mahon83050
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There is this girl I work with who is always busting my balls and actually uses the ****y+funny approach with me I guess. I also got a real short hair cut and she has come over and felt it a couple of times. Good signs?
Girls who bust your balls
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GirlCrazy
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*Magic 8 ball says*
Signs point to Yes
Signs point to Yes
trajhenkhet
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Sounds to me like its time to get another level of nut busting going on.
So basically what you guys are saying, is that if a girl busts your nuts that means she wants you? uuuuugh so now all these dudes MUST THINK I LIKE THEM! cuz I joke around with them! HOW SAD! A girl can't even have a sense of humore around a guy cuz then that means SHE WANTS HIM! BLAH! 
I guess it wouldn't be a problem if these dudes where at least good looking but uuuugh! never mind!
I guess it wouldn't be a problem if these dudes where at least good looking but uuuugh! never mind!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
you'd run your hand through and ugly guy's hair that you don't really know?
Sir Jeffrey
Don Juan
I'm going through the same thing. There's a girl that busts my balls at work all the ****ing time, I think she's just doing that expecting me to get frustrated so I ALWAYS take it with a smile and am always extra nice to her just to show her that I can take whatever she can gives me. That's what I think you should do but I could be totally off.
aaww what's wrong burst your bubbles did I? just because a girl jokes around with another guys doesn't mean she WANTS HIM!! Just because a girl is nice to a guy DOESN'T MEAN SHE WANTS HIM!!
Now if you ask a girl out and she accepts! then MAYBE she's interested. But you'll never know because your still sitting here trying to decide if BUSTING A GUYS BALLS MEANS SHE WANTS YOU!
sheesh! what's wrong syemour did I hit a SOFT SPOT? don't worry looks aren't every thing.
I don't recall any one saying the girl RAN HER Hand THROUGH HIS HAIR!? again your being delusional. I believe the term he used was FELT! his hair, you know like when someone gets a buzz cut and every one RUBS the semi-baldies head for good luck?! And as a matter of fact "yes" I have done that to my mail friends, right before a softball game! and you know what, we Won so I guess it worked.
You all can keep asking each other for advice, which would be like the BLIND leading the BLIND!
Because we women know, how much you men know about us, RIGHT Syemour? hahahaha! So brilliant!
So far Igor is the only one who makes sense here!
Keep up the good work guys!
Now if you ask a girl out and she accepts! then MAYBE she's interested. But you'll never know because your still sitting here trying to decide if BUSTING A GUYS BALLS MEANS SHE WANTS YOU!
sheesh! what's wrong syemour did I hit a SOFT SPOT? don't worry looks aren't every thing.
I don't recall any one saying the girl RAN HER Hand THROUGH HIS HAIR!? again your being delusional. I believe the term he used was FELT! his hair, you know like when someone gets a buzz cut and every one RUBS the semi-baldies head for good luck?! And as a matter of fact "yes" I have done that to my mail friends, right before a softball game! and you know what, we Won so I guess it worked.
You all can keep asking each other for advice, which would be like the BLIND leading the BLIND!
Because we women know, how much you men know about us, RIGHT Syemour? hahahaha! So brilliant!
So far Igor is the only one who makes sense here!
Keep up the good work guys!
mahon83050
Banned
Well Geek Girl, you maybe correct and then again, maybe not. She might have no romantic interest at all. However, one thing is certain, the girl IS NOT turned off by me nor does she dislike me. If you dislike someone you would not even talk to them, let alone joke with them. The same thing with touching, a girl who does not like you, will avoid touching you at all costs. BTW, I work in a very small one room building with only like 20 something employees. Asking her out is not worth all the B.S anyways. She has a cute face and big boobs, but could stand to lose another 15-20lbs. Right now I give her a 6-, if she loses the weight she can hit an 7.5+ or low 8!! Thanks for all the replies.
If you never ask a question, you will never learn. If you never ask a question, you'll never know whether or not this girl likes you. Now, now geek girl you shouldn't condemn a person for asking a question. For one day we may have to answer your question "Why do guys aviod me?" Well out of my good nature I will preempt this question and answer for you.
