girls who give it up the first night - good game or bad news?

[muscleman]

This year I've had a bit of a DJ revalation. My game has improved a thousand fold, though it's still in the beginning stages. At any rate, earlier this year I had a couple dates almost back to back where I was able to meet a girl for the first time in person, game her (funny, kino, escalate) at a movie theater, and take her home for sex the first night. No booze involved. I thought I was the sh!t. But now I'm having second thoughts. Why?

Well,

-1 of the girls was fun to date but it was purely sexual. She even told me pretty much up front she wasn't the only person I was seeing and that she wasn't serious with anyone else at the moment, just casually dating. I stopped seeing because of a) logistical reasons and b) this girl:

-the other girl asked me if we were being exclusive and I agreed to it and gave up girl #1. we're still together and it's driving me slightly insane: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122823


So I guess my question is (for anyone who's laid enough girls the first time seeing them, or in general), are girls who give it up the first night bad news (whether alcohol is involved or not)? Does a quality woman ever do it? In the heat of the moment it seems it would be extremely hard to say no (at least it is for me and any guy I imagine).

 

[The Sperminator]

Very bad news. I don't care how good of game you have if she gives it up the first night thats a good sign that shes messing with a lot of other guys. If you just want to have fun thats cool but if you want something serious with her forget it. These are the girls that are a lot more likely to cheat on you or break up with you when they find someone better. Then again not always true bc I had a friend who slept with his gf the first night and they have been together for over a year so not always true but I wouldn't risk it.

 

[Obsidian]

a girl who sexes you on the first night = a hor

Don't get emotional with a hor.

 

[ryannath]

Obsidian, you are kinda sounding like LMS with the "hor" reference, but it's true. Every girl I have got some from the first night are nothing but hors that like to fvck around.

 

[Last Man Standing]

a girl who sexes you on the first night = a hor

Don't get emotional with a hor.

Muscleman, does this really need to be said? Hors like these are not only hors - I put them in a special category - "Giga-Hor"!!

 

[Adrian]

Muscleman, does this really need to be said? Hors like these are not only hors - I put them in a special category - "Giga-Hor"!!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Jay Jay]

I disagree with the other guys comments.

I generally don't have issues with LMR thus I usually have sex after very short periods of time.

In my experience how quickly a girl gives it up doesn't mean ****.


JJ.

 

[Rebound Material]

Chick that gives it up the first night = low quality easy breezy beautiful(maybe) color girl.

Sure, she might be good in bed, but you gotta question her fcukin morals. 99% of the time, she isnt a keeper buddy.

 

[Last Man Standing]

I generally don't have issues with LMR thus I usually have sex after very short periods of time.

In my experience how quickly a girl gives it up doesn't mean ****.


JJ.

To you it means nothing but for a female it is a different mental/emotional experience as I explained in the Natural Order of Things!! Men do not stray from their masculine natures when we pursue and conquer the female since we are genetically designed to do such; however, the female is NOT genetically inclined to give herself to a man who is not to remain for the long haul to take care of the fruit she bears!!! Hors do this for pleasure and go outside their nature -- thus the chaos we have today with hor babies running amok with no fatherly guidance -- pimps are not fathers - rightfully so!!!!

With bastard pimp children, the burden solely falls on the mother to raise the child and because the child does not receive the complementary male/female balance society then slowly disintegrates without the man at the helm!!!!

 

[NSUballer]

Well ask yourself this question. How many guys do you know that slept with their gf/wife on the first date? And if they did how long did it last?

 

[Rebound Material]

"Easy to get, easy to forget".

 

[lookyoung]

Muscle man this does not mean much. I would say most woman who are sexually active have at least fvcked a guy on the first night once in there lives. Consider yourself a pimp. I am sure there are guys on sosuave who would of went out on a date with those 2 girls and not have fvcked them.


Don't put much weight on this unless your looking to marry a virgin.

 

[flows101]

Note to other posters: most of the posts above are complete and utter BULL****

Chicks are run by there EMOTIONS just because a girl sleeps with a guy on the first night dose not make a hoe.

Is like nietzsche said "good and bad aint so easily defined...... boyzzzzz."

