that I have a boyfriend and you still like me." (or some other bull) You respond by saying, "I respect your relationship. I'm a person who lets FATE decide what happens between me and a girl." By saying this, you get her in a fantasy mindset and helps keep you out of the dreaded friend zone by suggesting that whatever happens between you to is up to her and you are open to it.

Getting a girl with a boyfriend to dig you is a 100% bonus for you. This was a girl that you would have otherwise nexted but you end up "buying your booty lottery tickets" with these techniques so anything that happens between you and her are extra credit. This is a situation where you have nothing to lose.

Any comments or sharing of similar stories are anticipated.

 

[tiburon]

you lack manhood

I think your morals are down the floor and you are a lack of a man for going after girls with BF. Look at you trying to feel like a pimp for stealing a boy's girl...like i have said before....you will be saving hi from marrying a slut if she actually leaves him for your a$$ and remmeber what goes around comes around..keep it up..but a true DJ doesnt need to act big shot infornt of gilrs with BF to get pvssy..

What goes around comes around...

Tiburon..grow up and be a man

 

[ryoshi]

Re: you lack manhood

Originally posted by tiburon
I think your morals are down the floor and you are a lack of a man for going after girls with BF.

Hmm. Sounds like you've had a girlfriend stolen from you before.

You could see it like that. Although, you'll notice that I didn't mention doing the "boyfriend destroyers" as most would. You leave all of the decision up to her. You'll also realize that not all interactions with the girls have to be long term relationships so trusting her or not trusting her isn't really an issue.

I understand your point. However, there are a lot of girls that are very unhappy in their relationships and want a way out. They aren't willing to make that "leap of faith" from one man to another so they must use a bridge to get out. If you are the one that helps her out of this bad relationship (which it must be if she's seeking you out) then wouldn't you instead be doing this girl good?

I don't want to argue my morals with you but I will say that if a girl is happy with her man you won't have a chance. "Stealing" the girl from the boyfriend can be wrong but offering yourself as a recipient of a women wanting to be free is not. It depends on how you see it I guess.

 

[tiburon]

you are wrong

I agree if the girl loves her man and it is not a slut you dont have a chance....but are you a superhero saving all this woman..LOL thats the funniest thing i have heard today. Man realize a woman that goes from man to man has no integrity at all...and if she is unhappy she should be a decent woman and brake it off and not just find you ..MR REPLACEMENT..do you think thats a cool title...

tHink about that..not quite a DJ's title is it ...

Tiburon

 

[ryoshi]

Re: you are wrong

Originally posted by tiburon
but are you a superhero saving all this woman..LOL thats the funniest thing i have heard today.

I never said I was a superhero. Although, that would be a swell title. I would just need a supernatural power or else I would just be a fly dude in spandex.

I've seen from other posts you've made on the subject that you've obviously been hurt before from guys stealing your woman so I'm not going to argue with you because it could quickly turn into a flame war that nobody wants.

Good luck my brutha.

 

[tiburon]

No actually you are wrong again

LOL i have yet to meet a guy who could take a woman away from me..
but i still find it wrong and low..

Tiburon A TRUE DJ

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Re: No actually you are wrong again

Originally posted by tiburon
LOL i have yet to meet a guy who could take a woman away from me..
but i still find it wrong and low..

Tiburon A TRUE DJ

True DJ??

All I've seen from you are bitter woman hating posts (e.g. the Alaskan Cruise thread) and stuff like this - needless to say, I disagree with you on this one too.

If a DJ immediately stops talking to every girl who says she has a BF then he's reducing the numbers of women he talks to by about 95%... fsck that, get out there and try your case - they're not married.

Osc.

 

[tiburon]

Maybe you...

may be you OScar but all the phone number in my night stand are from single woman and i have plenty. Second i refer to BF as someone she is serious with...not just dating for a month....With me things fall into two category ..fbuddy or exclusive relationship...not in between... but thats me...

Also i dont hate woman, i love woman ....but i know there are different type of women in this world..i fvck hoes for my hunger and i love their beauty and sex and games ....but you can never compare that to the integrity, inner beuty of decent woman...thats WOMAN..and that you really love.