You act like a guy, you horse around like one, certainly talk like one, your playing of sports will send signals that your just one of the guys. If you've noticed most men go for women who are typical women, you're obiviously not. Most likely you are an outsider within your "sisterhood" amongst women, for one most normal women would not come to a site such as this. Their social conditioning and the fact they probably have a decent mastery over dealing with relationships would preclude their need or interest in coming here. You on the other hand probably lack the ability to throw socially acceptable hints to guys. Hence you come here to observe what things we consider to be goods signs of interest. That way you can mimick them yourself, so you can appear to be socially acceptable.(Sociopaths adopt similar behaviors) The proof is in the pudding my dear, your interest in the dicussion by posting here signals it. Also your choosing to "bust" on seymour is an attempt to test this new theory you have accquired that "busting" on a guy is a way to give a good hint. You may say that this is an unreasonable assertion to make, but your ****iness and directness of your writing style suggest you were looking to pick a fight with who ever responded to you, and allow to test your new theory that you learned her. But I don't blame you for picking a fight here, women love drama and require a certain amount of it in their lives. Its obvious that your life lacks much interest as you had to come here to pick a fight to create artifical drama with absolute strangers to compensate for you dull social life. I noticed that Seymour didn't respond to you and no one else besides me probably will, because we aren't angry at you, we feel sorry for you and the poor lot in life you seem to have. I hope you can grow as a person and one day find a man who can accept you for who you are if thats your aim, at the very least I wish you to have a more fullfilling life so you aren't stuck to coming to these sites for artifical social interaction. I think its safe to say we pity you not as a woman, but as a human being. Best of luck, and know it was not my purpose to offend, but to merely show you how rude a person you must be.
To the poster of the orginal question, playful teasing and touching can be considered a sign of interest. But relationships at work can cause problems to be advised. Good Luck
-Grey Fox
You act like a guy, you horse around like one, certainly talk like one, your playing of sports will send signals that your just one of the guys. If you've noticed most men go for women who are typical women, you're obiviously not. Most likely you are an outsider within your "sisterhood" amongst women, for one most normal women would not come to a site such as this. Their social conditioning and the fact they probably have a decent mastery over dealing with relationships would preclude their need or interest in coming here. You on the other hand probably lack the ability to throw socially acceptable hints to guys. Hence you come here to observe what things we consider to be goods signs of interest. That way you can mimick them yourself, so you can appear to be socially acceptable.(Sociopaths adopt similar behaviors) The proof is in the pudding my dear, your interest in the dicussion by posting here signals it. Also your choosing to "bust" on seymour is an attempt to test this new theory you have accquired that "busting" on a guy is a way to give a good hint. You may say that this is an unreasonable assertion to make, but your ****iness and directness of your writing style suggest you were looking to pick a fight with who ever responded to you, and allow to test your new theory that you learned her. But I don't blame you for picking a fight here, women love drama and require a certain amount of it in their lives. Its obvious that your life lacks much interest as you had to come here to pick a fight to create artifical drama with absolute strangers to compensate for you dull social life. I noticed that Seymour didn't respond to you and no one else besides me probably will, because we aren't angry at you, we feel sorry for you and the poor lot in life you seem to have. I hope you can grow as a person and one day find a man who can accept you for who you are if thats your aim, at the very least I wish you to have a more fullfilling life so you aren't stuck to coming to these sites for artifical social interaction. I think its safe to say we pity you not as a woman, but as a human being. Best of luck, and know it was not my purpose to offend, but to merely show you how rude a person you must be.
To the poster of the orginal question, playful teasing and touching can be considered a sign of interest. But relationships at work can cause problems to be advised. Good Luck
-Grey Fox
mahon83050,
You might be able to hit that, hahaha! If you can joke around with her she probably likes you, Most girls dig on guys with a good sense of humor, guys who aren't afraid to show thier goofy side. But your move NOT to hit on her is probably a good one, that sort of junk can only bring bad mojo to the work place. But look at it this way! at least you have something to look forward to at work hahaha! And you know what else, if she lost the wieght she would probably lose her huge boobs as well, really now what fun would that be? ha!
You might be able to hit that, hahaha! If you can joke around with her she probably likes you, Most girls dig on guys with a good sense of humor, guys who aren't afraid to show thier goofy side. But your move NOT to hit on her is probably a good one, that sort of junk can only bring bad mojo to the work place. But look at it this way! at least you have something to look forward to at work hahaha! And you know what else, if she lost the wieght she would probably lose her huge boobs as well, really now what fun would that be? ha!
As for you Grey Fox,
I hope your not expecting to get your Psychology PhD, don't quit your day job....if you even have one.
No one is condemning here, maybe my so called RUDENESS got you all hot and bothered it made your brain turn to mush, I never, implied that ASKING QUESTIONS was a BAD, BAD THING! I was simply stating that one may NOT LIKE the answers/truth to their questions. And it's obvious with Syemour he was not happy with the response I gave, am I correct in assuming this? I was in no way looking for a fight, nor was I BUSTING on anyone, we are all entitled to our opinion.
