Girls who give goodlooking guys a hardtime

[unknownDJ]

I'm not gonna bother with the "typing the convos out" it's gonna take 2long, jus wanna get my point across as fast as possible.

Went to the clubs last night with a fellow wingman, it was really packed and hard to spot the hotties downstairs so we decided to go upstairs n buy a few drinks n chill a bit, about 20mins later there were these 2 hotties that caught my attention the blonde 1 was about a HB8.5 and the asian 1 about HB7.5. I told my friend to approach them first while I finish off my drinks, whilst my friend was approaching them some dude was chatting up with the blonde HB, so my friend kicked off a convo with the asian HB, 2mins later I came from behind but approached towards them. talked with the asian chick first a few minutes later talked with the blonde HB (that dude is still there), the blonde 1 seems very defensive around me in a fun kinda way, hard to predict her vibes which made me feel uncomfortable so went back chatting with the asian HB when my friend went to the toilet. fast forward>>>> had my arms around the asianHB dragging her away from the BlondeHB to see how she'll react, and guess what? the blonde HB stopped me from taking her friend and left the guy she was talking to standing there looking all confused. I said to the BlondeHB "whats ur problem?" and she replied "ur not taking my friend" n i replied "thats ur guy there (pointing) now go back to him", she got angry whilst refusing to let go of her friend....My friend whispered in my ear "fark them, lets go"....so we went...

Why did blonde stop me from getting her friend?


neways the night was ok, danced with a few hotties then just left them the next song- wasn't really in the mood .......

 

[Docs]

oh! She didnt' want to lose her winggirl. Since you took her away..you gave that random guy a extra plus with her (isolation).

Good stuff though.

 

[Hunterchilla]

exactly girls are worse then guys at keeping conversations believe it or not, they need their WINGGIRL.

 

[Maestro Monk]

Typical ****blocking ***** club behaviour. Similar thing happened with me while back..was grindin' away, and just beginning to get down and dirty when her friend comes over and literally pulls her away.

 

[Datawolf]

Maybe she didn't trust you to be alone with her friend.

Just a theory.

 

[Logen]

maybe she was just a psycho crazy female?

it was good that you gave her an attitude to put her in her place.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Originally posted by Datawolf
Maybe she didn't trust you to be alone with her friend.

Just a theory.

Something about her friend being drunk and waking up with some loser

 

[JJMcLure]

The blonde OBSTACLE was not DISARMED.

Your wingman was supposed to handle this, but YOU also needed to DHV (demonstrate higher value) during your time talking to the blonde. Ideally, before you came over he should have accomplishment intro'd you to them, so they think you're a cool guy when you roll up.

Then, during your time talking to them, you do the same back to him (not in front if him or it comes off lame), so they think he is a cool guy.

What was the "other dude" doing? He needed to be AMOG'ed if he was competition, or if he was their platonic friend disarmed by winning him over as your new best friend.

Test the buying temperature of the AsianHB by holding her hand before you grab her (kino test). If it's good and she holds yours back, to isolate her you could have said, "I want to show you something" and then to the other pair "I'm just going to borrow your friend for a minute, we'll be right back". While still holding her hand you lead her away.

Everything you do has to be calibrated to the chick's responses and buying temparture - you can't force her by dragging her.

If you had DHV to the chicks, disarmed the blonde and calibrated the Asian properly, she would not have tried to stop you. Arguing about it with the blonde was a no hoper. Ideally your wingman would have been occupying the blonde at the time of isolation.

If you are really interested in this stuff, the Mystery Method DVDs cover it very effectively.

 

[Jack Bauer]

Could have been any number of things happening here.

The Blonde did not want to be isolated with that guy in their group, and or the returning wingman.

She was simply c*nt-blocking for a host of possible reasons (I have had just as much if not more c**ck- blocking from women than from men.

The blonde saw you as a player, and a unknown. In other words, no trust had been established, so she thought she was protecting her friend. Perhaps you moved to soon before building more rapport.

The blonde was a lipstick lesbian, and was on the make for the Asian girl. (Happens a lot nowdays and more than you think).

I wouldn't sweat it either way. Keep on keeping on, bro.