Girls who use "The Rules"

[Don Juanabbe]

You know what? Normally, I would say f*ck this sh*t. But I think you should remain emotionally detached, and use this ch*ck as your lab rat to see how far your DJ skills are progressing. You absolutely MUST get stuff going with other girls and use this sh*t solely as practice. It's too tempting not to. Be absolutely RUTHLESS. You should ask her out and then FLAKE on her.

Paint it up like you're going to wine and dine her bigtime and then FLAKE, like, a couple hours before showtime, go out with your buddies and get some beers down your throat.

Man, I love this sh*t. I'm getting addicted to this game! F*ck having emotionis. I was raised by my mother and lived with her and my sister. I was almost effeminate with my outlook on things......but no more!!

 

[frivolousz21]

do this: tell her this



Why dont you take two balls, put them in a sack magically sprout a **** and go **** urself!


yeah! guy wins!

 

[Alen-Delon]

dude i totaly disagree with most of these guys, first off you dont know if its real her or shes playing a game so dont assume so fast, second most of these guys here go by the rules and live by them too, so what. ask your self this do you like this girl, how far are you willing to go, to hook up with her. I personaly love when girls give me challenge, the girl i am seeign right now is with principals and she by no means uses any rule book its just what she is, and it makes our realtionship spicy as hell. well only advice i can give you is get to know the girl and dont be afaraid to do things that you may think make her change her mind or do whatever, because its only you assuming what really is happening you can only guess.

Peace

 

[frivolousz21]

i agree.....!

i was just having fun with it.

but if she is playing games..play back and stay de attached...if u cant stay de attached..meet a new one!

 

[diplomatic_lie]

The best thing to do is go on with your life as usual.

If she plays games...go along as if she wasn't. If she doesn't call, assume she doesn't give a rats ass about you, and don't call her.

The only way to deal with a rules girl is to ignore her rules. Eventually she will realise its not working, and you'll either be rid of a stupid girl, or else she'll give up.

People who play by the rules are dull, predictable, and ironically will never win.

 

[ak5]

why dont you start doing what she does even earlier

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Those are those heathen Female-players..a total abomination and most of them are quasi-dikes.

Man-ish women gets no love from tha realnezz.I fook 'em and dump 'em with extreme prejuidice.

 

[Xandaman]

ditto

I was just about to post a new thread about the exact same problem. I've been seeing this girl for 2.5 months now and I have no idea if she reads these "rules" but she sure as hell knows them. I know she wants things to go somewhere further because she has handed me her V-card, and has hinted about doing it again for about a month. there has been incidents where I found out from a mutual friend that she was in tears because I was being too distant and paying too much attention to other girls, but I do this simply because every time that its ME making a move forward, she starts playing hard to get. I think I am still on top of the game and I am willing to keep it going just to see what happens. She is a just short of a master tho, Ive never seen anything like it. She is even becoming better friends with my ex-best-dude-friend who now hates my guts and is hitting on her every day. BAD SITUATION. In a month she will be going to a Billy Talent concert with him that he bought tickets for her for. Im not sure on whether I should be mad at her for something like this or bring on the I dont give a **** what you do. Also, when the hell does the stale-mate end? has anybody broken a stale-mate like this out there and gained control? I take this as an ultimate test of my skills.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Yes ,you should be mad i wouldn't **** with her.

 

[Player_Supreme]

this is what I think of girls who follow the rules:

http://www.villagephotos.com/viewimage.asp?id_=9956307

cut and paste if it doesn't come up.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

lol ...man..

 

[Omega]

Ok, who bumped this

 

[S0LID]

"you may find yourself wondering if he is interested in you romantically. How can you know for sure? If he's never asked you out, then he's not interested!"

Thats sound advise!

"On all nonbusiness e-mails, responding once for every four of his e-mails is a good rule of thumb."

Enjoy your AFC. I guess women want to marry AFC's as their older though?

"Man pursues woman."

Good tip

"If you've followed The Rules, your man probably loves you and wants to marry you. Your problem is not if he marries you, but when! If it's been more than a year, see less of him and think about dating others. You've already spent more than a year waiting for him to propose; do you have another year to wait?"

Enjoy ya divorse!

 

[KillingTime]

lol so a DJ gets a taste of his own medicine basically? Let's face it, confidence this and confidence that.... there's a ton of guys here playing by a major set of rules, even if they don't realize it.
I had always wondered... if there's info like this for guys, there's gotta be some for girls.... I mean it's all based on nature's laws (ie. women go for strong, confident men) and those work both ways.

I suppose it only works if either the male or the female in the relationship plays the game.... can't have BOTH wearing the pants in the relationship.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

women who use The Rules are rampant in the early to mid thirties age bracket. that's who that shiat was designed for. my sister, who's actually a catch, was following the rules, and went to Rules Parties, until i explained to her that the subtitle of the book should be:

HOW TO MARRY A LOSER!

my logic, which took her quite a while to understand, was that any guy who kept chasing you as the authors suggest is the type of guy you don't want--a pathetic, wimpy, chump boy, who has no other options. one of the rules is something like he emails you four times for every one of yours! uh, NEXT.

i have come across many chicks that i suspect are following the Rules. when i'm about to NEXT them, i'll ask them if they are Rules chicks. i just tell them "i don't play by those rules. c-ya." half of the time, they give in. chicks are totally weak when they dig you.

remember, The Rules is designed to get a husband. the intent is for the woman to control the relationship, beginning to end. we all know that those relationships WON'T work, unless you are AFC for life.

but Rules chicks are pretty fun to mess with. especially if you know they're in to you.

ANTI-DUMP is absolutely right. if a man and a woman each are deploying a strategy, you will likely stalement. however, if you two dig each other, one will drop the strategy. just make sure it's HER!

ANTI-DUMP's posts are The Rules for MEN! most of them are pretty solid, but some are a little extreme (demanding an aids test?).

 

[NRM]

If she is using the rules on you, don't reward her by calling her, don't reward her by still taking her out on dates. If she eventually asks you about it, tell her that you took it as if she wasn't interested in spending time. All you are doing by calling her when she doesn't call you and letting her get away with ending things when they get interesting is rewarding her with your time and letting her think it's all working out.

 

[Player_Supreme]

http://www.hoslap.net

Every man should read that book. So you know what your dealing with and how to just reverse it.

Don't call her.

Don't let her have your number unless she gives up her's.

All the way down the line.

Don Ronny just posted about not taking em out. He is reversing the game and getting good results.

Women becoming enthralled with him.

I wish I could find this in a ebook so I could post it at pimphop.