I am not biiter at woman i just hate seen some fellow man getting played by little sluts who are a bit to smart for them and i tell the they could do alot better and how to recognize who they are dealing with..and take them for what they are.

Finally maybe the problem is that when i approached a woman i ask her for her # and not her personal profile. If she has a BF or not thats her deal..she fvcks me and has a bf and i didnt know ..then she is a slut and my new fbuddy..but what i am referring to is knowing way before hand that she is with a man and going after her. NOT KIND OF THE MAN THING TO DO !

Also i would fvck a slut with a bf i have no idea who he is and she wants to fvck me...but i would never fvck the woman of another man who i have exchanged words , or shaken hands...Ill ask her to first brake it off if she wants and then ill fvck her as fbuddies all she wants.

Tiburon

 

[Avsguy01]

I agree with ryoshi. Great job as you have just boosted your opportunities.

 

[echo1212]

I've dealt with this subject before, but in this case I feel like I need to go over it one more time. Guys, GET. YOUR. OWN. WOMEN. Since when is it cool to meet anothers guys girl, maybe even meet the guys themselves and hang out with them, then try and steal them away and bang them? When? Put yourself in the other guys shoes. Would you like some punk slipping your girl his number and trying to set something up with them? Of coarse not. So why do it to another guy. There are sooooooooo many single, available women out there that to go after another guys girl is imo very hard to pull off and not worth the time and effort for the resulting payoff. Not to mention disrespectful. Plus, as was previously pointed out, once a ho, always a ho, if she'll cheat on him, shell cheat on you.

 

[DankNuggs]

Re: you lack manhood

Originally posted by tiburon
I think your morals are down the floor and you are a lack of a man for going after girls with BF. Look at you trying to feel like a pimp for stealing a boy's girl...like i have said before....you will be saving hi from marrying a slut if she actually leaves him for your a$$ and remmeber what goes around comes around..keep it up..but a true DJ doesnt need to act big shot infornt of gilrs with BF to get pvssy..

What goes around comes around...

Tiburon..grow up and be a man

Your an AFC tiburon, its not some random guys responsibility to be faithful to the girls boyfriend...Its the girl, and its totally her initiative to call or not, to slap skin, or not. You and your nice guy tendencies will once again bite you in the rear...He may end up hanging out and being good friends with this girl...Who knows, but don't treat girls w/bf like they have ebola...Hell, girls love the ego boost they get from guys when they know they have a BF anyways,,,

 

[Bonhomme]

Women often jump ship

I've noticed that often women have their next boyfriend picked out before they dump their last one.

Some people have a very hard time being single.

Giving her your # makes sense in this case. Let her make the break if she wants to jump ship, and keep in mind the same thing will probably happen to you down the line.

*************

I had a weird situation in that a gal who has a BF, but is really hot for me was all over me at a recent concert. I was even thinking they broke up, until she made references to him in the conversation (one of which mentioned them having a fight, by the way). If she breaks up with him and I'm available, I expect I'll have a bit of fun with this chick.

 

[Click Here]

I lost my girl to another guy, everyone does havent you seen that post good girls do cheat? They latch onto another one before they leave there current. Even tho ive went through all the pain of losing a girl to another guy, id reccomend trying it. Just cause she left him, doesnt mean she won't loose you, look at it this way, try to get her so attracted to you that shell DITCH him instead of cheat on him. GL hf.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Re: No actually you are wrong again

Originally posted by tiburon
Tiburon A TRUE DJ

If you have to sign your name this way, you probably aren't. It would be like signing your name "John Smith -- Who has a HUGE C0CK!" If you have to specify it, it probably ain't true.

 

[Monkey]

Re: Women often jump ship

Originally posted by Bonhomme
I've noticed that often women have their next boyfriend picked out before they dump their last one.

This is so true.

MOST women simply cannot and do not want to be single. They don't know how to be, the very thought of not having a man in their lives makes them terrified.

I don't agree that stealing a girl from her bf is the way to go but you can never really steal her away anyhow, she has to let herself be stolen.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

There is only one thing nobody mentioned on this bullentin. If it's some random guy that slept with my gf, then i'd kick her to the curb and move on. She's just a *****.

But if it's with some guy who became "friends" with her, then hung out with me a few times and pretended to be my friend too, then that's when things change.

