Girls that text message a lot

[typical]

Texts you alot then ask her out or whatever and well nail her, anywhere is fine

Dont listen to the bs she texts you alot so there is interest just hook up and nail her period.

 

[Oxide]

I once nailed this guy to the board, they made a movie about it.

Too soon?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

If she's txting you a lot, i'd say she is interested.

Not necessarily, from what this one was texting she was just bored and was reaching out to someone she felt would give her attention. If she's interested she'd go out with him.

 

[DJDamage]

It's my experience that if you're not banging her, you're her chat buddy.

That is the truth.

Mr.Fantastic I suggest you don't respond every time she text message's you because to her its like a control thing. She knows where you are and what you are doing even when you are not around. When you answer her right away you put her mind at ease that she has the upper hand. When you don't answer her then she starts to panic, starts to think irrational thoughts such as: "is he mad at me?" is he seeing someone else"? and thus she thinks about you alot more then before and the more a girl thinks about you the better position you are left with.

Remain a challange and use text messages sparingly. Let her 20 other girlfriends and AFC "male friends" entertain her via text when you are not around.

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

ok, so I took her out yesterday, got some major kino.. had my arms round her most of the night and she was leaning right into me...kissed her several times.

She has text me today saying 'I probably shouln't say this, but fvck I wanna kiss you right now!'...

I havn't replied yet...what do you guys think?

Im considering going: 'I wanna do more than kiss...wanna meet up later?'

or how about: 'could be arranged...wanna invite me round for coffee?'

Then i'll proceed round her place...

How does that sound?

 

[Oxide]

Personally I wouldn't text that. Don't sound like you are anxious to get in her pants just yet.
You are kind of putting all the chips on red here. If she likes it - sex is there. if she doesn't - you have to work x2 as hard.

Just say "Why don't you stop by at 5" or "I'll pick you up at 6"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'd just say, "I know," and leave it at that; but I'm a ****y SOB..

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

I went with 'wanna meet up later?' she suggested going out somewhere in her immediate area...I will be persuing things as far as I can take them I think...i'll let ya'all know how it goes.

 

[Oxide]

I'd just say, "I know," and leave it at that; but I'm a ****y SOB..

So how many women have you lost being this ****y bastard? Or is it that women after 30 don't have many other options and stick around?

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

So how many women have you lost being this ****y bastard? Or is it that women after 30 don't have many other options and stick around?

That's actually a VERY good reply. Of course it works better in person when you can say it very nonchalantly and immediatly change the subject.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

That's actually a VERY good reply. Of course it works better in person when you can say it very nonchalantly and immediatly change the subject.

This is true. Personally I'm not going to pander to every woman who just want to send me a message about making out or whatever else, those women are a dime a dozen. Show me some substance, make a plan for us to get together and then show me your intentions. Text messages are just words, at least give me a call and leave me a dirty message. All this texting back and forth is like kids passing notes in class. "Do you like me? Check 'yes' or 'no'."

 

[JC9]

I met this girl recently and we have been out once, but she texts me every day...saying stuff like 'im in lectures, its boring, what you upto?' stuff like that. Now, i'm not always up to much, im just wondering what you guys do about texting like this..I mean I guess its gotta be good right, sign of high interest? should I be seeing her quite often in this situation? What witty things do you put in a message when you havnt done much? Should I be a challenge and ignore some messages?

Thanks

Ignore most of her texts. Answer a few.

If she is interested in you sexually, it will make the challenge greater for her to win you.

If she isn't interested in you sexually and thinks of you as her emotional tampon, she'll stop texting and get her attention fix elsewhere.

For the guy who said girls only text 'Im bored, what are you doing' type messages to friends, you are way off.

The random texts go way up after you start ****ing them.

She could be talking with her friends about random crap, have it remind her of some emotion she felt with you and she'll almost instantly text you random crap hopeing you will respond so she can feel that intimacy again with you. This is especially true in the first month or so your sleeping with a girl.

Still continue to ignore most of her texts after you start sleeping with her though, you don't need to validate her all the time by answering; validate her through sex.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So how many women have you lost being this ****y bastard? Or is it that women after 30 don't have many other options and stick around?

It may not only be options but they are actually a bit more selective about who they spend time with. Twenty-something women usually have more men throwing themselves at them so they can easily go somewhere else to have their ego's stroked if that is what they are looking for instead of a relationship. Better to find that out ahead of time.

Mostly only confident and creative women can keep up mainly because they are about as ****y themselves or at least have the confidence to hold their own. Maybe women who are 30+ aren't as self conscious as women that are 20+, they would rather have the attention from one guy than an entire stable of them.

 

[vagrant]

she wants you to call her. that's how me and my girl started, through text messages. but we had one same class together, more like lunch. it was awkward cuz we text each other a lot and completely silent in person. we found out we both like each other a lot...now she's everything to me. a friend, a lover, **** she makes my day everyday!~

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

Well, I met up with her, went to a bar, watched a few pub bands, then I said 'shall we go check out another bar or something?' she agreed, then we walked 'aimlessly' but she obviously knew where she was going...ended up at hers, and we boned...

Just lettin ya'all know so people can learn from this thread...:random text messages=good.