Girls who postpone sex are bad at it

[Zarky]

I've realized--and this is just my own experience--that women who want to "wait" to have sex, especially at or around my age (30s-40s), are simply bad at it.

Latest girl I started dating. She's 31. Average looking, cute face, meh body. Wanted to wait to have sex, so I dumped her. She emailed me back 2 weeks later and suggested we get together. We went out then went back to her place and had sex. I guess something I did convinced her to get on board.

Anyway, that's all great, but she was AWFUL in bed. She was totally ... unkempt ... 'down there' and had no moves whatsoever. I enjoy playing tennis with her and might keep her around because nobody I know plays tennis and I love the sport. But I do not want to have sex with her.

So now when we get together she's all suggesting we go back to her place and I'm like,..."uhhh got lots of work to do tonight." Funny as hell.

My question: has any guy "waited" for a girl and then when you two had sex it was great? Like she was awesome and had mad skillz?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Well... you could always manhandle her a little bit. Show her who's boss and then tell her what to do.

 

[Adonis PUA Trainer]

Tell her to shave

 

[Falcon25]

You were with a bush pig. How was the odor?

 

[Zarky]

Funny you should ask, because she smelled awful. Just awful. I've smelled a lot of chicks down there and this was just way different and weird. Can't even describe it, not even a p*ssy smell really, it was terrible. I generally don't like discussing stuff like this, but it was so bad it was remarkable.

Anyway, I kinda broke up with her today. We went for a hike and a drink and I told her some BS about not wanting a rel'p right now. Probably would have been better to tell her all the things that turned me off but, really, who wants to sit there and look someone in the eye and tell her all that? I just couldn't do it, felt terrible enough already. I hate breaking up with chicks, which is why I usually just act distant and aloof until they break it off with me.

Bad bad bad, but it's over so that's a relief.

 

[Falcon25]

This is a bush pig, a woman who thinks her pusvy is gold, so she rarely has sex. She doesn't maintain down there because she believes that it is like roses. What you smelled will now live with you for the rest of your life. That smell is similar to cadavers. Stay away. I would tell her that her shivt smells so that she can at least save the other guy from mental and physical anguish.

 

[Zarky]

This is a bush pig, a woman who thinks her pusvy is gold, so she rarely has sex. She doesn't maintain down there because she believes that it is like roses. What you smelled will now live with you for the rest of your life. That smell is similar to cadavers. Stay away. I would tell her that her shivt smells so that she can at least save the other guy from mental and physical anguish.

I'm laughing right now but I'm crying too because you just described exactly what I encountered. She actually had a mean "happy trail" going up her belly. It was terrifying. :nervous: And it's true that she hadn't had sex in a long time. Should have just given her thumbs when she restarted the rel'p after the first time. If it starts out bad it's gonna end bad, I tell guys that a lot and it's not always easy to follow.

thx for your replies.

 

[WaterTiger]

SHE contacted YOU...knowing what was coming later on...and did NOTHING to prepare? NAAAAAASTY!

 

[zekko]

I enjoy playing tennis with her and might keep her around because nobody I know plays tennis and I love the sport. But I do not want to have sex with her.

See? Be careful what you wish for. You could have just kept her as a tennis partner but you just had to have sex with her.

 

[DanelMadr]

My experiences:

Girls post pone it mainly for several reasons, often combined, twisted....girls :

They see you as future husband. So they don't want to appear slwtty.

They don't want to get burned-you making a notch and leaving. So they post pone....guys with low IL won't last.

They want to get rid of the fat before you see them naked.

I'd say it is our job to help them overcome these "obstacles".

Girls who do not post pone are probably better at it in a technical way...because generally speaking they do it more often and they are not so self conscious.

From my experience however...ONS = worst sex ever.

 

[Doc Dogg]

LOL, I hate an unkempt bush, it makes me feel like I am in a 70's porno. I keep my pubes trimmed to an acceptable length, so I expect a girl to do the same (I've even thrown a girl in the shower and shaved her for foreplay).

There are no tell tale signs for a girl who is a dud root, I've had girls give it up in the first few dates that have been BAD...One girl was stunning HB9, good job, active social life, etc. I gamed her like a pro and 3rd date had her in bed. She had a Brazilian, so I thought I was onto a keeper till I threw it in her and experienced no resistance...I could have driven a truck up there that ***** was so wide. I had to hit it from an angle just to hit the side and she refused to move, she just kept saying it was the man's job. Even doggie was bad, she just went all floppy and I kept driving her head into the wall with each thrust. She didn't get another date...

 

[imarockstar]

"SHE DIDNT GET ANOTHER DATE" LMAO! yeah the girl im talking to right now is giving me the same line. weve fooled around, a little drunken mutual masturbation. shes well groomed below the waist so thats a plus. weve done some dry humping and she seems like shes got some moves. a friend of mine knew her in school and shes had 2 LTR through high school until now (shes 21). she may just not be a slvt, but i think she will be a good fvck. shes just extremely attracted to me and i dont think she wants me to leave too soon.

on the other hand, this girl at work was a ONS. shes super hot, has a slammin body, and has gotten around from what i hear. she was the best sex i ever had. she could be a pornstar no lie. im callin her later now that im thinking about it.

the girl i lost my virginity to i dated for 4 years. she made me wait 3 months! i was nervous about it so she pretty much had to bring it up. she was ok at first, but the longer we dated the better we both got at it. sometimes the girl just needs you to bring out the sexual animal within her.

but yeah just from these few extremes, its really up to chance. just because a girl makes you wait doesnt necessarily mean shes bad at it, you just had a bad experience.