I was only trying to prove a point,
You see this is where most men make fools of them selves, if a women is nice to a man, he immediately thinks SHE WANTS ME, But when she doesn't put out, she is merely called a TEASE, and when a women isn't NICE to a man she is merley considerd a BIT** so you see either way women get the raw end of the deal.
And for your information if a women wants to joke around with the guys maybe it's because she wants to be FRIENDS with the guy, and nothing more!
what a funny OLD man you are, I can see how that might be a problem with your "sisterhood" theory! haha. Your right I am probably just one of the guys to my male friends, and when they come over to my side where I hang with the girls, they in return are just one of the girls! and we all get along just swell, so you see I blend in quiet well in both environments! yes it's rare...I know!! And I have never had a problem getting a man, I have had several problems trying to get rid of a few. As matter of fact I AM MARRIED TO A MAN! HAHAHAHA! So pahlease! again your theory is crushed!
Sounds like you need to get out more often and see the WORLD! A few weeks ago I stumbled in to this forum and I found it very entertaining, And half of the subject matters are about the same discussions I share with my male AND FEMALE co-workers, So now we throw some of the tips from this board to our signal MALE & FEMALE friends, and at the same time get in touch with some of the male issues to help us improve our own relationship with spouses!!
By the way I don't eat pudding, and REALLY don't feel SORRY FOR ME! take a good look in the mirror and tell your self it's OKAY to be you! I mean why do you come to this forum, to boost your low self esteem perhaps? to make friends??? to offer some of your 17th century wisdom? I also wish you to have a more fulfilling life so you aren't stuck to coming to these sites for artificial social interaction. Blah! who REALLY, REALLY, is the one with the ARTIFICIAL INTERACTION ISSUES??? yeah that's what I thought! kinda like the pot calling the kettle black HUH?
And I also hope you can one day grow as a person and discover a women has more then SEX TO OFFER A MAN, SHE HAS FRIENDSHIP AND HUMOR weather it be to her mate or a friend, These things she can share with-in her "Sisterhood as well as OUT of her sisterhood" I personally DON'T DISCRIMINATE! unlike YOU!.
I may be RUDE in your eyes. But at least I have a LIFE with out a blow up doll!
Peace, and I pray that God may grant you a sense of humor!
Go now to Love and Serve the world!
I hope your not expecting to get your Psychology PhD, don't quit your day job....if you even have one.
No one is condemning here, maybe my so called RUDENESS got you all hot and bothered it made your brain turn to mush, I never, implied that ASKING QUESTIONS was a BAD, BAD THING! I was simply stating that one may NOT LIKE the answers/truth to their questions. And it's obvious with Syemour he was not happy with the response I gave, am I correct in assuming this? I was in no way looking for a fight, nor was I BUSTING on anyone, we are all entitled to our opinion.
I was only trying to prove a point,
You see this is where most men make fools of them selves, if a women is nice to a man, he immediately thinks SHE WANTS ME, But when she doesn't put out, she is merely called a TEASE, and when a women isn't NICE to a man she is merley considerd a BIT** so you see either way women get the raw end of the deal.
And for your information if a women wants to joke around with the guys maybe it's because she wants to be FRIENDS with the guy, and nothing more!
what a funny OLD man you are, I can see how that might be a problem with your "sisterhood" theory! haha. Your right I am probably just one of the guys to my male friends, and when they come over to my side where I hang with the girls, they in return are just one of the girls! and we all get along just swell, so you see I blend in quiet well in both environments! yes it's rare...I know!! And I have never had a problem getting a man, I have had several problems trying to get rid of a few. As matter of fact I AM MARRIED TO A MAN! HAHAHAHA! So pahlease! again your theory is crushed!
Sounds like you need to get out more often and see the WORLD! A few weeks ago I stumbled in to this forum and I found it very entertaining, And half of the subject matters are about the same discussions I share with my male AND FEMALE co-workers, So now we throw some of the tips from this board to our signal MALE & FEMALE friends, and at the same time get in touch with some of the male issues to help us improve our own relationship with spouses!!
By the way I don't eat pudding, and REALLY don't feel SORRY FOR ME! take a good look in the mirror and tell your self it's OKAY to be you! I mean why do you come to this forum, to boost your low self esteem perhaps? to make friends??? to offer some of your 17th century wisdom? I also wish you to have a more fulfilling life so you aren't stuck to coming to these sites for artificial social interaction. Blah! who REALLY, REALLY, is the one with the ARTIFICIAL INTERACTION ISSUES??? yeah that's what I thought! kinda like the pot calling the kettle black HUH?