I'd still kick the girl to the curb and move on, but believe me, this guy who pretended to be friends with me, he wouldn't be able to walk again, i promise you that. And i know guys who would do a lot worse then I.

Don't pretend to be buddies with some guy if your after his gf, cause in the long run, your bound to get your ass beat. Because remember, you ****ed his girl and she ****ed you, so don't be surprised if one day he is the one who surprises you.

I've never had something like this happen, but i've met some of my gfs male friends and this one guy even pretended to try and become friends with me, even though it was only over the phone.

I knew he just wanted to **** my gf, but she claimed she didnt think so. I discussed this with her, and she said she'd never hang out with him, just spoke to him on the phone.

So a few weeks later this dude calls up and they speak and he wants to hang out with her. She tells him that she'll only hang out with him if she can bring her BF along(me).

he refused, making up some excuse, that he doesn't like meeting new people.

A few weeks later he called back asking her again, but this time, he said, he'd hang with me and he asked to talk to me on the phone.

We spoke and he did not like me at all because i called him on why he wanted to hang with my gf alone. And he went on with his bull**** story. And i just told him he's full of ****.

After that, he never called again, and i told my gf if she remains friends with him, I'll just start hanging out at different places and start new friendships with random chics.

She got pissed and that was that. This guy was her friend before we started going out, "more then friends" and i guess he assumed he'd keep that status. His mistake.

Maybe if she still lived closer to him, he lives like 3 hours away, things would have been different. BUt then in that case, i would have kicked her to the curb, but she's proved that she was there for me and wouldn't do certain things like that, because i'd do the same back to her, and she'd hate that. And it's been like 3 years now and we're still together and doing well, so that initial thing many years ago, has faded from memory.

But back to the measely point, I really don't like guys who try and pretend to become buds with you and then **** your girl behind your back.

As i said before, many guys try and do this, just don't be surprised if your friend one day shows up at your doorstep with a bat in his hand or worse, like some kid i knew, a gun.

I'm not sure where most of the people on this board come from, but I've known a few guys who got their asses shot or worse because they went and ****ed some other guys gf.

Unless you travel the world and are never in one place that long, word travels.

 

[Click Here]

Pretty powerful post EADY.

That's very true, when you **** with ppls girls you pluck there emotions, you don't know what could be going on in his life. What if he just lost his job, got diagnosed with a tumor and now he find out you ****ed his girl? He could snap.

You might be saying "Oh he wont know where i live". That gun is pretty persuasive on that *****es head and im sure he wouldnt have to much trouble finding out.

I've been mad enough to probably kill someone over a girl before, that's why i dont own a gun.

 

[echo1212]

Exactly, why go through all of this drama just to bang some girl when there are many many out there unattachted. Makes no sense. I hate drama. Too stressfull. Never know when some upset guy will come after you for getting after his woman. Not worth it just for this fact alone plus all the reasons I mentioned earlier.

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

How about when the female has a boyfriend, get your number, you two go out, but she doesn't tell you while at the same time kicking with you both....he founds out and come after you.

The case happens a lot more than everyone knows.......just check your local section in the newspaper every month.

If you do this fellas, be careful. Research and investigate this person your with to the fullest. If they try to throw up the trust issue then maybe they have something to hid.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

All very true.. And even though it's only a movie, that movie with richard gere and diane lane, Unfaitful, i think it's called.


True it's a movie, but if you saw it, you know what i'm talking about.

It doesn't always take some thug or some streroid looking NFL linebacker to lose his cool. If the girl is in a serious relationship, you better watch your back. Because you never really know. People snap.

And it's always funny the guys who think they are the toughest, the guys who say they don't give a crap, the guys who think the world should worship them, and so on are the first guys pleading for their lives.

Hey everybody probably slept with some girl who you later found out has a BF, things happen, move on.

But, like this post started saying, the guy knows the girl has a bf, the guy even hung out with the BF. If you know the girl is in a relationship, why even bother.

THere are way too many girls in the world to bother with some girl who is already taken.

And many girls just like to make their boyfriends jealous, or maybe they were mad at them for not taking out the trash, etc.

Just watch your back, cause you never know.