If a dude has decent game he can lay chicks on the first date because he’s bumped them though loads of DIFFREANT EMOTIONS in the hours he’s been with them. Roughly it take 8 hours from meet to sex so lets say you meet a girl on a night out, venue change a couple times spend about 4 hours with her build deep rapport and on the so called 1st date (2nd time you meet her) you spend 5 hours with and then lay her dose that mean she a slut maybe, maybe not depends how good of a Don Juan you are that’s why FIELD EXPRIENCE IS KING the more filed experience you have the more you’ll be able to tell girls that have slut tendencies from the ones that don’t.

You also can QUALIFY girls when you 1st meet them to see how adventures/sluttish they are

Don Juan: hey look you seem cool but I need to know…….. You adventures
HB: Yeah hehe
Don Juan: so tell me then what’s the most adventures thing or things you’ve ever done.

 

[L777]

Note to other posters: most of the posts above are complete and utter BULL****

Chicks are run by there EMOTIONS just because a girl sleeps with a guy on the first night dose not make a hoe.

Is like nietzsche said "good and bad aint so easily defined...... boyzzzzz."

If a dude has decent game he can lay chicks on the first date because he’s bumped them though loads of DIFFREANT EMOTIONS in the hours he’s been with them. Roughly it take 8 hours from meet to sex so lets say you meet a girl on a night out, venue change a couple times spend about 4 hours with her build deep rapport and on the so called 1st date (2nd time you meet her) you spend 5 hours with and then lay her dose that mean she a slut maybe, maybe not depends how good of a Don Juan you are that’s why FIELD EXPRIENCE IS KING the more filed experience you have the more you’ll be able to tell girls that have slut tendencies from the ones that don’t.

You also can QUALIFY girls when you 1st meet them to see how adventures/sluttish they are

Don Juan: hey look you seem cool but I need to know…….. You adventures
HB: Yeah hehe
Don Juan: so tell me then what’s the most adventures thing or things you’ve ever done.

Ditto. Especially the first line.

 

[Jariel]

It depends what you want her for. If you're looking to get laid, congratulations. If you're looking for a relationship, you're in for a tough time.

Don't think you are the only guy she's willing to sleep with on a first date. There are surely MANY before you and will be MANY after you, and don't expect a "relationship" to hold her back.

 

[Nighthawk]

Rubbish, I've had plenty of ltrs where I got her into bed the first opportunity. They were quality women who never cheated, but they just couldn't wait to get in my pants.

In fact I just read a survey (sorry, can't remember where) which said that it made no difference to the longevity or success of a relationship whether they fucked on the first date or not.

If a woman wants to cheat, she will. Making the man wait is an act to reassure him she is a good girl, but it's meaningless and a false sense of security.

The only way to stop a woman cheating is to be such a fucking prize that she daren't risk losing you.

 

[L777]

They were quality women who never cheated, but they just couldn't wait to get in my pants.

Regardless of what they told you, I doubt this severely.

 

[Solarium]

Rubbish, I've had plenty of ltrs where I got her into bed the first opportunity. They were quality women who never cheated, but they just couldn't wait to get in my pants.

In fact I just read a survey (sorry, can't remember where) which said that it made no difference to the longevity or success of a relationship whether they fucked on the first date or not.

If a woman wants to cheat, she will. Making the man wait is an act to reassure him she is a good girl, but it's meaningless and a false sense of security.

The only way to stop a woman cheating is to be such a fucking prize that she daren't risk losing you.

sometimes even encouraging them to find a "nice boy" who can take care of them better than you can, knowing that you are the prize and the girl wouldn't in the right mind do that, gets them major attraction points.

btw my ltr gf/FwB let me get into her pants the first date, and from what I can tell from her family/friends/personality she ain't a hor, probably just me and my super seduction

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

a girl who sexes you on the first night = a hor

Don't get emotional with a hor.

As long as I'm her one and only pimp I'm alright with it. Well, that goes after the first date, I could care less at that point in time.

 

[vorbis]

doesn't really make a difference as to whether she's ltr potential or not. Sex is just sex at the end of the day. You're in for a miserable life if thats all you base any relationship with a woman on. (We get on great, she's not an AW but we ****ed on the first night, I must get rid of her!)

I have no idea why theres a fixation on virginal women on this board. An American girl who is 21 + and a virgin is a more scary prospect to me than a girl who's had some boyfriends.