And I also hope you can one day grow as a person and discover a women has more then SEX TO OFFER A MAN, SHE HAS FRIENDSHIP AND HUMOR weather it be to her mate or a friend, These things she can share with-in her "Sisterhood as well as OUT of her sisterhood" I personally DON'T DISCRIMINATE! unlike YOU!.
I may be RUDE in your eyes. But at least I have a LIFE with out a blow up doll!
Peace, and I pray that God may grant you a sense of humor!
Go now to Love and Serve the world!
thejuice
Master Don Juan
You kids crack me up
If she busts your balls, bust them back dude. Make fun of her hair, her makeup, her SHOES!
If you dont know how to respond to her, make fun of her shoes. Its like an extension of their womanhood. Haha
Its true...say that your old auntie has shoes like those. Its funny
Dont be worrying about whether or not she likes you. Once you get into that busting of each other, then you should worry about winning the word argument. If she likes you or not is already determined
Geek girl...youre a funny chick. You remind me of rosie o donnel after she shaved her head and talked **** about her old show
If she busts your balls, bust them back dude. Make fun of her hair, her makeup, her SHOES!
If you dont know how to respond to her, make fun of her shoes. Its like an extension of their womanhood. Haha
Its true...say that your old auntie has shoes like those. Its funny
Dont be worrying about whether or not she likes you. Once you get into that busting of each other, then you should worry about winning the word argument. If she likes you or not is already determined
Geek girl...youre a funny chick. You remind me of rosie o donnel after she shaved her head and talked **** about her old show
Mail? What, you mean they work at the post office?Originally posted by GeekGirl
"yes" I have done that to my mail friends
LOL, isn't it embarassing when you're trying to act intelligent but you can't spell.Your right I am probably just one of the guys to my male friends, and when they come over to my side where I hang with the girls, they in return are just one of the girls! and we all get along just swell, so you see I blend in quiet well in both environments!
Well, by behaving in the way you do around men, teasing them and "busting their balls", you are leading them on. You refer to your guy friends as "one of the girls", that obviously makes them AFC, too afraid to be MEN. YOu show signs that men regard as signs of interest (how many times have MY female friends told me "if a girl teases you, she likes you").
I equate what you are doing, to a man asking for a girls number because "he just wants to be friends"...
Most girls aren't normally open enough to tease and make fun of every guy they know, so when they start doing it to me, I get to thinking, maybe she likes me...is that wrong?
Do you tease EVERY guy you know, or just "the girls"?
Santos
iqqi
Master Don Juan
hmmmm....entertaining...
where is my popcorn?
where is my popcorn?
nistelrooy
Don Juan
GeekGirl,
Are you really a geek?
Naw, wait....
Are you really a girl?
Are you really a geek?
Naw, wait....
Are you really a girl?
lerxst
Don Juan
Oh man.... imagine the poor AFC married to GeekGirl. To quote Mr. T: "I pity the fool!"
Brilliant Santos, YOU MUST HAVE A HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA! How grand you’re the Grammar Master of the Universe!! Wooohooo!
I have never had to lead any man on, because as you see I am up-front and honest about what I want and what I DON’T WANT! And right now I don’t give a rats ass what a guy thinks of me! I already have what I need at home, I don’t have to impress anyone! You’d be surprised at how many friends you can have if you just let your self BE WHO YOU ARE! But I know the majority of boys have LOW SELFESTEEM and may take this as a threat, It’s okay your not the first man not to be comfortable with the size of their man hood. Look around at the types of guys that are getting the girls, the uptight ones? or the care free ones?
If a guy doesn’t have the BALLS! to ask instead of Assumes what a women is implying that’s his own fault! Let him make a fool of him self.
Most girls aren’t open nor do they tease, WHY YOU ASK, because of guys like you who think if they pay attention to them in that sort of way, Then the guy may SURELY think “she wants him” hahaha, come one, how many girl FRIENDS do you guys have??? NONE? I know I am right, you don’t have any girl friends that you can confide in about your dating needs, your fashion needs, someone to shoot the breeze with at lunch! You have NO FEMALE FRIENDS!….No, of course not, imagine that a guy taking advice from a girl, now that wouldn’t be the MANLY thing to do, You really don’t have a clue as to how to maintain a friendship with a girl. And I mean girls that you can really just talk **** to! And I DON’T MEAN IN A SEXUAL HARRASSMENT sort of way. Gee, you think we sit around all day drinking tea and crumpets, while exchanging fashion tips? All girls aren’t that uptight ALL GIRLS DON’T go out with guys with money, and ALL girls aren’t snobby.
