I'm not sure if any of you have experienced this, but say you neghit/tease a girl you know and she hits you playfully. That's cool, right? However, how would you take it if a girl takes it too far, hits you with all her might or keeps pounding you? I'm a big guy, so they probably don't expect to hurt me and they do it playfully, yet they really put force into their punches to the point where they echo or the girls even hurt their hands (what can I say, I'm like a rock )!
They're attractive girls, I like them as friends, but I'm with someone and not interested in pursuing them. I continue teasing them, hitting them (lightly) back and playfighting, but I do wonder if their aggression is a sign of attraction or sexual play. My ex girlfriend used to do the same thing and I don't want to lead them on by playing along with it if it's more than just messing around. I've already lead one of these girls on and hurt her, so I'm not sure this is appropriate.
They're attractive girls, I like them as friends, but I'm with someone and not interested in pursuing them. I continue teasing them, hitting them (lightly) back and playfighting, but I do wonder if their aggression is a sign of attraction or sexual play. My ex girlfriend used to do the same thing and I don't want to lead them on by playing along with it if it's more than just messing around. I've already lead one of these girls on and hurt her, so I'm not sure this is appropriate.