Girls walking down the street

[Sparky]

Bear in mind that I'm in the UK so I don't know whether this is different in America etc?

Earlier I was taking the car for a spin and saw this lovely girl walking down the street - just my type, a fairly rare type around these parts, kind of rock n roll chick. She had dyed blue hair, and a low cut kid of slightly goth-ey dress, lovely body, lovely face.
I didn't do anything - my reckoning was it's just creepy to stop girls on the street.
This also happened to me a few weeks ago as well.
I fell like I've completely flaked, but on the other hand I don't rate the chances of just stopping a random girl and trying to talk to her, you know what it's like nowadays.

What's the deal? Is it just a no-no or is it possible in some shape or form? I figure they're just gonna find it creepy and not respond well.

Its a shame really - around my way there aren't really a lot of places to go out etc. - ironically most of the girls I see that I like are just walking along the street, and I feel that I can't do anything about it.

What's your take?

 

[Domo_Arigatoo]

I've read something on this forum about stopping girls and making a scene to show interest. Like jumping from a bench and holding out your hand to yell, "STOP!" if a woman is jogging by, Or getting out of your car to stop traffic, then go over her and get her # by saying, "Did you know that you're so amazing that you can stop traffic?"
I'm not sure if it really works and it's not in my nature to try something like that, but it was in the golden tips section so i'm assuming it's reliable.

 

[Sparky]

Thanks for that Domo, I guess sometimes that might work. The thing with this one was I was driving though, so bit difficult to implement anything apart from grinding to a screeching halt, which would have probably scared her off anyway.

I am slowly coming to the conclusion that it's a no-win. If driving and you see a girl you like, you can't do anything, you just have to suck it up that it ain't gonna happen.

Any other opinions from anyone? Anyone disagree with that?

 

[Chamber36]

I was driving around with a friend today, and he has incredible game.
As soon as we dropped off his girlfriend to get some groceries, he was honking at all types of women in the street.

He yelled out the window to 1 woman: "you know i've always loved you!"

Sometimes he honked at such ugly and fat girls it was so funny, and they didn't laugh! They were looking at us all angry! It was so funny.

Then when we were parked and these 4 slutty girls passed he honked like a madman. That was pretty funny too. Lateron he just yelled to some chick if he could join her. She laughed and said: "if you want"

So my opinion on this: Use the car to yell at chicks to keep your game sharp. It'll help you to blurt out whatever you feel like blurting, thus liberating you from barriers of self-conciousness.

It depends on the type of person you are. If i had a car I might yell out some things to girls. Some people just don't do it, and some do. I think it's a good thing to do though.

 

[Sparky]

I was driving around with a friend today, and he has incredible game.
As soon as we dropped off his girlfriend to get some groceries, he was honking at all types of women in the street.

He yelled out the window to 1 woman: "you know i've always loved you!"

Sometimes he honked at such ugly and fat girls it was so funny, and they didn't laugh! They were looking at us all angry! It was so funny.

Then when we were parked and these 4 slutty girls passed he honked like a madman. That was pretty funny too. Lateron he just yelled to some chick if he could join her. She laughed and said: "if you want"

So my opinion on this: Use the car to yell at chicks to keep your game sharp. It'll help you to blurt out whatever you feel like blurting, thus liberating you from barriers of self-conciousness.

It depends on the type of person you are. If i had a car I might yell out some things to girls. Some people just don't do it, and some do. I think it's a good thing to do though.

Haahaa that's funny. Especially as he did it after he'd dropped his g/f off.
My problem is momentum - I think that's what it's all about. Your friend has built up momentum of game, and once it's rolling it's rolling.
With me, girls have always approached me, and while that was all very nice, it has led me to be a bit lazy about developing the momentum of my game.

The other thing about the blue haired girl earlier I forgot to mention was that I saw her twice - once at a bus stop, and then once a few minutes later walking from the bus stop. Her bus obviously hadn't come. Damn - I'm sure a more skillful DJ than me could have made something out of that situation, but all I could think of was she looked like someone who needed a lift.

I was convinced though that stopping and telling her she looked like she needed a lift would have made me out to be some kind of kidnapper or rapist or something. In my mind, there's no way a girl will hop into a stranger's car.

Like I say maybe it's different in America, but in the UK people are very suspicious and cynical.

 

[Chamber36]

I don't think you should care whether people are suspicious or cynical.
If you offer a girl a ride she should be thankful. She could still decline thankfully, it doesn't make you some kind of weirdo.

You should be yelling out teh window because you want to, not because that girl specifically made you want to. It should be fun in general, so if the girl is making you nervous, remember that you're nervous because it's a learning experience.

 

[Sparky]

If you offer a girl a ride she should be thankful. She could still decline thankfully, it doesn't make you some kind of weirdo.

Thanks, man, that gives me a bit of hope. I just wish I'd known that 5 hours ago. BALLS AND BOLLOCKS AND ****. And she looked really pissed off that her bus hadn't come as well.
I am genuinely as well the type of guy that would have given her a lift right to the doorstep of wherever she was going. And knowing my luck, that would have been her boyfriend's house HAHAHAHA.

I'll remember this. And to the other people on this forum - just learn from my mistakes.

If I see her again, I ain't gonna pass next time. And I guess the advantage is her blue hair - I can recognise her a mile off! I wonder whether she gets that bus regularly? Hmmm......

 

[Paradise]

Hi first post here, but my two cents. You know where she frequents. Park the car, then walk up to her. If you don't see her then explore the neighborhood. It shouldn't be too hard to bump into her and start a convo. Don't start yelling out of the car. (Desperate or something?) If you really want to get into the screeching stop routine You can run the "there you are, I've been looking all over for you. Come on we're going to be late" routine.

She protests but you insist she "stop fooling around. Please get in the car." Then as she insists she is not the woman you claim her to be, you sheepishly grin and ask, "well who are you?" She tells you. "OMG, you are the spitting image of so and so. We need to get a cup so I can get to know you. You'll love meeting her Give me your number."

So now you've implied you will introduce her to her long lost twin. The two of you end up going somewhere. Now you draw her out and put on your show. If it goes well enough, you get her digits or plan for a second get together. When she asks to meet her twin you agree. Now you're on date three. Keep making excuses until you think it won't matter. Hopefully she laughs when you tell her.

Excuses
#1 I don't just bring a stranger into my group of friends. I need to get to know you first.
#2 Let's spend some more time together first.
#3 Ok. I'll give her a call.
#4 Sorry. I forgot to call her.
#5 She called and said she couldn't make it.
#6 She called to say she'll be late.
#7 She said she couldn't make it.
#8 She's sick.
#9 She isn't sure she wants to see her double
#10 She stopped speaking to me because she's jealous of you.