You are so missing the point if a girl can feels comfortable in front of a guy, that MAY LEAD to something. Get it?
I mean I am married, no guy that I work with or any of the guys that I grew up with would ever MISTAKE my sh** talking as a pass. And if they did there morons.
If I don’t know you, I am not going to bust your balls right then and there. You get to know the person first, to see how he will take the cut downs, and usually if a guy can take the beating, he’s okay! Other wise you know he’s up tight so you don’t bother including him in the circle, life is to short to hang out with up tight ass’s unless of course one is looking to hang out with an up tight!. So basically busting your balls means she’s feeling you out, and I don’t mean that in a PHYSICAL WAY! She’s checking out your personality! Are you Cool or Are you a PRUDE! Does this guy have potential or not? And that could mean any thing Friend ship, dating etc. depending on the girl, so if the girl is shopping around for a man, then she might take it a step further or vice versa. There is a whole big picture. No wonder their are so many failed relationships! To many people assume with out communication!
As I stated before, I don’t discriminate, I can TEASE! (And I do mean sh** talking tease!) with the girls and the guys!
NISTELROOY: Yes really!
Grey Fox: Have you heard The argument? Is there no offence in 't
Lerxst: Don’t “pitty the fool”, Because my man IS comfortable with the size of HIS man hood!! you'd think I would stand for any thing less....I THINK NOT!
I have never had to lead any man on, because as you see I am up-front and honest about what I want and what I DON’T WANT! And right now I don’t give a rats ass what a guy thinks of me! I already have what I need at home, I don’t have to impress anyone! You’d be surprised at how many friends you can have if you just let your self BE WHO YOU ARE! But I know the majority of boys have LOW SELFESTEEM and may take this as a threat, It’s okay your not the first man not to be comfortable with the size of their man hood. Look around at the types of guys that are getting the girls, the uptight ones? or the care free ones?
If a guy doesn’t have the BALLS! to ask instead of Assumes what a women is implying that’s his own fault! Let him make a fool of him self.
Most girls aren’t open nor do they tease, WHY YOU ASK, because of guys like you who think if they pay attention to them in that sort of way, Then the guy may SURELY think “she wants him” hahaha, come one, how many girl FRIENDS do you guys have??? NONE? I know I am right, you don’t have any girl friends that you can confide in about your dating needs, your fashion needs, someone to shoot the breeze with at lunch! You have NO FEMALE FRIENDS!….No, of course not, imagine that a guy taking advice from a girl, now that wouldn’t be the MANLY thing to do, You really don’t have a clue as to how to maintain a friendship with a girl. And I mean girls that you can really just talk **** to! And I DON’T MEAN IN A SEXUAL HARRASSMENT sort of way. Gee, you think we sit around all day drinking tea and crumpets, while exchanging fashion tips? All girls aren’t that uptight ALL GIRLS DON’T go out with guys with money, and ALL girls aren’t snobby.
You are so missing the point if a girl can feels comfortable in front of a guy, that MAY LEAD to something. Get it?
I mean I am married, no guy that I work with or any of the guys that I grew up with would ever MISTAKE my sh** talking as a pass. And if they did there morons.
If I don’t know you, I am not going to bust your balls right then and there. You get to know the person first, to see how he will take the cut downs, and usually if a guy can take the beating, he’s okay! Other wise you know he’s up tight so you don’t bother including him in the circle, life is to short to hang out with up tight ass’s unless of course one is looking to hang out with an up tight!. So basically busting your balls means she’s feeling you out, and I don’t mean that in a PHYSICAL WAY! She’s checking out your personality! Are you Cool or Are you a PRUDE! Does this guy have potential or not? And that could mean any thing Friend ship, dating etc. depending on the girl, so if the girl is shopping around for a man, then she might take it a step further or vice versa. There is a whole big picture. No wonder their are so many failed relationships! To many people assume with out communication!
As I stated before, I don’t discriminate, I can TEASE! (And I do mean sh** talking tease!) with the girls and the guys!
NISTELROOY: Yes really!
Grey Fox: Have you heard The argument? Is there no offence in 't
Lerxst: Don’t “pitty the fool”, Because my man IS comfortable with the size of HIS man hood!! you'd think I would stand for any thing less....I THINK NOT!
